Liang Qichao is in love with a foreign country, and his wife is wise and happy: marriage is like a chess game, and retreat is to advance to show wisdom
I, Li Huixian, was born in a scholarly family where tradition and modernity are intertwined. Since I was a child, under the influence of my father, I have been familiar with the subset of scriptures and histories, and I have a strong interest in poetry and songs. However, I am not a lady in the traditional sense, I have my own thoughts and opinions, and I also want to have a love like no other.
The encounter with Liang Qichao seems to be a providential arrangement. He was so talented and insightful that we were drawn to each other and we quickly fell in love. At that time, I was convinced that he was the partner with whom I would spend my life.
However, the road to life is not all smooth sailing. On Liang Qichao's study and career path, he had to go abroad for further study. Although I am reluctant, I know that this is for his future and for our future. So, I sent him away with tears in my eyes, praying silently in my heart that he would return safely.
However, the days in a foreign country were not as peaceful as I had hoped. Liang Qichao met Ho Hye-jin in Japan, a woman with similar interests to him. When I heard the news, my heart was wrenching. I knew that I couldn't just sit idly by, I had to make some effort for my marriage, for my family.
But I also understand that forcible intervention is counterproductive. So, I decided to take a smarter approach. I wrote a long letter to Liang Qichao, which did not mention He Huizhen, but expressed my thoughts and concern for him, and also told him that no matter where he is, my heart is with him.
I told him that I trusted his judgment and choice, but I also hoped that he would understand that marriage was not just a matter for two people, but also a responsibility for two families. I reminded him to always be mindful of who he is and what he is to do, and not to make decisions that he regrets on the spur of the moment.
After the letter was sent, I began the long wait. Every day, I prayed that he would return to me soon. At the same time, I am also trying to improve myself, learn various knowledge and skills, and make myself more independent and strong.
Finally, on a sunny afternoon, I received a reply from Liang Qichao. In the letter, he expressed his gratitude and apologies to me and told me that he had made a decision - he would return to me and continue our married life.
When I read this letter, the joy in my heart cannot be expressed in words. I know that my efforts were not in vain and that my marriage was saved. The return of Liang Qichao has filled our family with laughter and laughter again.
However, I also understand that marriage is not a one-and-done thing. It requires both of us to work and operate. As a result, I began to cherish the time I spent with Liang Qichao even more, and we discussed life together and shared each other's experiences. We encourage and support each other, and with our joint efforts, our marriage is becoming more and more happy and happy.
In this process, I also gradually understood a truth: marriage is like a chess game, and every step requires careful consideration. Sometimes, retreating is a more clever strategy. In marriage, we need to learn to tolerate and understand each other, we need to learn to let go of our stubbornness and prejudices, and accept everything from each other with a broader mind.
Now I have gone through decades of ups and downs with Liang Qichao. Although our marriage has experienced ups and downs and tribulations, we have always supported each other and made progress together. We have experienced many ups and downs in life together, and we have shared countless joys and happiness together. I know that all this is inseparable from our original choices and efforts, and even more inseparable from our wisdom and strategy in marriage.
I would like to say to everyone who is going through married life: marriage is not easy to do and cherish. When we face difficulties and challenges, don't give up easily, believe in your own ability and wisdom to manage the relationship well. Only then can we truly feel the happiness and fulfillment that marriage brings. At the same time, I also want to say to everyone who is about to enter the palace of marriage: marriage is a long journey that needs to be explored and managed together. I hope you can cherish each other, cherish this fate, and manage your marriage with your heart and make it the best experience in your life.