In the ancient Central Plains, there was a place called "Yayun City", where the literary style was prosperous and the people were outstanding. There is a wise man named Yunyi in the city, whose words are like a spring breeze and his work is like a drizzle of rain, and he is deeply respected by the people.
Yun Yi showed extraordinary talent at a young age, he was very knowledgeable, good at words, and even more rarely, he was well versed in human feelings. However, Yunyi did not start out like this, and his growth path was full of challenges and grinding.
Yunyi was born in a scholarly family and has been reading poetry since he was a child. However, he found that although he was very knowledgeable, he often hit a wall when interacting with people. His words were too direct and his actions lacked tactfulness, which offended many people. Yun Yi was deeply confused, and did not understand why his talents could not be exchanged for the respect and understanding of others.
One day, Yunyi met an old man who had traveled all over the world. The old man saw that Yun Yi's eyebrows were full of heroism, so he took the initiative to talk to him. During the conversation, the old man pointed out Yunyi's shortcomings and told him: "A true wise man must not only have profound knowledge, but also have the wisdom to perceive people's hearts. Your words and ways of doing things need to be more mellow to be able to stand in this complex world. ”
After hearing this, Yun Yi suddenly realized, and he decided to ask the old man for advice on how to exercise human feelings. The old man smiled and told him: "The sophistication of human feelings is not achieved overnight, and you need to constantly observe, learn and practice in your daily life. You have to learn to listen to others and understand their needs. When speaking, take into account the feelings of the other person, express your point of view in a gentle tone and in an appropriate way; When doing things, it is necessary to consider various factors, weigh the pros and cons, and find the most suitable solution. ”
Yun Yi was deeply inspired, and he began to observe the people and things around him. He noticed that the really good people always had the right balance when they spoke and did things. Their words are able to express their own meaning and take into account each other's feelings; They are able to take into account their own interests as well as the needs of others. Yunyi realizes that this is the essence of human sophistication.
In order to exercise his sophistication, Yunyi began to take the initiative to interact with people. He no longer expressed his point of view as directly as he used to, but learned to listen and understand. When talking to people, he tries to express his opinions in a gentle tone and in an appropriate manner; As he did his job, he learned to weigh the pros and cons and find the most appropriate solution. With the passage of time, Yunyi's human feelings have become more and more mellow, and his words and ways of doing things have become more and more recognized by people.
However, Yunyi was not complacent because of this. He knows that human feelings are a profound knowledge that requires continuous study and practice. Therefore, he has always maintained a humble and cautious attitude, constantly asking for advice and learning from others.
Once, there was a severe drought in Yayun City. The people are living in hardship and are in dire need of relief. Yunyi took the initiative to ask for help and was responsible for raising disaster relief materials. He is well aware that this is a difficult task that requires consideration of various factors. He first went deep into the people to understand the disaster situation and the needs of the people; He then used his connections to raise supplies from wealthy merchants and officials everywhere; Finally, he personally oversees the distribution of supplies, ensuring that every item reaches those who need it most.
Thanks to Yunyi's efforts, the disaster relief work has been a complete success. The people were grateful, and they praised Yunyi as a true wise man. Yunyi said modestly: "I just did what I was supposed to do." In this complex world, we need to observe and practice with our hearts in order to grasp the essence of human feelings. ”
Yunyi's story spread throughout Yayun City. People have asked him for advice on how to speak and do things more mellowly. Yunyi always patiently answered their questions and told them: "Human sophistication is not overnight, and we need to constantly observe, learn and practice in our daily life. Only by doing it with your heart can you become a true wise man. ”
In this story, we see a young man who is constantly learning and growing after experiencing setbacks. Through consulting and practicing with others, he gradually grasped the essence of human sophistication and became a truly powerful person. His story tells us that only by observing and practicing with our hearts can we gain a foothold in this complex world and become the person we want to be. At the same time, we should also maintain a humble and cautious attitude, continue to learn and improve, in order to continuously improve our ability and wisdom.