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My name is Aunt Wang, I am 65 years old this year, and my hometown is in rural Shandong. When she was young, she followed her husband to the city to earn a living, and with her hard work and tenacity, she saved a little savings. But at this age, my body is not as good as before, and the problem I and my husband are facing now has begun to emerge: the problem of pension. We are all people who do not have a pension, and although we have children at home, we don't want to be a burden to them. So, my husband and I started thinking about it seriously.
In search of a solution, I contacted two old friends: Uncle Zhang and Grandma Li. Uncle Zhang has been a friend of mine for many years, and he is 70 years old this year. Even though he was older than me, he always maintained a positive attitude. Grandma Li is a gentle old man, she is always full of kindness and love, her son works in other places, and she is the only one left at home. We agreed to meet in my small courtyard to share each other's life experiences and see if there are any ways to solve the problem of elderly care together.
On that day, the weather was fine, and I prepared some tea and snacks early for their arrival. As soon as Uncle Zhang entered the door, he asked me with a smile: "Aunt Wang, why are you busy preparing early in the morning?" It's so delicate! I smiled and asked him to sit down: "Come on, come on, let's get together and talk." ”
Grandma Li also arrived later, holding a basket of fresh vegetables and handing them to me with a smile: "This is what I just picked from my vegetable garden, let me give you a taste." I took the basket and thanked him.
We started talking about retirement. Uncle Zhang was the first to speak: "I have been volunteering in the community for the past two years, delivering things to some elderly people with limited mobility, and passing some time by the way. By doing so, you can not only help others, but also make yourself feel a sense of accomplishment. ”
Grandma Li nodded in agreement: "Uncle Zhang is right, such activities can not only enrich your life, but also make new friends." Although I am not as active as him, I do participate in some neighborhood activities and interact with people. ”
I shared my experience: "My husband and I sometimes have fun growing vegetables at home. The children are busy with work, and we don't want to be a burden to them, so it's better to live comfortably. ”
Uncle Zhang agreed: "Yes, when you get old, you have to have your own life." You can't rely on your child all the time. Now that everyone is busy, we as parents should also be considerate of our children. ”
Grandma Li also nodded: "Yes, children have their own lives, and we have to learn to be independent." It's just that my physical condition is not as good as before, and sometimes I will inevitably worry about the future. ”
Our conversation deepened, sharing our thoughts and experiences. Everyone recognises that our generation faces different pension challenges than in the past. For example, in the past, many elderly people lived on pensions and filial piety from their children, but now the situation is different. Our children are stressed at work, and we don't have a stable pension. So we began to discuss how to find a suitable way to retire for ourselves.
Uncle Zhang proposed: "Actually, we can help each other. For example, for some activities, several elderly people can form a small team and do it together, so that they can take care of each other and maintain good health. ”
Grandma Li chimed in: "This is indeed a good idea. We can also build a mutual support network with each other, so we can get in touch with anything. ”
We discussed building a small mutual aid network to support each other. Since the problem of retirement cannot be completely avoided, we decided to start from the community, start from the things around us, and explore how to live a meaningful and comfortable life in old age. By supporting each other, we hope to make our later years feel more secure and happy.
In this way, we talked freely for a long time in the small courtyard. Although we didn't find a perfect solution right away, at least we realized that by supporting each other, we could face the problem of retirement together. We agreed to meet more often in the future to help each other and discuss this topic together.
After agreeing to meet more often, the three of us began to implement our plan. Over the next few weeks, we got together regularly to discuss retirement issues and share updates on each other.
At a party, Uncle Zhang spoke first: "Recently, the community has organized some activities, such as outings, singing competitions, etc., we can participate in these activities to enrich our lives and meet new friends at the same time." He looked at me and Grandma Li with anticipation in his eyes.
I smiled and nodded: "Uncle Zhang, your suggestion is good!" I've recently discovered that walking is also good for my body, and I can go for a walk in the park together in the afternoon to get some exercise. "I looked at Grandma Li and hoped she would join us in our program.
