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What is the marital status of middle-aged couples? Those who engage in extramarital affairs, why can they be so tossed!
To be honest, I never imagined that my cousin and sister-in-law's marriage would turn out to be what it is today. I think back then, the two of them were called a love, but now, hey, it's really unforgiving.
When I went to their house a few days ago, I saw my cousin slumped on the sofa as soon as I entered the door, staring at the TV with his eyes intended, as if he and the TV screen were the only ones left in the world. My sister-in-law was busy in the kitchen, and from time to time she had to poke her head out to remind him to take medicine and drink water.
I sat down and talked to my cousin and asked him, "Brother, how are you doing now?" He sighed, shook his head, and said, "Well, that's it, what else can I do." I could hear the helplessness and exhaustion in his words.
The marriage of a middle-aged couple, to be honest, is really embarrassing. The passion at the beginning has long been smoothed out by the years, and the rest is the trivial life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Just like my cousin and sister-in-law, their current state is a typical "left hand touching right hand", and they don't feel anything anymore.
Actually, I can understand them. After all, after living together for so many years, they are too familiar with each other, and the novelty has long since worn out. However, some people are just unwilling, so they have to go outside to find some excitement, such as having an extramarital affair or something.
I really wonder, those who engage in extramarital affairs, where do they get so much energy? Don't they feel tired? Aren't they afraid of hurting their families?
Of course, I'm not saying that all middle-aged couples are like this. However, when the marriage reaches this stage, it does require the joint efforts of both husband and wife to maintain it. For example, try something new together, add some common topics or something. The most important thing is to learn to cherish what you have now!
To be honest, every time I see my cousin and sister-in-law's current state, I feel quite emotional. Although they have an uneventful life, maybe this is the true portrayal of middle-aged couples. And those who engage in extramarital affairs may only seek external stimulation because they can't find the passion of life in the ordinary, but the pursuit of excitement can't violate the moral bottom line!
I think that no matter what stage of marriage you go to, you need both parties to work together to maintain it, don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it! Don't ruin years of relationship for the sake of momentary excitement! Although the marital status of middle-aged couples is as plain as water, as long as they manage it carefully, they can still bloom with a different brilliance!
Speaking of his cousin, he was a spiritual guy when he was young, with a tall figure, a handsome face, and a wind when he walked. At that time, my sister-in-law was also a beautiful embryo, gentle and lovely, and her eyes were bent into crescents when she smiled. The two of them together are a match made in heaven!
But now? My cousin's back began to hunch, and his hair thinned out a lot; The wrinkles on my sister-in-law's face have also increased, and her figure has become a little out of shape. Time is really a pig-killing knife! It not only changed their faces, but also their mentality and feelings!
I think they were glue and inseparable when they first got married! But now? I guess they don't even think it's redundant to hold hands! Is this the sorrow of middle-aged couples? I really don't want to see such an ending, but the reality is so cruel!
So, I really hope that every middle-aged couple can cherish each other and go through every stage of life together! Don't wait until you're old to regret it! At the same time, I hope that those who have lost their way in marriage can find their way home as soon as possible! Because true happiness is often all around you, but you don't realize it!
Hey, it's all tears! In short, I think that although the marital state of middle-aged couples is embarrassing, as long as we manage it with our hearts, we can still live a wonderful life! Don't be defeated by the passage of time and the trivialities of life, face the reality bravely and cherish the present!