In ancient times, there was a small town called "Jingya", where a loving couple lived, the husband was named Lin Xuan, and the wife was a gentle and virtuous Wan'er. Their home, although not luxurious, is full of warmth and harmony. Although Lin Xuan and Wan'er had small frictions from time to time, they never really quarreled, this is because they followed the ancient wisdom of "husband and wife can't quarrel 9, and 8 don't let go at home".
The wisdom of "husband and wife quarrel 9 can't" comes from an ancient classic, the content is: can't be open-mouthed, can't speak badly to each other, can't turn over old accounts, can't be cold, can't do anything, can't run away from home, can't involve family members, can't insult each other, can't hold grudges. "8 do not put in the house" means that there are not too many gold and silver jewelry, no sharp swords, not too many miscellaneous objects, not too many books (so as not to be too cluttered), not too many spices (so as not to mix with smells), not too many mirrors (so as not to hallucinate), not too many portraits (so as not to be restless), and not too many dolls (so as not to attract evil spirits).
Lin Xuan and Wan'er are well aware of the importance of these wisdoms, and they always keep them in their hearts and practice them in their daily lives. One day, Lin Xuan was upset about business matters, and when he returned home, he saw Wan'er tidying up the room and accidentally knocked over a vase to the ground. Lin Xuan wanted to get angry, but remembering the "can't speak ill of each other" in "Husband and wife quarrel 9 can't", he took a deep breath and said calmly to Wan'er: "It's okay, I'll clean it up." Seeing that Lin Xuan was so tolerant, Wan'er also felt very guilty in her heart, she hurriedly apologized and took the initiative to help Lin Xuan clean up together.
Another day, Lin Xuan saw a sharp sword in the market and thought it was very exquisite, so he wanted to buy it and collect it at home. However, when he returned home with the sword, Wan'er frowned. She told Lin Xuan: "It is not advisable to put too many swords in the home, so as not to bring unnecessary danger. After hearing this, Lin Xuan suddenly realized, he looked at Wan'er gratefully and said, "Fortunately, you reminded me, otherwise I would have really brought this sword back." So he returned his sword to the market.
Although Lin Xuan and Wan'er's days were ordinary, they were full of happiness and harmony. They respect each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and always adhere to the ancient wisdom of "husband and wife can't quarrel 9, and 8 can't let go at home". As a result, their home became one of the warmest and most harmonious families in town.
However, one day, Lin Xuan's cousin came to visit, and he brought a lot of gold and silver jewelry and sharp swords as gifts. When his cousin saw that Lin Xuan's home was simply furnished, he laughed at them for not knowing how to enjoy life. Although Lin Xuan was a little displeased after hearing this, he did not quarrel with his cousin, but patiently explained his family's lifestyle and beliefs. However, his cousin was unimpressed, and he insisted on keeping these gifts.
Seeing this, Wan'er knew in her heart that these gifts might break the harmony and tranquility of the home. She smiled and said to her cousin, "Cousin, we have received your heart." But these gifts are too expensive and sharp to keep at home and can cause unnecessary trouble. You might as well take it back. Although the cousin was a little reluctant after hearing this, seeing that Wan'er was so firm and gentle, he couldn't insist anymore.
After the cousin left, Lin Xuan looked at Wan'er gratefully and said, "Thanks to you for stopping my cousin's behavior in time, otherwise I was really worried that he would break the harmony of our family." Wan'er smiled and said: "We must always adhere to the wisdom of 'husband and wife quarrel 9 can't, family 8 can't go'." ”
The story spread throughout the town, and people praised Lin Xuan and Wan'er for their wisdom and virtues. They understand that a harmonious family life requires not only mutual understanding and tolerance between husband and wife, but also adherence to some ancient wisdom and principles. These wisdom and principles make them have a lot less unnecessary disputes and contradictions in their lives, and make their lives happier and more fulfilling.