Grandma Li readily agreed: "Walking is really good, and I have recently felt that I need to exercise more to strengthen my physical fitness and prevent illness." The three of us walked together and it would be fun! ”
In this way, the three of us began to walk together every day. We started with a trail in the neighborhood and slowly explored the surrounding neighborhoods and parks. Every walk becomes an opportunity for us to share in each other's lives.
During a walk, Uncle Zhang suddenly said, "Aunt Wang, have you ever thought about organizing some activities in the community, such as volunteer service?" In this way, we can help other elderly people and make our lives more fulfilling. ”
I thought about it for a moment: "That's a good idea. We can deliver things to the elderly who have limited mobility, or go to the community service center to help. Not only does it make sense, it also keeps us active. ”
Grandma Li also agreed: "I also think this is a good idea. This allows us to contribute to the community while also maintaining our own physical and mental health. ”
We decided to form a group dedicated to community service. Uncle Zhang volunteered to be the leader of the group, responsible for contacting the community and organizing activities. Grandma Li and I were in charge of contacting other elderly people who were willing to join.
In the days that followed, the three of us actively organized community service activities. We bring other volunteers to help the elderly in need, chat with them and take care of their needs. This kind of activity makes us feel the joy of connecting with others.
At an event, Grandma Li mentioned: "I used to think that life would become lonely when I got old, but now with everyone's company, I feel that life has become fulfilling." Her eyes sparkled with gratitude.
Uncle Zhang said with a smile: "Yes, we help each other and face problems together, so that we can make our later life better." ”
Thanks to our efforts, our group has gradually grown, and more elderly people have joined our team. Together, we organize community service activities to help more seniors and make our lives more fulfilling.
At the same time, we are beginning to focus on our own health and safety. We conduct regular health check-ups to ensure that we are in good physical condition. Uncle Zhang also organized some health lectures and invited doctors to explain health care knowledge to everyone.
The three of us also share our experiences from time to time. I shared some healthy recipes with them, and Grandma Li brought us the vegetables she grows. Uncle Zhang encouraged us to keep exercising.
Once, the three of us organized a health talk in the community. Doctors told us about health problems in later life and how to maintain good health. After the lecture, Grandma Li sighed: "I never thought that we could learn so much at this age, it is really beneficial. ”
Uncle Zhang said approvingly: "Yes, we have to keep learning in order to maintain a young mentality." ”
The three of us continued to explore how to deal with the problem of old age, and found some ways to solve the problem of elderly care by actively participating in community activities and services. Although we do not have a pension, we believe that by supporting each other and working hard, we can live a happy and meaningful old age.
Our community service activities are going more and more smoothly, and the participation of the elderly is also increasing. In the process, we gradually developed an atmosphere of mutual assistance. Not only do we help each other in our activities, but we also care about each other in our lives.
One day, Grandma Li suddenly proposed to us, "I wondered, can we use the vacant land in the community to grow some vegetables and fruits?" This not only provides fresh ingredients for everyone, but also makes the elderly feel a sense of accomplishment in their work. ”
Uncle Zhang immediately agreed: "This is a good idea!" We can grow some common vegetables and fruits, such as tomatoes, cucumbers, beans, etc. In this way, everyone can communicate with each other in labor and enjoy the happiness of the harvest. ”
I also expressed my support: "Yes, it not only enriches our lives, but also allows people to participate and strengthen the relationship between neighbors." ”
So, the three of us and other volunteers began to plan the vacant land in the community. We designed a small farmland and worked together to grow a variety of vegetables and fruits. Everyone is driven and enthusiastic.
For the next few weeks, we would go to work in the fields every day. The elders plow, water, and tend to the crops together. In this way, we not only enrich our own lives, but also build deeper friendships in our labor.
