The gentle trap of a bad man
My name is Li Hao and I come from an ordinary family of teachers. His father was a rigorous history teacher, and his mother was a gentle Chinese teacher. Growing up in such a family environment, I naturally got a bit bookish, but at the same time a little reserved and conservative.
After graduating from university, I worked in the marketing department of a large company. Dealing with numbers and planning cases every day, although I am busy with work, I always feel that something is missing. Especially when it comes to relationships, I always seem to pass by fate.
My friends often laugh at me for being too serious and not romantic. They said, "Li Hao, you have to learn from those so-called 'bad men' and know how to please girls." "I've always been dismissive, and I think it's important to be honest with people. However, as time went on, I began to realize that maybe I really needed to change things up.
Until that day, I met her - Su Qing. She is a new designer in the company, with long jet-black hair, bright eyes, and always a faint smile. She was unlike any girl I had ever met, and I was fascinated by her independence, intelligence, and liveliness.
However, I also clearly know that a girl like Su Qing would not like an "honest person" like me. What she needs is the kind of man who can surprise and romance her. I started thinking about how I could make myself more attractive and more attractive to her.
I started to pay attention to fashion, to pay attention to trends, to learn how to match clothes, how to dress myself. I try to participate in various social events to expand my social circle. I learned how to talk to girls, how to show my humor and fun. I even started trying things that I hadn't tried before, like learning guitar, learning dance.
My changes didn't pay off immediately, but I found myself becoming more confident and cheerful in the process. I began to enjoy the process of interacting with people and enjoying the feeling of being noticed and recognized.
One night, the company held a celebration. I plucked up the courage to invite Su Qing to join me. She hesitated, but finally agreed. That night, I put on a new outfit and my newly learned guitar.
At the celebration, I played and sang a tender love song. When I looked up and saw Su Qing, she was looking at me intently, her eyes flashing with surprise and appreciation. At that moment, I knew I had taken a successful step.
After the event, I plucked up the courage to invite Su Qing to go for a walk with me. We walked through the night, chatting about each other's hobbies and dreams. I tried to communicate with her in a more relaxed and humorous way to make her feel my sincerity and warmth.
Gradually, Su Qing began to take an interest in me. She found that I was not a boring "honest person", but a person with my own ideas and pursuits. We started going on dates, going to the movies, eating, and shopping frequently...... Every time I get along, I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
However, just when I thought I had succeeded in winning Su Qing's heart, an unexpected situation happened.
One night, Su Qing suddenly received a phone call. On the other end of the line was her ex-boyfriend, who told her he was leaving the city to develop abroad. Su Qing looked a little hesitant and uneasy, she didn't know if she should go to see him for the last time.
I knew this was a critical moment, and I couldn't let Su Qing leave me again. I took a deep breath and said to her, "Su Qing, I know you're hesitant right now. But what I want to tell you is that no matter what decision you make, I will support you and accompany you. Because I love you, not only because of your beauty and intelligence, but also because of your independence and strength. I hope that together we will be able to face the challenges and difficulties ahead. ”
Su Qing looked at my serious eyes, was silent for a moment, and then nodded. She told me that she had decided not to see her ex-boyfriend because she had found someone to cherish – and that was me.
From that moment on, we formalized the relationship. We started planning for the future, talking about dreams and plans. I know that I still have a lot to do and things to improve, but I will try to make myself better, more mature, and more able to take on the responsibilities and obligations of a man.
Looking back now, I am deeply grateful that experience allowed me to meet such a good girl as Su Qing. It was she who made me understand the true meaning of "men are not bad and women are not loved" - it is not really necessary to be bad to attract the hearts of girls, but to know how to show their charm and gentleness in order to win true love and happiness. At the same time, I also realize that everyone gradually finds their own happiness and home in the process of growth and change. As long as we maintain a sincere and kind attitude to face every challenge and opportunity in life, we will definitely be able to harvest our own beautiful life.