There is no husband and wife in the world who do not quarrel, and it is said that no matter how loving a couple is, there may be 100 thoughts of divorce in their lifetime, and even 50 impulses to strangle each other.
Of course, this data may be inaccurate, there are exaggerated elements, but it is only used to describe the relationship between husband and wife, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and it is normal for friction and quarrels to occur in marriage.
When there is a quarrel between husband and wife, the attitude of the in-laws is very important, in some families, not only the husband and wife often quarrel, but also between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law There will be irreconcilable contradictions, if this is the case, then when the husband and wife have a conflict, the mother-in-law usually towards her son.
Such an approach is not wise, and sometimes not only can it not effectively reconcile the contradictions between husband and wife, but it will further intensify the contradictions, and even expand a simple quarrel into a family war, which is even more troublesome.
The following little couple quarreled, and the mother-in-law came from the field by car for 8 hours, thinking that she was here to support her son, but she didn't expect that the mother-in-law's actions made her daughter-in-law cry in the next second.
Coordinates somewhere in Hubei, in the video, a young couple of the family had a fierce quarrel because of family trivialities, and after the mother-in-law learned about it, she immediately took a full 8-hour train and came from other places to mediate.
When the mother-in-law arrived at her son's house, the daughter-in-law was holding a broom, bowing her head, cleaning, while the son was lying on the sofa, sleeping breathlessly.
The mother-in-law strode into the house, she was tall, wearing a black suit, carrying a crossbody bag, the mother-in-law was very young and looked quite shrewd and capable.
Before the mother-in-law entered the door and asked questions, the daughter-in-law saw the mother-in-law coming, immediately threw the broom in her hand to the ground, squatted down and buried her head deep in her arms, and began to cry aggrievedly.
The mother-in-law turned her head and saw her son lying on the sofa sleeping, and instantly became angry, ripped off the bag on her shoulder, threw it on the ground, picked up her son's slippers, and hit her son with a snap.
The son was beaten by his mother, he thought that his mother was coming to support him, but he didn't expect that his mother started beating him without saying a word, and his son hurriedly shouted, whose mother are you, I am your own son!
The mother-in-law scolded while beating: It was you who beat you, you stinky boy, you have a good life, but you are angry with your daughter-in-law, are you full? I think you've eaten the bear's heart and leopard's gall!
The daughter-in-law saw her mother-in-law coming, and thought that her mother-in-law would help her husband quarrel with herself, but she didn't expect that her mother-in-law beat her husband, and now the daughter-in-law's anger in her heart disappeared.
After watching it, netizens praised this wise mother-in-law, they said: The mother-in-law seems to be angry with her daughter-in-law, but in fact she keeps her son's small family.
Met such a reasonable mother-in-law, it is a blessing for the daughter-in-law, if the mother-in-law does not ask about the innocent, and comes up to quarrel with the daughter-in-law, wouldn't it break up the son's small family?
Some netizens commented: My mother-in-law is always helping but not helping relatives, she will reason with you when you calm down and are alone.
Mother-in-law's approach is not bad, when the little couple quarrels and is not calm, the mother-in-law says too much is equivalent to adding fuel to the fire, it is better to wait for them to calm down, and then analyze the right and wrong of things, the criticism of the criticism, so that they can also be convinced.
In fact, running a good family and marriage is also a social university, which requires both husband and wife to manage with their hearts, shoulder the economic responsibility of the family, take care of the children and the elderly, tolerate and accommodate each other, you know that it is not easy for me, I know that you are hard, so that the family can be stable and long-lasting, happy and harmonious.