Once, when the three of us were watering the farmland, Grandma Li suddenly smiled and said, "I used to worry that my life would become monotonous when I got old, but now I feel that there are new things to do every day, and I feel very good." ”
Uncle Zhang also responded with a smile: "Yes, this kind of life is much more interesting than staying at home alone." Every time I see these vegetables growing, I feel extremely satisfied. ”
I chimed in, "Yes, we now not only have our own farmland, but we can also work with so many friends, which is a rare happiness. ”
By cultivating the farmland, we not only get a good harvest of vegetables and fruits, but also bring more interaction and connection to the community. Everyone helps each other in the field and shares the fruits of their labor. This atmosphere of mutual help makes us feel the warmth of the community.
In addition to the cultivation of the farmland, we also organize a number of other activities. For example, we go for a walk in the park together, enjoy the beauty of nature and breathe in the fresh air. We will also organize some cultural activities, such as singing competitions, calligraphy and painting exhibitions, etc., so that the elderly can show their talents.
At a cultural event, Grandma Li showed off her calligraphy work. Her handwriting is vigorous and powerful, which has attracted everyone's praise. Grandma Li said happily: "I have been practicing calligraphy all these years, and now I can finally show it to everyone. ”
Uncle Zhang was also amazed by her work: "Grandma Li, your handwriting is really getting better and better!" It seems that you haven't worked hard in vain in the past few years! ”
I smiled and complimented: "Grandma Li's work is really amazing, and it's a blessing to have a calligrapher like you in our community!" ”
Through these activities, we not only enrich our own lives, but also make our communities more harmonious and beautiful. The three of us, along with other seniors, have created a vibrant and caring environment for each other.
Once, the three of us were on a walk and chatted about our plans for the future. Uncle Zhang proposed: "Since our activities are going so smoothly now, we can also consider expanding some scale in the future, such as inviting more elderly people to join, or helping the elderly in other communities." ”
Grandma Li agreed: "It's a good idea. We can continue to promote our experience to benefit more people. ”
I also expressed my support: "Yes, we can share our experience with other communities and get more seniors involved in our activities." ”
Through our efforts, we hope to enable more elderly people to live a happy and fulfilling old age. This is not only a help to ourselves, but also a contribution to society as a whole.
Through the efforts of the three of us and the elders in the community, a warm and supportive atmosphere has been established in the community. In this atmosphere, the elderly care for each other and participate in activities together. We not only help other seniors in community service, but also enrich our lives through labor and cultural activities.
At a meeting, Uncle Zhang proposed: "I recently heard that a neighboring community is also exploring a similar way of elderly care, we can go over and see and learn from their experience." ”
I thought it was a good opportunity and immediately responded, "That's a great idea!" Exchanging experiences with each other and learning from the strengths of others will be of great help to our future development. ”
Grandma Li agreed: "Yes, we can talk to them and see how they carry out their activities." You might be able to find some new inspiration that way. ”
So, the three of us decided to visit the neighboring community. Once there, we found that the elders of the community had organized some similar events. They have their own farmland and cultural activities, and have also set up a service station for the elderly to provide various services to the elderly.
We talked to their principals. They welcomed us and warmly shared their experience with us. Their senior service stations provide many conveniences for the elderly, such as health care services, cultural and recreational activities, etc. This inspires us.
On the way back, Uncle Zhang said excitedly, "The experience of this community is amazing! We can also try to set up a service station for the elderly to provide more services to the elderly in the community. ”
Grandma Li chimed in: "Yes, this will not only allow the elderly to receive more care, but also improve the overall well-being of the community." ”
I agreed, "That's a good idea, we can talk to the community and see if we can set up such a service station." ”
When we returned to the community, we immediately talked to the community leader. The community leaders were very interested in our proposal and offered to provide support. So, the three of us began to prepare for the establishment of a service station for the elderly.
During the preparation process, we encountered some challenges, such as funding and manpower issues. However, through our efforts and the support of the community, we were able to overcome these difficulties in the end. Elderly service stations were soon set up and began to provide a variety of services to the elderly in the community.
