Whether it's in love or marriage, learning to satisfy each other is one of the key factors. To be successful in managing a relationship, you must learn to meet the needs of the other person. This is one of the indispensable secrets that cannot be ignored.
We cannot simply meet all needs, we must be selective.
Selective gratification is a very skillful approach, and it's like a great strategy for "liking makes people lively", just by constantly praising the good things in the other person, you can get them motivated and get a lot of money.
This is very practical for men.
A woman is very insecure about her relationship and is always focused on how to make her partner completely dependent on her.
Many women often choose to give themselves humbly in order to achieve their goals, always dedicating themselves wholeheartedly to meeting the needs of their significant other.
Some women will do whatever it takes to change themselves, expecting men to have compassion and fall in love with them. However, this "sacrificial" type of love does not lead to true happiness. Because true love should be a two-way street, not one party sacrificing themselves. So, women should cherish themselves and find a man who is willing to accept them.
This method is not practical, and the result will be unpleasant, and the other party will show disrespect, lack of cherishment, and lack of value.
is like Zhang Zhizhi in "Dear Yourself", for the sake of her family and her husband and children, she has turned herself into a resentful wife and a family nanny in life. This also makes people think deeply: on the road to happiness, can we be more self-conscious, not to lose ourselves, and to become happier and more confident.
She did not get her wish, but was dissatisfied and betrayed by her husband.
Charismatic and satisfying, learn to show yourself
The source of liking is attractiveness, and attractiveness comes from charm.
Both men and women want their partners to be attractive. No one likes a mediocre person, and that's without exception. For those who want to attract their significant other, discovering their charm is crucial. As long as you seriously explore and show your strengths and charms, I believe that your other half will definitely be attracted to you.
In fact, everyone longs to find the partner of their dreams in love, and has longing and expectation for their other half. If you learn to master the element of charm and satisfy the needs and desires of the other person, then he will definitely be captivated by you.
Charisma is not just about your good looks and tall figure, but also includes many other aspects, such as your talent, perseverance, and intelligence.
Of course, in addition to the inner quality, the external image is also important.
Even if you don't have a "natural beauty", you can work hard to change. Acquired efforts and details such as your outfit and makeup, fitness habits, and regular skincare can all make you radiate brightness and confidence. Don't worry about the initial conditions, just work hard and maybe you will get a good result.
It's also important to learn how to show your charm. If you exude a powerful charisma, you will be more likely to attract others. We need to try different ways to show our charm and make ourselves more attractive.
Emotional satisfaction, understanding of psychological needs
In emotion, men crave to be satisfied.
Satisfying emotional needs is not just about saying "I love you" verbally, but more importantly understanding the other person's inner needs and thoughts. Only by truly understanding each other can the feelings be satisfied.
Like a "confidante", it has become the "white moonlight" in a man's heart because this existence is closest to the depths of a man's heart. This special relationship makes a man feel comfortable, trusted, and happy.
When it comes to getting along with a man, you should not just be his girlfriend or wife, but you should be his friend and confidant.
When he becomes vulnerable and upset, you are able to understand and empathize with him and meet his needs in a timely manner. Because "you understand his difficulty, and he can also feel your hard work", this is the real beautiful love.
In fact, falling in love is a process of mutual understanding, and two people need to explore each other together and reach a state. When you understand and care for each other, your love for each other will be deeper and more focused.
And like the practice of never understanding each other, always blindly complaining and counting each other, nine times out of ten will push the other party farther and farther.
Vanity is satisfied, and when the time comes, weakness and praise
Usually, men have a sense of self-esteem and they desire to be needed and adored by their partners.
A man's desire to be involved in a relationship can make him love his partner more and more. This desire is very natural and can enhance the rapport of the relationship and make the relationship between the two people stronger.
You don't need to be overly accommodating or giving, just act when it's time to act. As the saying goes, "good steel is on the blade", showing vulnerability and praise at the right time will make the other person more and more obsessed with you.
We don't need to be strong all the time, there are things that need to be done by the other person. Learning to be a "little woman" is also a smart choice.
You should learn to praise and praise others when they put in an effort for you, regardless of that person's performance. When the other person is happy and satisfied, your recognition is sure to make them feel more pleasant. It's a form of politeness and respect, and it also builds better relationships.
Understand a little that when he senses that you need him more and recognize him, he will gradually get used to this way of getting along. This will allow you to dominate the relationship.
Conclusion:
Love is not a one-way handout, and it should never come at the cost of making oneself worse and worse. Whether it is low-key or strong and arrogant, it is not the right way to deal with it in love. Love requires the joint efforts and sacrifices of both parties, not the sacrifice of one person. Only love that respects and balances each other lasts.
The right love can make both parties better, and only continuous enthusiasm can make love last.
The right thing to do in love is to solve the problem, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort. Please remember.
As women, we should understand that the harvest of love does not rely on touching each other, but knowing how to master each other. It's a light-hearted and formal thing to do.
Being moved is only a temporary emotion, and in order to take the initiative, it is necessary to understand the other person. It is very important to master some small tricks and small methods, such as learning how to capture a man's heart. This will keep the man's attention on you and put you in the driver's seat through proper application techniques and strategies.