Mother's Day mother-in-law received a gift from me, but I never expected that the second daughter-in-law called me with a crying voice in the afternoon.
Hey~ What's going on! We have to start from the beginning
At present, my mother-in-law lives at home by herself, and my husband and I accompany our children to rent a house near the school to accompany them, and only go home during the holidays.
Because it was Mother's Day, I bought a pair of shoes and a set of clothes for my mother-in-law, and the place of delivery was the address of our accompanying room.
Because it's a holiday, giving gifts should be a bit ritualistic, so the delivery address is not at home.
If you write the address of your home and directly notify the old lady to pick it up yourself, you feel a lack of warmth, and you will send it on the day of the festival, which is more sincere.
Actually, last night, my husband said to himself, otherwise, tomorrow on Mother's Day, I will call my brother and have a meal with the old lady.
At that time, I objected, I said that on Mother's Day, we went shopping, and the second child didn't buy anything, and then you called him over for dinner, in case the old lady said something in front of the second child, didn't you do something bad with good intentions and slap the second child in the face?
The second couple came to Changchun to find something to do, just two days after going to work, you call someone over, he has to break the bank, just send a red envelope to the old lady, less can not take it, more how do you want him to give.
My husband is very persuasive, and when he heard me say this, he dispelled this idea.
It's ridiculous to say, sometimes you guard against things, but things don't protect against you.
In the morning, my husband sent clothes and shoes to the old lady, and my mother-in-law was really happy, in fact, every year on Mother's Day, I sent her something, not in the precious, but in the heart.
However, this year, the two of them came to Changchun to find something to do, lived at my house for two days, and just moved out after finding something to do.
My mother-in-law has to be scared, call a video to the second daughter-in-law, and output: This is what your sister-in-law bought for me, a gift for Mother's Day, the clothes are beautiful, the shoes are suitable, the clothes are comfortable, and so on.
I don't know what the old lady is talking about, but when she changed hands, the second daughter-in-law called me.
My sister-in-law said, "Sister-in-law, the two of us just found something, and we haven't had Mother's Day, so we didn't buy anything for the old lady, and the old lady caught me and said..."
I'm just a little speechless...
Both of us are daughters-in-law, do you think I'm here to complain? Or are you looking for a venue?
My brother and daughter-in-law even said that she was under a lot of pressure...
Me: "We celebrate Mother's Day every year, we buy things for the old lady every year, I don't think you need to care, if you really care, you can also buy something for her, or send her a red envelope of 1200 yuan, in short, it means something, it's useless to cry with me, I can't change my lifestyle because of your existence."
Brother and daughter-in-law: "I don't mean anything else, I just listen to the old lady talk about things, and I feel uncomfortable."
I have become a confidant sister again......
In fact, the two sons of my family are very sincere people, to what extent is they sincere, in Northeast dialect, they are a bit tiger.
At the earliest, the two of them had been in the countryside of their hometown, and later bought a house in their hometown county.
My parents-in-law have always lived with us, and they have lived together for nearly 20 years, and they have given their hometown to the second child, and the houses in the county are all sold by my parents-in-law to the bottom of the house.
And my husband and I started from scratch, so to speak, not only did we not spend a penny on the elderly, but we also supported them for nearly 20 years.
So in this big family, my husband and I have the absolute right to speak. Regarding the elderly pension, I don't compare with the second child, because the life of these two people is really good, and I always feel that they can protect themselves.
In the past, I would explain to the old lady that I was not allowed to show off in front of the second child, because I was afraid of causing family conflicts, well, this year's Mother's Day, I don't know what the old lady was stimulated to show off in front of the second daughter-in-law.
Maybe just in time for Mother's Day, the two of them were dangling in front of the old lady, if the second child was honestly farming in his hometown at this time, the old lady probably wouldn't be able to remember this one.
To put it bluntly, parents who have two or more children will have a preference.
For example, my mother-in-law, seeing that her eldest son is more promising than her younger son, made a choice 20 years ago, and we have to follow us all these years, whether we are in the south or in the north.
To be honest, if the mother-in-law follows the second child to live and gives them a hand and guidance every day, the life of these two people may be a little better.
Because my mother-in-law is very shrewd, she was a notoriously powerful person in the countryside, and the second child felt that his genes had atrophied compared to his parents.
The second child got married earlier than us, their child is five years older than my child, the old lady brought the eldest grandson to the age of five, and followed the two of us, for nearly 20 years, the quality of life of the second child has not improved at all.
The ability to live at home is really not as good as the parents-in-law.
That's why I said that the old man has a preference, in fact, if they live with the second child, they will have the right to speak, and they will have the final say, because the second family has no opinions.
Living with the two of us, I have the final say, and it is unlikely that I will let an old lady in the countryside dictate my life, but despite this, the old lady is still willing to follow me to support my old age.
This is probably like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold.
Write at the end
Every family has its mode of operation, parents have their own preferences, brothers and sisters are also strong and weak, understand each other, tolerate each other, do not compare, do not compare, then, ordinary life can also be lived.
Today is Mother's Day, and I wish all moms a happy holiday!
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