My classmates and girlfriends are either mothers-in-law or mothers-in-law, and I have observed that mothers-in-law like such daughters-in-law.
1. Literate and knowledgeable
Mother-in-law likes her son to find a literate daughter-in-law, cultured people are generally knowledgeable, empathetic, easy to get along with, not messing around, even if they encounter unhappy things, they will not directly collide with their mother-in-law, and will find a suitable way to deal with the problem.
But there is one point, the daughter-in-law's education cannot be higher than her son's, she can be equal or lower than the son, and the son cannot be suppressed by the daughter-in-law.
2. The daughter-in-law's parents cannot be rural
Nowadays, both men and women look at each other's family conditions when looking for a partner, and they are reluctant to find parents with rural household registration, because the elderly in rural areas do not have a pension, which will bring a certain burden to the future life of the young couple.
Mother-in-law are willing to find the right family, the children grow up in a comparable environment, have similar living habits, and live well together.
The in-laws also get along with each other, no one has to look down on anyone, no one gives anyone as a poverty alleviation object, the two families pay to the children, the small couple has no living burden, the big family is easy to be harmonious, and the family is prosperous.
3. The daughter-in-law has a stable job
The mother-in-law doesn't want her daughter-in-law to have any big development in her work, just work idle and stable, work in the system, or work in a central state-owned enterprise, she doesn't care about the salary, what she cares about is stability, a good working environment, and good contact.
I don't want my daughter-in-law to be a businessman, and she can't take care of the family because she shows her face all day long, and it is easy to bring instability to the family.
Fourth, the daughter-in-law's career cannot exceed that of the son
The mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law to be a strong woman, she doesn't want her daughter-in-law to surpass her son in her career, she doesn't want a small family to be strong and the man is weak, and she doesn't like her daughter-in-law to be a woman.
The mother-in-law likes that her daughter-in-law is a family person, like a woman, doing her own work outside, teaching her husband and children at home, being considerate of her husband, caring for her children, and she is a more traditional woman.
Fifth, the daughter-in-law has a cheerful, sunny personality, and a kind heart
Mother-in-law hates daughter-in-law and mother-in-law the most, small belly chicken intestines, scheming, never seen the world, eyes open when she sees money, and calculates her mother-in-law's family all day long.
Mother-in-law likes the kind of sunny and cheerful daughter-in-law, kind-hearted, tolerant, tolerant of her husband, tolerant of her in-laws and parents, not careful, knows etiquette, and understands the sense of boundaries with others, such a daughter-in-law gets more from her mother-in-law's family.
Sixth, the daughter-in-law is not harsh on her appearance
You don't have to be charming, just be dignified and have good facial features, and your height can't be too low, because genes are very important, and you should dress up dignified and decent, simple and generous.
Mother-in-law hates women with heavy makeup, scantily dressed, and frivolous manners, and she dislikes such women as daughters-in-law, which is unacceptable no matter what.
When the mother-in-law is looking for a daughter-in-law, she does not just choose a daughter-in-law, but also looks at the other party's family, the husband and wife are loving, the family is harmonious, the mother is empathetic, and the family health environment is good.