Hello everyone, I am Sister Dimples, a 40-year-old second-child working mother.
How old is the husband and wife, do you think it's acceptable?
Some people say: female junior, hug gold bricks.
Some people also say: male college five, potential stocks.
In fact, whether the man is older or the woman is older, in the secular view of our people, it is generally acceptable that the husband and wife are 3-5 years apart.
If one partner is more than 10 years older than the other, it may be worth considering.
However, if there is a difference of nearly half a century between the man and the woman, the woman is in her 20s, and the man has gray hair and entered the prime of life, and such two people come together despite the opposition of their families, and later marry their sons, what will you think?
In a small mountain village in Hunan, there is such a strange relationship, and their combination has attracted the keen attention of the majority of media and netizens.
One
The protagonist of the story is named Zhang Feng, and she was born in a small mountain village in Hunan.
However, her arrival did not bring the slightest joy to the extended family.
Because she already has 1 brother and 2 sisters, she was completely unexpected.
At that time, the family was extremely poor, and sometimes even eating was a problem.
So if you have another one, the life of the family can be imagined.
After learning that she was pregnant, Zhang Feng's mother had to go for surgery without even thinking about it. But after the examination, the doctor told her the shocking news: she was pregnant with twins!
In times of poverty, the arrival of new life is not joy, but a heavy burden.
After some thought, my mother resolutely lay on the operating table.
However, maybe it was Zhang Feng's fate, or maybe it was the underdeveloped technology at that time, and a month after the other of the twins was successfully induced, Zhang Feng's mother felt that something was wrong.
She thought that the 2 babies were gone, but when she went to the hospital for an examination, she found that there was another one in her belly!
In desperation, she had no choice but to give birth.
It's just that, looking at this "fish that slipped through the net", Zhang Feng's mother couldn't be happy. So as soon as he was born, Zhang Feng was fostered in his aunt's house.
Without the intimate companionship of his parents and the care of his brothers and sisters, the life under the fence made Zhang Feng feel neglected and neglected.
When she was a few months old, for some reason, Zhang Feng suddenly had a high fever for many days, but that's it, her biological parents didn't show up, and her aunt didn't have the money to treat her, so she fell ill. Her body was as weak as if a gust of wind could blow her away, let alone whether she could go down to the field to help with the work or something.
When Zhang Feng was in her teens, she was finally taken home.
It's just that both her parents and her older brothers and sisters treat her sick seedling as a drag oil bottle.
The lack of family affection has led to Zhang Feng's very introverted personality, she almost never plays with other friends, and most of the time she is just a person in a quiet daze.
However, such a bleak and obscure day was changed by the arrival of a person.
This person is Wen Changlin, a barefoot doctor from the next village.
Two
In 2001, his father, who had been tired for many years, suddenly suffered a stroke, and considering that this condition did not know when it would occur, Zhang Feng went to the next village to invite Wen Changlin, who often treats the villagers.
At the first glance of him, a voice sounded in Zhang Feng's mind: Why is this person so familiar? It's as if we've known each other for a long time.
Especially when Wen Changlin showed a gentle smile, Zhang Feng's cold and dusty heart seemed to be melted immediately.
She affectionately called Wen Changlin "Grandpa Wen".
Grandpa Wen noticed that Zhang Feng was sometimes very melancholy, so he would be very intimate to enlighten her, accompany her to chat, and explain the truth of life to her.
Seeing that her family was poor and sometimes treated Zhang Feng's father, Grandpa Wen not only did not collect money, but also paid out of his own pocket to help Zhang Feng and his mother in life.
Zhang Feng also knows everything about Grandpa Wen, and confides in him whatever he has in his heart. When his 16th birthday was approaching, Zhang Feng said casually: No one has ever given me a birthday when I am so old, and I have never eaten a birthday cake.
Those who don't want to say it are unintentional, but the listeners are intentional, on his birthday, Grandpa Wen personally went to the town to order a birthday cake for Zhang Feng. At that moment, Zhang Feng knew what it was like to be remembered and loved.
