10 pieces of advice for people over 60 years old, read it and you will live with understanding
60 years old, this day is like a book, page by page, and in a blink of an eye, it has turned to the year of the sixtieth year.
Now, we don't pursue any wealth and luxury, we just hope to be healthy and happy every day.
Chat with old friends, play cards, or go for a walk in the park.
The children have grown up and have their own careers and families, so let's try to give them less trouble and give them more support and encouragement.
Of course, if they are filial and go home often, then our hearts will be more beautiful.
60 years old is a hurdle, at this age, you are already retired.
At this time, it is no better than going to work, and now I am staying at home longer, and some problems must be dealt with.
10 pieces of advice for people over 60 years old, read it and you will live with understanding
First, be clear about who your nearest and dearest person is.
Don't keep thinking about your children, they all have their own little families, and they are busy.
The closest person is your wife. When you are young, you may sometimes be confused and whined.
But when you're old, don't have conflicts with your wife anymore.
Your wife is your old dependence, just like the pair of chopsticks when you eat, you can't do it without any of them.
Second, don't take out your pension money and hand it over to your children
Pension money is our baby bump, which cannot be easily handed over to children, let alone lent to relatives and friends.
Once the money is given, it will be difficult to get it back.
This money may be life-saving money when we are sick, or it may be the coffin book after we leave, and we have to hold it well.
We have to control the life of the second half of our lives, don't just leave it to others.
Third, neighbors need to get along well.
When you can help, you must take a hand, after all, far water can't quench your thirst. Sometimes the help of neighbors comes faster than distant relatives.
Isn't there such a saying? Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as the opposite door.
It's close, and it can help when it matters.
Fourth, don't be too lenient with your children's affairs.
Especially in their family affairs, let's not interfere.
Everyone's happiness has to be grasped by themselves, and once you meddle in your children's family affairs, it will cause even greater contradictions.
Let them deal with it themselves, let's just try to be quiet and worry-free.
Fifth, if you are not feeling well, don't go to other people's homes
If you are not in good health, don't keep going to other people's houses. Even if it's a relative's or friend's house. Not only may you feel uncomfortable, but you may also be more tired.
Sixth, don't preach the children of your siblings.
When we go to visit our brothers and sisters, even if there is something wrong with their children, let's not comment or criticize them too much.
After all, everyone is an elder, and they all feel sorry for their children, and they don't want to listen to you if you say too much.
Let's take a look and talk about family life, don't get involved in other people's family affairs.
Seventh, don't blame grandchildren or grandchildren
Today's children are the treasures of their parents' hearts.
Grandchildren, grandchildren, even if you talk about them, they won't listen.
Even your son, daughter-in-law or son-in-law will find you too annoying.
Even if you think it's right, don't worry too much about it, it's not something we should worry about.
Let them grow up on their own, deal with it themselves, and we'll just watch them grow up.
Eighth, exercise in moderation.
At this age, you can't exercise at high intensity. You can choose a few workouts that work for you.
For example, taking a walk is to walk around and look at the scenery, which is simple and comfortable.
Yoga can stretch the body, relax the mind, and improve the temperament.
Tai Chi is even more interesting, you can practice that kind of slow, methodical, calm and powerful feeling.
Ninth, to learn how to manage money, you have to plan your money well.
Don't think that you don't need money when you're old, you also need money to support your old life.
For example, seeing a doctor, providing for the elderly, and the like. Learn how to manage your money and invest it where it needs to grow.
In this way, the future life can be more secure, and the burden on children can be reduced.
Tenth, treat your children with a bowl of water evenly.
Whether it's our son or girl, it's the meat of our hearts that we worked so hard to raise.
In front of them, we have to try to be fair and just, and a bowl of water is even.
Don't favor anyone, and don't snub anyone, so that they can feel the love and warmth of their parents.
Do you have different opinions on the above 10 suggestions? What other suggestions do you have? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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