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The wind of the collapsed house kept blowing, and this time it blew to "Family with Children".
Recently, Gao Yalin, the actor of Xia Donghai in "Family with Children", was exposed to "cheating melon". 52-year-old actor and director Gao Yalin was revealed by his girlfriend Wei Jia, who has been dating for several years: cheating during pregnancy, domestic violence, PUA, transfer mistress, and all kinds of unsightly chat records are like a tornado, which has drawn this former "good father" into the whirlpool of public opinion.
△ Stills from "Family with Children".
The filter is sparse, the aura is no longer there, is Gao Yalin an old drama bone or a big scumbag? Is it a good man or a bad dad? For a while, netizens were blindfolded, sighed, and angry three times.
The "national dad" who has been hanging all the way
Speaking of Gao Yalin, everyone's first impression is the father Xia Donghai in "Family with Children", and his life seems to be soaring all the way like in the TV series.
Gao Yalin is a professional in drama performance. When he was young, Gao Yalin, like his peers, was eager to prove his worth, unwilling to play tricks, he sold clothes and opened restaurants, "I want to try everything I haven't done, I want to realize my value, but I don't know what value is." It wasn't until he partnered with Hong Jiantao to act in a sketch that Gao Yalin finally began to have the feeling of "being able to eat by acting".
△ Old photos of Gao Yalin
In 1998, Gao Yalin entered the directing major, and his dream of directing slowly took root.
In the year of graduation, the TV series "Hero of the Troubled Times" went to the school to recruit actors, and his honest and handsome appearance made Gao Yalin stand out, and he played the role of the villain Chang Yu in the play, and made a name for himself in the entertainment industry.
In 2004, the creative team of "Family with Children" found Gao Yalin, and he successfully seized the opportunity to interpret his father Xia Donghai deeply in the hearts of the people. After more than ten years, "Family with Children" has always been one of the most classic sitcoms in the hearts of the audience.
became popular all over the country overnight, which made Gao Yalin particularly confident and officially entered the showbiz.
△ "Send You a Little Red Flower" poster
Father Gu in "Paper Marriage", Father Wei Jiang in "Send You a Little Red Flower", Father of the Four Flames in "Missing and Forgetting", and Father Ling in "Let's Shake the Sun Together...... Gao Yalin has played many father roles, and many netizens have named him the "national father".
△ Group photo of the main creators of "In the Name of the People".
The popular anti-corruption TV series "In the Name of the People" in 2017 is Gao Yalin's most representative work. In line with his trust in the screenwriter and director, he bet all his net worth to invest in the production of the show. After the broadcast, the ratings of "In the Name of the People" soared, and Gao Yalin's reputation in the industry continued to rise, and no one questioned it.
He said, "I am the best among my wife."
Gao Yalin, who has a successful career, also yearns for a romantic love. From his mouth, the world gets a story of his pure love with his ex.
"The first time we met, we were in a teahouse. Her friend and my friend were drinking tea together and we had mutual friends. In an interview, Gao Yalin said what he liked at first sight: "Wearing a white T-shirt and a ponytail brush, sitting quietly in the corner without saying a word." ”
Gao Yalin said that at that time, Shi Wei's eyes were always staring at a cup of tea, and everyone chatted for two or three hours, only she barely said a word, which left a deep impression on Gao Yalin, and he felt that the girl in front of him was so quiet. In this way, the spark of love was about to erupt, and Shi Wei and Gao Yalin began to date alone occasionally, when Shi Wei was only 20 years old.
Love is traceable. In 2007, Gao Yalin directed a comedy movie "Chasing Love", the heroine is Shi Wei, and it is said that this movie is Shi Wei's confession. In 2008, Shi Wei married Gao Yalin. After marriage, Gao Yalin was busy filming, directing, and rehearsing dramas, while Shi Wei was busy writing scripts.
Gao Yalin once half-jokingly said: "Among the wives who love me, I am the best." ”
In the interview, Gao Yalin talked about his concept of marriage: love is sharing, and marriage is sharing. "Falling in love comes down to sharing happiness, but marriage cannot. Marriage is really suitable, more rational, all in order to form a perfect family, give each other happiness, everyone will also get happiness and joy here, this is the family. ”
From "life winners" to broken filters
According to common sense, steady happiness, excellent career, and the story of "life winner" will continue, but some people don't want such an ending.
The turning point of Gao Yalin's "Pure Love Story" occurred after the explosion of "In the Name of the People", he invested in the filming of the TV series "Undercover Police Flower", so he met actor Wei Jia, the two met in 2018, and gave birth to a baby in 2021, and then there were Weibo revelations such as @Weijiaqile unhappy - cheating during pregnancy, domestic violence, PUA, transfer to a third party, etc.
In the past three years, Gao Yalin has experienced divorce, childbirth, cheating, and his private life is too rich.
What's even more surprising is that Xu Zijun, who was rumored on the Internet, was born in 1998 and is 26 years younger than Gao Yalin. The two once appeared on the same variety show "Start Broadcasting! Sitcom", Gao Yalin is the judge, and Xu Zijun is the student.
In the public statement of Weibo @徐梓钧cc, she did not know that Gao Yalin was not single, and even became a father. "I'm just one of many of his courtesies." "Gao Yalin, I admit that I once admired you, which is why I was stupid enough to be trampled under your feet in such a way. But if you are a man, you should not do the thing of stepping on several boats, let alone slander a girl in such a malicious way of deception, humiliation, and slander! The text is full of angry voices from a deceived girl.
Immediately afterwards, in another screenshot of the Internet, people found that the source of all this turmoil seemed to be for children. "If it weren't for the children to go to school and get a hukou, there wouldn't be this farce." "Shenzhen or Beijing can be, see what you think."
Many netizens lamented that this matter was too strange, "the childhood filter was shattered".
Who should be awarded to "Virtue and Art Shuangxin".
There is nothing new under the sun, and personal love-hate entanglement is not enough to occupy social resources, but the words and deeds of public figures are enough to evolve into a storm of public opinion.
In the fermentation in recent days, the hammer of "unmarried, having a baby, and cheating" has pushed Gao Yalin to the forefront.
Taking stock of the cheating male stars in the entertainment industry, once the fig leaf of those "good men" is torn off, many people will lament that the moral bottom line is so low. Wang Leehom cheated in marriage, his private life was chaotic, and his personality collapsed; The article cheated on Yao Di in marriage when Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child, and now she has faded out of the entertainment industry; Zhang Danfeng had an ambiguous relationship with his agent in marriage and spent the night together, and his career was affected; Chen Sicheng was exposed to derailment, and his career was affected...... Most of them have been classified as bad artists.
△ At the 13th Virtue and Art Shuangxin Award Ceremony, Gao Yalin won the award
Now, how should everyone talk about Gao Yalin? In 2017, Gao Yalin walked on the podium with a radiant face and was awarded the honor of "Artist Award for Virtue and Art". What is Virtue? Virtue is morality, conduct, grace, and faith, and only with virtue can there be restraint, kindness, and forgiveness. "Virtue and Art Shuangxin" puts virtue in the former, which means that virtue is the starting point, which cannot be done, let alone talk about the things that follow.
And the gold content behind the words "virtue and art" should also be carried by people who are truly virtuous and artistic.
Modern Express/Modern + reporter Song Jingwei