Later, Zhang Feng's father died. Her brothers and sisters who worked outside shirked each other, and none of them came back to take care of the funeral. At this time, Grandpa Wen didn't say a word, and Zhang Luo sent Zhang Feng's father on the last trip with the people in the village.
Before dying, his father asked Zhang Feng to repay Grandpa Wen in the future.
Zhang Feng cried and nodded.
Later, in order to let her mother live a better life, Zhang Feng chose to go out to work. But she was unfamiliar with her life and had just been working for two days when her mobile phone was stolen!
At that moment, her first reaction was to call Grandpa Wen Chang Lin Wen.
Unexpectedly, the next day, Grandpa Wen gave her his new mobile phone that he had just used for two days.
This made Zhang Feng feel flattered at the same time, but also changed his feelings for Grandpa Wen.
Three
When she was 22 years old, considering that Zhang Feng had reached the age of marriage, her mother and sister Zhang Luo gave her a blind date.
Zhang Feng is very resistant in her heart, what's the point of a blind date? I don't know each other at all, and if I can't get along after marriage, I don't want to get married.
Zhang Feng thought that if he wanted to get married, he also had to find someone who knew his roots.
For example, Wen Changlin is a good choice.
The only drawback is that Wen Changlin is 45 years older than her.
But in the face of love, what does age matter?
Zhang Feng began to boldly confess to Wen Changlin.
At first, Wen Changlin was very surprised, although his wife has been dead for many years, and his 4 sons have already started a family, he has always treated Zhang Feng as a granddaughter, if the two of them are together, it is obviously not a good match~ Especially for Zhang Feng, the spittle of the neighbors can drown her.
But Zhang Feng was very brave, and under her warm show of love, Wen Changlin finally agreed. But Zhang Feng didn't dare to tell her mother, for fear that she would be angry with herself again.
However, one thing accelerated the process of their love, and that was that Zhang Feng was pregnant!
Upon learning of this, Wen Changlin's four sons were very supportive, and they were happy that their father had found a young partner, believing that even if his father was not in good health, he would be taken care of.
But Zhang Feng's family resolutely opposed it, but in the face of Zhang Feng's determination and Wen Changlin's sincerity, they finally chose to accept it.
In the midst of the doubts of his family and society, Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin got married.
They live together openly.
Soon after their marriage, the couple, who were nearly half a century apart in age, welcomed the crystallization of their love: a healthy son.
The joy of getting a son made Wen Changlin feel happy, but it also made the onlookers dumbfounded and sighed.
Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng's "grandson love" has aroused widespread heated discussions in the local area and even on the Internet.
But Zhang Feng was not afraid at all, she also took Wen Changlin and her son to participate in the "Happiness Knocks on the Door" program.
But for their combination, the majority of netizens can't accept it.
After all, the age gap is too big~ nearly two generations apart.
Some people questioned, is Zhang Feng's pure love for Wen Changlin or simply wants to repay his kindness?
Zhang Feng said that they know that their lives do not conform to the traditional concept of normal, but they do not care about other people's opinions and discussions, because happiness is their own business and has nothing to do with others.
I have to say that their courage to bravely pursue love and happiness is really admirable!
Four
Now, many years have passed, how is this "grandfather and grandson" couple living?
It turned out that their married life was very sweet.
But on September 28, 2022, 81-year-old Wen Changlin left this world, leaving Zhang Feng alone to pull his son alone.
But fortunately, their son is 10 years old, and Zhang Feng is only 36 years old.
Referring to the choice to marry Wen Changlin when he was young, Zhang Feng said that he did not regret it at all. On the contrary, Wen Changlin's constant companionship has given her enough courage to continue walking.
After watching the story of 28-year-old Zhang Feng insisting on marrying 73-year-old Wen Changlin, what do you think?
Do you have the courage to pursue such love?