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I am an ordinary 60-year-old aunt named Wang Lihua. People always use "wind and snow" to describe young people's marriage and love, but my life has been dull. I have always felt that I was destined to be a passerby, to come to this world to experience birth, old age, sickness and death, and then leave quietly. Unexpectedly, the turning point in my life came when I was 60 years old.
I'm an ordinary office worker, and I've been living a quiet life, at most playing mahjong with my friends and chatting about family life. For me, loneliness and flatness have become the leitmotif of my life. I'm used to this kind of life myself, and although I occasionally sigh, I feel that this is my fate.
Until one day, my old friend Li Meihua, who had always been very close to me, told me that her son was going to find an older woman to marry at her suggestion, and hoped that I could come and help. To be honest, I had mixed feelings, both happy and a little lost. I am happy to be able to help my friends, and I am disappointed that I have some doubts about my own life status.
I still went to Li Meihua's house and met her son Li Jian. Li Jian is a generous and decent young man, and he is polite to me as soon as we meet. I think maybe that's why my friend likes him. However, when I heard his proposal, I couldn't believe my ears.
"Aunt Lihua, my mother said that you are a very good and kind person, and I have always wanted to find a sensible woman to be my wife. I know you've always been single and I want to marry you, how? "
I couldn't believe what he was saying, and I was stuck there. This sudden offer caught me off guard. I looked at him, and my heart was in a mess. Li Meihua had already expected my reaction, she hurriedly said: "Lihua, take a look, this kid is not young, it's time to start a family, you are quite pitiful alone, if you can be together, how good!" "
After listening to Li Meihua's words, I felt even more uncomfortable. I'm not a poor person, so why do you have to force me? But Li Meihua looked at me with such anticipation, as if I was the perfect daughter-in-law in her heart. Faced with this situation, I was really helpless.
Li Jian looked at me with anticipation in his eyes. I felt like I was in a fog and didn't know how to respond to his proposal. I was very entangled in my heart, on the one hand, I was grateful to the Li family for their kindness to me, but on the other hand, I felt that all this came too suddenly, and I was unprepared.
Seeing that I was silent, Li Jian hurriedly said: "Auntie, I know that this may be a bit unexpected for you, but I really think that you are a very good person, and I am also willing to be responsible for you and take good care of you." And, you see, I'm not too young, and it's time to start a family. I can promise that I will do my best to make your life happy and happy. "
His words made ripples in my heart, maybe this is the arrangement of fate. Why don't I want to have a home? I thought quietly, and the contradictions in my heart were slowly cleared up.
Li Meihua saw that I didn't immediately refuse, so she hurriedly interjected: "Lihua, think about it, I think this kid is very good, and the two of you are a good match together." I'll just want peace of mind in my life, and if you don't think it's suitable, even if it's okay, I won't force you. "
I listened to her words and felt a pang of gratitude. Li Meihua has always been my best friend, and I am touched by her concern for me. I looked up at her, smiled slightly, and said, "Sister Meihua, I know that you are for my good, and I will think about it." "
Li Meihua listened to my words, a satisfied smile appeared on her face, she patted my hand, and said, "Okay, okay, this kid is obedient, you think about it." Anyway, my son is sincere to you, unlike those young people, who are very hypocritical. "
I listened to her words and nodded inwardly. Indeed, Li Jian gives me a really good feeling, at least he doesn't have the rhetoric of those young people, and he seems to be a very real person.
Thinking of this, I said to Li Meihua: "Sister Meihua, I'll go back and think about it, and I'll tell you when there is a result." "
Li Meihua listened to my words, nodded with satisfaction, and said, "Okay, okay, you think about it slowly." I'm not in a hurry anyway, as long as you're happy. "
I nodded, said goodbye to Li Meihua, and returned home alone. Back at home, I sat quietly on the couch with a lot of thoughts. I knew that this was a matter of my future well-being, and that I had to think about it carefully. Although Li Jian's proposal was unexpected, I couldn't refuse it all at once. After all, this is a chance in my life, and maybe this is the arrangement of fate.
I closed my eyes and quietly felt the voice inside. I thought maybe I should give myself a chance to try this marriage. Perhaps, happiness is waiting for me around the corner. I decided, think about it, and then make a decision.
I had no sleep, and I spent a long night in thought. The next day, I plucked up the courage and decided to meet Li Jian and talk about it. Perhaps, this was a turning point in my life.
I came to Li's house, a little nervous and full of anticipation. I knocked on the door, Li Meihua opened the door, and when she saw me, she said with a smile: "Lihua, you are here, come in and sit." "
I entered the house and saw that Li Jian was also there, and he saw me with a look of joy on his face. I sighed to myself, maybe this is how true he is to me.
After sitting down, I said a little crampedly, "Ken, I thought about it yesterday, and I think this matter still needs to be talked about again." "
Li Jian listened to my words, and the expression on his face was a little stunned, but soon he regained his composure and said, "Auntie, if you have any ideas, just say it, I will listen to you." "
I looked at him and was a little moved. This young man is sincere to me, and I cannot live up to his kindness. I took a deep breath and said, "Actually, it's not that I don't want to, it's just that it all came too suddenly, and it will take me some time to get used to." "
Li Jian listened to my words, and his face showed a trace of disappointment, but he quickly smiled again and said, "Auntie, I understand. I don't mean to force this, I just want to give us a chance. Rest assured, I will give you enough time to think about it and will not force you to make a decision. "
Listening to his words, my heart was moved. Although this young man looks a little naïve on the surface, he is mature and steady on the inside. I sighed and said, "Thank you, Ken." You're a good boy, I'll think about it. "
Li Jian listened to my words, his face showed joy, and he said, "That's great, Auntie." Don't worry, I'll be waiting for you. As long as you're happy, I'm satisfied. "
I looked at him with gratitude. Perhaps, this young man is the one I have been waiting for.
