introduction
Today, there are more men than women.
According to the latest statistics, at the end of 2021, the male population of the mainland was 723.11 million, accounting for 51.2%, the female population was 689.49 million, accounting for 48.8%, and the sex ratio of the total population was 104.9! This means that tens of millions of men are destined to be in the company of singles!
But the reality is: there are still a large number of leftover women in the city who can't find a partner! According to one scholar, in the county marriage market in the 70s of the 20th century, there was almost no "leftover" phenomenon of women. But today, it seems that the phenomenon of some older women being "leftover" is not uncommon!
So, why is this happening?
Someone has done a survey on a county, and after the investigation, it was found that most of the older "leftover women" are professional women, especially some female teachers, who are more likely to become leftover women, and the main reason is: the circle of teachers is very small, and in their very small circle, the proportion of women is significantly higher than that of men, which makes it difficult for most women to find suitable objects, resulting in some older young women becoming "leftover women".
A senior netizen said that in addition to the restrictions of the circle, some women's excessive requirements for men are also an important reason for them to become leftover women, a 28-year-old young man once complained that he works in the provincial capital, has a car and a house, looks average, not handsome, and definitely not ugly. I went on a blind date last year and met a 29-year-old woman, and the woman's appearance was average, not beautiful. But as soon as the woman met, she asked the young man if he had a car and a house, and when the young man jokingly said, "There is no house and no car", the woman immediately got up and left. This shows how high the requirements of some women are for men now.
The senior netizen went on to say that there is a strange phenomenon now, older men are seeking marriage, older women are also seeking marriage, it is difficult for older men to find a suitable partner, and it is also difficult for older women to find a suitable partner!
In fact, this senior netizen's statement is still very reasonable. No, this year's 30-year-old female teacher Liu is asking for marriage online!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
Liu, a 30-year-old woman, is a junior high school math teacher. In Liu's school, the proportion of female teachers is as high as three-quarters. Because Liu's social circle is very small, he has become an older "leftover girl".
Liu didn't feel anxious about the fact that she had become a "leftover girl", but her parents were anxious about her marriage. So, Liu's parents asked the matchmaker to introduce the object to Liu, but who knew that the matchmaker did not have a suitable object for Liu. In desperation, Liu took a few selfies and posted them on the Internet, she wanted to find a favorite "him" through the Internet!
Liu's condition for the man is -------- age: under 35 years old and over 28 years old; Education: Bachelor degree or above; Height: about 1.75 meters, occupation: civil servant or teacher, appearance: handsome. As for the problem of the garage, it can be ignored for the time being.
Liu said that her requirements for the man are not high, and she hopes to find a "him" who satisfies her as soon as possible through the Internet!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned of this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
How can netizens be embarrassed: In all fairness, Liu's requirements for the man are not high, at least, people do not ask for a garage, but with this, they should be able to find their favorite "him" through the Internet. To tell the truth, I fell after I saw Liu's marriage conditions! It's a pity that my academic qualifications are not enough, so I don't dare to apply!
Netizens twittered: Liu is too beautiful, right? It's unbelievable that such an excellent woman still needs to get married! Anyway, I think Liu is really good, but it's a pity that I'm already married, otherwise, I want to sign up!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Online marriage is a relatively trendy way to get married, after all, the Internet can reach all directions, which can make the marriage seeker have a greater range of exposure. Based on this, this way of marriage is quite trendy!
Lao Hu hopes that Liu can get married through the Internet, get rid of his single as soon as possible, and be able to enjoy the joy and happiness of marriage. Lao Hu wishes: Liu can succeed in marriage as soon as possible!