Late at night, on the streets of Japan, a few people carried cameras to stop pedestrians wandering at intersections and asked, "Excuse me, can you excuse me?" Can you talk about it? Is it okay to go with you to your house? ”
This is the routine of the Japanese variety show "Is It Okay to Go to Your House with You".
In the middle of the night, when the trains are out of service, they interview random passers-by near the station and get a chance to visit their homes by reimbursing them for taxi fares.
At first, you may feel a little inexplicable, but as the so-called "life is like a play", although this variety show tells the stories of ordinary passers-by who are randomly interviewed, it allows the audience to taste a more exciting life than the movie.
Not only does the Douban score be as high as 9.5 points, but it is also regarded by many viewers as spiritual food to support life.
In this god-level variety show, this time it is a cute and interesting mother who is filmed.
This mother is 43 years old this year, and she is surprisingly already a mother of 6 children.
The husband of the first five children is divorced and is now living with the father of the youngest child but has not registered for marriage.
My current job is in charge of sorting items at a transport company, working from 5 a.m. to 9 p.m.
When I go home, I have to face the housework I hate the most, so I smiled and said that my mother, who occasionally wants to escape from these, just finished drinking today and is ready to go home after shopping.
In the taxi, my mother mentioned that she attended a girls' school in Tokyo in junior high and high school, so she was admitted to the Faculty of Law of the University of Tokyo in order to go to a school with boys and have a boyfriend!!
After graduating, I didn't get a job to prepare for the bar exam, but unfortunately I didn't take the exam.
这个遗憾，这位妈妈谈起时却很是乐观，还满脸笑容地自嘲为“尼特族”。 （NEET=Not in Employment, Education or Training，指一类不升学、不就业、不进修或参加就业辅导的社会族群）
At the age of 28, she married her first Korean husband whom she met online and gave birth to 5 children.
The mother said lightly in a usual nagging tone in the car that she originally raised her third child as a daughter, but because of gender identity disorder, she is now raising her as a son.
Later, one of the twin daughters born to the fourth child is also being raised as a boy because of gender identity disorder.
This mother's house is a three-bedroom high-end apartment, and the price listed online is 90,000 yen per month. But since it's a friend's house, I only need to pay 56,000 yen per month.
After all, there are 6 children, and the three-bedroom apartment is still a bit cramped. After entering the house, I saw that except for the eldest son who occupied a single room, the other children were sleeping in the living room~
(The youngest daughter's sleeping position is lit~)
Although there are a lot of things in the house, I am still reluctant to throw away the pictures drawn by my children, so I paste them all over the walls.
When she saw the baseball print drawn by the third child, the mother said with a little pride that although she was a girl, she played baseball with the boys and lived a really happy life.
When I came to the kitchen and saw the full local sink, my mother said with some embarrassment that she was busy with food and clothing for 6 children and 2 adults every day, and it seemed that the housework could never be done.
Although life is a little tight, I am fortunate to have many kind friends.
The rice cooker at home was broken, and the mom friend I knew took a bigger one for herself.
Neighbors who have a good relationship with their grandmother in their hometown will still think about them and send them their own dried plums.
My mother's mother would also bring her own plum wine because she remembered that she loved to drink.
Even the clothes of the 6 children, most of them were given by others~
can meet so many well-wishers, presumably this mother's personality is also very interesting~
Sure enough, when I saw the fifty tones & English alphabets bought at the 100-yen store in the bathroom, my mother suddenly started a funny Japanese-style English lecture.
Although the shelves are full of professional books like justice, I actually read funny comics.
Although I am busy with work and housework every day, I am still a very interesting Up master~
A video to introduce the headphones and try them out for yourself.
There is also a chorus video with karaoke netizens.
Seeing that her partner had a double ponytail, this mother also cooperated enthusiastically!
While looking through the photo album in the storage room, my mother also casually mentioned that she had seen the emperor and the empress!
Not only is it such a wonderful past, but the mother's views on her child's gender identity disorder are also admired by Xiaotong.
The third child is named Lihu, and after entering the kindergarten class, he gradually began to like boys' things. When her daughter was diagnosed with gender identity disorder, her mother's eyes moistened and she said she had been devastated.
But after thinking about it, this mother saw many things that parents may not want to understand for the rest of their lives. She choked up slightly and uttered the following words that could be called true.
Although these "paternalistic egoistic plans" cannot be realized, the third child is here. Although you can't wear a long-sleeved kimono for the third child, and you can't see the third child wearing a wedding dress, it also means that the third child will have a different future, and it may even be more exciting.
Later, the mother also looked up the Internet to see if there were any human rights groups for gender minorities in Fukuoka and took the third child to their events.
At one event, the third child chatted with a young boy who also had gender identity disorder.
In addition, my mother also took the third child to see the Takarazuka Opera. Seeing the handsome male servant on the stage (a woman dressed as a man), the third child happily told his mother that there were already girls who had done such a handsome thing!
Seeing that the third child was so happy, and the mother who was sorry for not understanding the third child was also very relieved.
can have such a gentle mother, I believe that the third child and the other 5 children will also grow into very good adults.
※ The views expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of Nippon Street.
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