The service station provides medical services, psychological counseling, cultural and recreational activities for the elderly. The elderly can get professional help and care here. This makes us feel very relieved, and seeing the smiles on the faces of the elderly makes us feel that our efforts are worth it.
Once, I met an elderly man who lived alone at a service station. With tears of gratitude in her eyes, she said to me, "Aunt Wang, since I have this service station, my life has become no longer lonely. The people here are very caring about me and I really appreciate you. ”
Hearing her words, I felt the value of my efforts. I smiled and said to her, "We just did what we could, and hopefully we could help everyone." ”
Uncle Zhang and Grandma Li are also actively involved in the work of the service station. Not only do they help organize events, but they also provide advice and care to the elderly. Their enthusiasm and dedication make the service station even more welcoming.
With the help of the elderly service station, the elderly in the community have become happier and more comfortable. The three of us also strengthened our belief in continuing to work hard. We believe that through our actions, we can bring more care and happiness to the elderly in the community.
With the help of the community elderly service station, the elderly in the community live a happier and more comfortable life. The three of us continue to work hard to provide various services for the elderly and continue to explore new ways to care for the elderly. Our wish is for every elderly person to have a happy and fulfilling old age.
One day, Uncle Zhang and Grandma Li and I were preparing for a new event at the service station. We plan to hold a "community culture festival" where the elderly can showcase their talents and invite the young people of the community to participate.
Uncle Zhang said excitedly: "This cultural festival must be held vigorously!" We can arrange some traditional performances such as opera and dance. This not only allows the old people to show their talents, but also allows the young people to understand the traditional culture. ”
Grandma Li nodded in agreement: "Yes, we can invite the children from the community to watch the performance, which can enhance their communication with the elderly." Let's share this happy moment together. ”
I proposed, "We can also set up some games and interactive sessions for the old and the young to participate in." This will make the festival more fun and bring people closer together. ”
After the three of us discussed the plan, we immediately started to prepare for the festival. We contacted the cultural groups in the community and invited them to perform opera, dance and other programs. We also arranged some games and interactive sessions for the old and the young to participate in.
On the day of the festival, the community was bustling with activity. The old people put on beautiful costumes and were ready to show off their talents. The young people also came to the scene with great interest and participated in the activities with the old people.
Uncle Zhang smiled and said to me and Grandma Li, "Look at these children, they all have smiles on their faces. Our efforts were not in vain, and such an event was so meaningful! ”
Grandma Li also said with emotion: "Yes, such a cultural festival not only enriches everyone's life, but also allows people of different ages to come together and spend a good time together." ”
At the cultural festival, the old people showed their talents. Opera, dance, chorus and other programs all amazed the audience. The young people also enthusiastically participated in the games and interactive sessions, sharing the joy with the old people.
The success of this cultural festival allowed us to see the communication and interaction between the elderly and young people in the community. This kind of cross-generational communication not only enriches the lives of the elderly, but also allows the young people to understand the traditional culture and enhance their respect and care for the elderly.
At the end of the event, the old people expressed their gratitude to us. They say that such activities allow them to feel the warmth of the community and also allow them to find the joy of life.
Uncle Zhang said with a smile: "I am really satisfied to hear the old people say this. That's what we're working for. ”
Grandma Li also expressed her gratification: "Yes, our hard work has been rewarded. This sense of well-being is irreplaceable by nothing. ”
Through this cultural festival, the three of us have strengthened our belief in continuing to work hard. We plan to continue to hold similar events in the future to allow more elderly and young people to participate together and continue to promote the harmonious development of the community.
In the process, we also learned how to better care for and care for the elderly. They need not only material help, but also spiritual care. We will continue to work hard to provide more care and support to the elderly.
Together, the three of us decided to continue to serve the elderly in our community in our own way and help them have a happy and fulfilling old age. We believe that as long as we persevere, every elderly person in the community can feel the warmth of love and live a happier and more fulfilling life.
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