Misplaced choices
My name is Li Jun, and I was born in a scholarly family, and there is no shortage of scholars and literati in my family. My parents always wanted me to carry on the family tradition, but I had an indescribable yearning for the business world. Since I was a child, I have always been interested in competition and gambling in the market, and I have always been fascinated by those seemingly complex business strategies.
After graduating from university, I decided to enter the business world and became a marketing planner. With my ingenuity and hard work, I quickly made a name for myself in the industry and became the core backbone of a well-known company. My career has been smooth sailing, but the road to my relationship has been bumpy.
In the eyes of my parents, relatives and friends, I should find a woman who is knowledgeable, gentle and virtuous. However, I always feel that those so-called "matched" blind dates lack a feeling that makes my heart move. Until one day, I met Yaru.
Yaru is one of my clients' representatives, she is young, beautiful, lively and cheerful, and shares my interests. We quickly became good friends, and I found myself unknowingly falling in love with her. However, when I mentioned Yaru to my parents, they were adamantly against us being together. They think that Yaru's family background is average, and her education is not high, so she is not a good match for me.
With the backlash from my parents, I began to feel conflicted and struggling. On the one hand, I don't want to give up my beloved Yaru; On the other hand, I don't want to disappoint my parents either. Just when I was hesitating, I met a girl named Wan'er.
Wan'er is the daughter of her parents' friend, she has a solid family, a high degree of education, and outstanding appearance. In the eyes of my parents and those around me, she was my ideal partner. They started arranging for us to meet frequently, hoping that we would be able to get together. At the urging of my parents, I began to try to date Wan'er.
However, getting along with Wan'er did not make me feel happy and happy. She is excellent, but our personalities and interests are very different. She likes to be quiet, like to read, and like to drink tea; I like to be busy, sporty, and travel. There are fewer and fewer common topics between us, and every time we meet, I feel embarrassed and helpless.
Despite this, I chose to marry Wan'er. I think maybe marriage really needs time to run in and adapt. As long as we are all willing to put in the effort, we will be able to find common ground with each other. However, I was wrong.
After getting married, I found myself getting farther and farther apart from Wan'er. Although we live under the same roof, our hearts are like an invisible wall. She never took the initiative to care about me, nor did she ask me about my work and life. We communicated less and less with each other, and sometimes we couldn't speak a word throughout the day.
I began to wonder if I had made the right choice. I'm starting to miss the time I spent with Yaru, those carefree and laughing days. I started to think about what I really wanted. An excellent but uninteresting companion? Or an ordinary, but passionate lover?
Finally, one night, I mustered up the courage to confess my heart to Wan'er. I told her that I had never really loved her and that I only married her because of the pressure and expectations of my parents. After listening to this, Wan'er was silent for a long time, and then said lightly: "Actually, I have already sensed your thoughts, but since we are already married, we should respect each other's choices." ”
I felt very guilty and sad at that moment. I realized that my mistake hurt not only Wan'er but also our marriage. I decided to communicate with Wan'er and find a solution to the problem.
After a period of hard work, we finally found a balance between each other. We began to try to understand and accept each other's differences, and find common interests and topics. While there are still differences in our personalities and interests, we are beginning to learn to respect and tolerate each other.
At the same time, I also began to re-examine my relationship and view of marriage. I have learned that true love is not based on material and external conditions, but requires genuine love, mutual understanding and support from both parties. I also realized that my wrong choice was not because Wan'er was not good enough, but because I never really understood my inner needs.
Eventually, Wan'er and I decided to start our married life again. We began to cherish each other's feelings more and work harder to manage our marriage. Although our path is still full of challenges and difficulties, we believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and create our own happiness and beauty.
Now Wan'er and I have gone through several years of married life, our relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and we cherish each other's existence more and more. I am grateful that misplaced marriage has made me more aware of what I really want, and it has also made me cherish the happiness and beauty of the present even more. At the same time, I also hope that everyone who is looking for love and marriage can find their own happiness and home. #头条创作挑战赛#