There is still more than a month to go before the entrance exam, and many children are experiencing the pressure of preparing for the exam. At the first crossroads of life, parents hope that their children can take the high school entrance examination and college step by step, and it seems that the only way to get ahead is the college entrance examination.
The reality is that with nearly 50% of children unable to enter ordinary high schools, some children are destined to be eliminated no matter how hard they try.
What to do? Isn't it true that if you can't get into high school, your child won't have a way out? Of course not!
In the context of general job streaming, there are basically the following reasons for children who cannot be admitted to high school
Reason 1: The child has a weak foundation and is not interested in learning. The grades of such children from primary school to junior high school are in the middle and lower reaches, due to the poor learning foundation, weak foundation, and many knowledge points in junior high school, and the knowledge is gradually becoming difficult. If you can't keep up with one step, you can't keep up with each step, and after a long time, you will become less and less interested in learning.
Reason 2: The learning method is wrong. Partial subjects, declining grades, slow memorization of texts, poor comprehension skills...... The main reason for these headache learning problems is that they have not mastered scientific and suitable learning methods, even if such children are diligent and brush up on many questions, they can only stay on the surface and cannot grasp the essence of knowledge.
Reason 3: Unstable mentality. The high school entrance examination is an important exam, which carries the expectations of the family, as well as personal dreams, but due to various reasons, some children have an unstable mentality and cannot effectively cope with the pressure of the exam, and the high school entrance examination does not perform well, and the results are not satisfactory.
Reason 4: Public high schools have limited enrollment. From primary school to junior high school, children can enjoy nine years of compulsory education, and three years to high school do not belong to the category of compulsory education.
All in all, children's failure to enter high school is the accidental result of many inevitable factors, and parents do not want to accept the reality, so they have to adjust themselves to accept it.
Three hundred and sixty lines, the best in the line, and not being admitted to high school does not mean that the child has no way out
If your child can't get into high school, many parents may feel disheartened, feeling that if their child can't go to high school, there will be no hope in life. However, at a time when academic qualifications are depreciating and college students are unemployed after graduation, we find that children's road to success has long been more than just going to high school.
As the saying goes, "all roads lead to Rome" and "three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion". In fact, there are many children who go to secondary school, so as to tap their potential and realize the value of life, so don't judge your child's future by whether they go to high school.
Gu Huijing, after graduating from junior high school, gave up the traditional path to higher education and chose a vocational school, specializing in automobile application and maintenance. Relying on tenacity and love, after unremitting efforts, she finally shined in the professional skills competition of Guangdong Vocational College. With his skills that transcend gender boundaries, he defeated many opponents and not only won the first prize, but also set a new record in the engine disassembly and assembly project.
Gu Huijing
Zhang Huanteng, after failing the high school entrance examination, he studied at the technical secondary school, during the three-year secondary school study, he insisted on studying hard, won many grants and scholarships, and later he entered the higher vocational college, and was admitted to Chongqing Medical University through the "college promotion". Finally, he was admitted to Peking Union Medical College (Tsinghua University Health Science Center) with excellent grades in Biochemistry and Molecular Biology.
Zhou Xinjing
Zhou Xinjing, after graduating from junior high school, went to a vocational school, and then, he spent 11 years all the way to a junior college, a bachelor's degree, a master's degree, and finally a doctorate from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, creating an "almost magical counterattack life". During this period, he not only published a number of papers in the top journals of major databases, served as a reviewer, but also made wonderful speeches at the conference.
They use their personal experience to tell everyone that success is never only a monorail line to go to college, and vocational and technical schools can also produce high-end talents. As long as you find the right path for yourself, as long as you don't give up the pursuit, there are still infinite possibilities for the future.
Compared with going to a general high school or a vocational school, what parents should pay most attention to is how to let their children have better development
Vocational education and general high school are on an equal footing, but each has its own merits. Ordinary high schools focus on further education and grades, pay attention to the breadth and depth of knowledge, and mainly cultivate knowledge-based talents; Vocational education, on the other hand, focuses more on professional skills and pays more attention to the cultivation of vocational skills and employability.
In fact, there is no absolute superiority or disadvantage between the two, so what kind of path to choose for your child? Whether to go to a general high school or a vocational school, I think it should be suggested on how to let children have better development.
If your child has top-notch grades and is sure to be admitted to a major university or a more ideal university, it is still a good development path to continue in high school. However, if the results are not satisfactory, or if you do not adapt to the current examination system and admission mode, and you will not be able to get into a good university after three years, and you will not have the skills to make a living, you will face a greater dilemma again.
Therefore, as a parent, it is the right way to give your child enough support and encouragement, to have an in-depth understanding of various educational policies and paths, to understand the importance and value of vocational education, and to help your child make the most suitable choice after the high school entrance examination according to the child's situation, interests, hobbies, career planning and other factors, so that he can have a better development in the future.
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