After this conversation with the Li family, I felt much more relaxed. I was so touched by Li Jian's sincerity that I decided to give myself a chance to try this marriage. Perhaps, happiness awaits me not far away.
Back at home, I sat quietly on the couch and thought about my future. I know that this marriage will not be smooth sailing, but I am willing to work hard for my own happiness. After all, this is an opportunity of my life that I don't want to miss.
So, I started preparing for my wedding, and even though I'm 60 years old, I still feel as excited as a girl. With the help of the Li family, I quickly prepared for the wedding. In my opinion, this wedding, although simple, is full of happiness and warmth.
Finally, on a sunny day, Li Jian and I had a wedding. I stood beside him in a plain white gown, feeling the taste of happiness. I looked at my relatives and friends around me, and my heart was filled with gratitude and joy.
After the wedding, Li Jian and I embarked on our wedding journey. Although there is an age gap between us, we share the same goals and dreams. In my opinion, this is what happiness looks like.
Li Jian and I started our newlywed life, although everything is new, we have an inexplicable tacit understanding and intimacy. I quickly adapted to this new state of life and lived every day to the fullest and happier.
Li Jian also cared for me meticulously, he would prepare a hearty breakfast every day, and then send me to work. Sometimes when he came home from work, he would prepare dinner in advance and wait for me to come back. I was so grateful and felt so blessed.
However, on the first night of our wedding, something unexpected happened.
When I walked into the bedroom, ready to spend a romantic evening with Li Jian, he suddenly said, "Lihua, I have three requests, I hope you can agree to me." "
I listened to him and hesitated, not knowing what he would ask. But I still plucked up the courage and said, "You say it, I'll think about it." "
Li Jian looked at me with a somewhat serious expression, and he said, "The first request is that I hope you will sleep with me every night." The second requirement is that I hope you don't have too much contact with other men. The third requirement is that you are expected to be able to do a good job of housework and take care of the family. Do you think it's okay? "
Listening to his request, I was a little disappointed in my heart. I thought he would say something romantic, but I didn't expect it to be so. I said with some dissatisfaction: "These are too many requests, aren't they?" Don't you trust me? "
Li Jian listened to my words, his face showed a trace of guilt, and he said: "Lihua, it's not that I don't trust you, I just hope that we can be closer and trust each other more." I know these are a bit demanding, but I hope you can understand. "
I listened to his explanation, and I was a little moved. Maybe he really made these requests for the sake of our relationship. I thought about it for a moment, but finally nodded and said that I would try to accommodate his request.
Seeing that I nodded in agreement, Li Jian showed a relieved smile on his face, and he said, "Thank you, Lihua." I will treat you well and let you live a happy life. "
I looked at his smile and my heart was filled with gratitude and happiness. Maybe this is the run-in in marriage, as long as we understand and tolerate each other, I believe that our lives will become happier and happier.
Our lives began in such a tacit understanding, and although there were occasional small frictions, we were always able to solve problems through communication and understanding. Gradually, I felt that I was really happy.
However, in the first month of our wedding, an unexpected challenge struck.
It was a weekend afternoon, and I was about to tidy up my bedroom at home when I suddenly heard Li Jian answering the phone in the living room. I couldn't help but stop what I was doing and lean to the door to steal the sound.
"Hey, it's me, Li Jian. What's the matter? Li Jian's voice sounded a little nervous.
I couldn't help but frown, and a sense of foreboding welled up in my heart. Why is Li Jian so nervous, is there something hiding from me?
"What? What did you say? Impossible! Li Jian's voice sounded a little shaky.
I felt more and more uneasy, and I couldn't help but quicken my pace, ready to go to the living room to see what was going on.
"Okay, okay, I got it. I'll deal with it as soon as possible. Li Jian's voice sounded a little heavy, as if he had received bad news.
I walked quickly to the living room and saw Li Jian hanging up the phone with a grim face. I immediately asked, "Ken, what's wrong with you?" What happened? "
When Li Jian heard my voice, he was stunned for a moment, then took a deep breath and said, "Lihua, that's the case, I received a work call, and the company has recently encountered some problems that I need to deal with." You may have to go to another place for a few days, and you should pay attention to safety when you are home alone. "
I listened to his explanation and breathed a sigh of relief in my heart, but still asked with some concern, "So suddenly?" Didn't you say you didn't have to travel this weekend? "
Li Jian listened to my question, with a trace of embarrassment on his face, and he said: "It's a little sudden, but the company's situation is more urgent, and I have to deal with it." Don't worry, I'll take care of it as soon as possible and come back as soon as possible. "
I looked at his expression, still a little worried in my heart, but I also knew that this was his job, and it was inconvenient to interfere too much. I could only nod and say, "Okay, you have to be safe, take care of things as soon as possible, and then come back early." I'm home alone, and it's good to have you in my heart. "
Li Jian listened to my words, a grateful smile appeared on his face, and he said, "Thank you, Lihua. I'll take care of it as soon as possible and come back later. You have to take care of yourself when you're home alone, don't run around, don't open the door to strangers. "
I looked at him with gratitude and worry in my heart. Maybe this is the ordeal in marriage, as long as we support each other, I believe we will be able to get through this difficulty.
Li Jian hurriedly packed his luggage and soon left home. I was left home alone, and I felt a little empty in my heart. But I know it's only temporary, and when he comes back, we'll have a lot of good time to spend together.
So, I started a life alone, although a little lonely, but also had my own arrangements and plans. I believe that the wait is worth it, and our happy life awaits us not far away.
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