First, the prologue is laid out
Time flies, time flies. In the blink of an eye, it has been ten years since the "50 million blind date girls" incident that had caused turmoil in the domestic society. It seems to be gradually receding from the memory of the public, and it is gradually drifting away. However, when I reunited with Zhou Lanjun, the former protagonist, the memories of her innocent and youthful face in the past, and those eyes full of endless yearning for a better future, were still deeply imprinted in my heart.
There is no doubt that it is this young girl who has been denounced by many people as a "money worshipper" and regarded as "wishful thinking", and her words and deeds have not only detonated the controversy and criticism of the whole society, but also instantly become a hot topic on the Internet, setting off a national upsurge of discussion.
Today's Zhou Lanjun is no longer the ignorant girl who was blinded by the illusory dream of "marrying into a wealthy family". After years of tempering and precipitation, she finally realized the ignorance and absurdity of her youth, and found a more precious value and pursuit of life.
Do you remember? In 2014, a TV show called "Blind Date to Win" was at a low point in ratings. Just when the production team was at a loss, a "wonderful" character from the registration form attracted their attention - she was the 22-year-old college student Zhou Lanjun, who boldly declared that she was only willing to marry a rich second generation with a fortune of 50 million.
As soon as these words came out, it was like a thunderbolt from the sky, which made everyone present jaw-dropping! As a college student from an ordinary background and penniless, how could she have the confidence to make such harsh demands on the rich? This is undoubtedly like challenging the majesty of a lion, and it is simply asking for trouble.
2. The sensational "50 million blind date girls"
Back in 2014, when 22-year-old Zhou Lanjun was still an ordinary college student, he caused a huge repercussion across the country because of an arrogant remark. At that time, she participated in a TV show called "Blind Date Will Win", and openly expressed her amazing words that she was only willing to marry a rich second generation worth as much as 50 million.
At the scene, Zhou Lanjun's black and thick hair was carefully woven into a complicated hairstyle, his face was smeared with heavy fat powder, and he was wearing colorful clothes. She tried her best to portray an "aristocratic lady", but these "luxurious" outfits contrasted strongly with her plain appearance and ordinary family background, and instead appeared pretentious and hilarious.
However, what is surprising is that Zhou Lanjun has an absolute belief in his own attractiveness! She spoke elegantly and appropriately, and her voice was melodious, and she often boasted that she had been born into a wealthy family, received an excellent education, had achieved outstanding results, and was exemplary in moral character.
However, whenever she walked into the scene of the blind date, she immediately put on that gentle and moving veil, cast a contemptuous look at those male guests whose wealth has not yet reached the standard of "50 million rich second generation", and even expressed deep dissatisfaction with their backgrounds.
Her brow furrowed, her eyes cold, as if expressing deep contempt for the poor background of these people.
In the face of such an "unattainable" concept of door, the atmosphere of the scene suddenly fell into extreme embarrassment. Several male guests were enraged by her arrogant attitude and left the venue angrily.
However, Zhou Lanjun didn't care about this, as if she was the princess waiting for the "Prince Charming" to come to greet her.
However, when Zhou Lanjun's bold words spread through TV programs, they immediately sparked fierce controversy and condemnation among netizens across the country.
3. Internet heated discussions and apologies
Suddenly, the criticism of Zhou Lanjun on the Internet came like a tide, and the atmosphere was extremely warm.
What's more serious is that some netizens bluntly pointed out that although Zhou Lanjun boasts of a superior family background and noble morality, judging from her words and deeds towards the blind date male guests, this is obviously not true. She was indifferent to the male guests who were relatively poor, and even showed disdain and disdain, and did not show the so-called "good upbringing" at all.
The comments were even sharper, accusing her of being a "poor and vulgar" person, why should she judge the rich? For a while, all kinds of negative comments poured like a torrential rain, smashing at Zhou Lanjun one after another, shaping her into a conceited and vain image of a "gold worshipper".
In the face of such a violent storm of public opinion, Zhou Lanjun finally reappeared half a year later, and his attitude has undergone earth-shaking changes. She is no longer the arrogant and rude woman, but presents a modest and polite posture, dressed plainly, and has elegant makeup.
Maybe it was because he was inspired by some kind of life, or he was shocked by the strong criticism of netizens, in short, after experiencing the tempering of this incident, Zhou Lanjun seems to have completely awakened.
She realized that the pursuit of wealth is not the whole story of life, but more importantly, it is more important to use your own hands to earn dignity and freedom.
4. "Counterattack" in 2016
Just when everyone thought that the "50 million blind date girls" incident that attracted widespread attention would gradually be sealed in the memory of history with time, who would have thought that in 2016, Zhou Lanjun, who had just walked out of college, would break out like a waterfall in the online world with an emotionally full and shocking long article. In the article, she did not hesitate to point the finger at the program group of the popular reality show "Blind Date Will Win".
In this affectionate text, Zhou Lanjun angrily complained that it was precisely because of the deliberate guidance and instigation of the program team behind her back that she said those seemingly "arrogant" but true remarks in front of the camera, so as to attract the public's attention and increase the ratings of the show. If it weren't for the deliberate provocation of the program team, she would never have pursued the unattainable dream of "50 million rich second generation" so wishheartedly.
This passionate "Zhaoxue Indignation" made Zhou Lanjun fall into the whirlpool of public opinion again. Some people expressed deep sympathy for her, thinking that she was too young and naïve back then, and was very vulnerable to being used and misled by the program team, so it was understandable to say such words in front of the camera.
However, some people have questioned this, arguing that her accusations are nothing more than "quibbling" and "shirking responsibility". They insist that even if they admit that the program team did carry out some kind of guidance behind the scenes, in the final analysis, Zhou Lanjun's obsession with the rich still stems from her own deep money worship, which is her own problem, and others cannot be responsible for her wrong behavior.
However, compared with two years ago, when it was violently attacked by public opinion, the turmoil caused by Zhou Lanjun this time is far less intense than it was at the beginning. People seem to have lost interest in this once "crazy" girl, and her "counterattack" has not been able to stir up too many waves. Soon after, the matter gradually faded out of the public's field of vision, and it didn't seem to bother her too much.
From this incident, it is not difficult for us to find that the temporary "Internet celebrity" is just a flash in the pan after all. Without the support of more valuable content, it is destined to become an empty and illusory dream. For Zhou Lanjun, perhaps this "sensation" is an important opportunity for her to mature and recognize herself.
Fifth, down-to-earth present
Zhou Lanjun, who left the campus and entered the society, has now completely gotten rid of the label of "50 million blind date girl" back then. After that sensational but short-lived "Internet celebrity" career, she seems to have really grown up and become more sensible.
Today's Zhou Lanjun has already obtained a professional translation certificate, and she can make money to support herself without relying on others, which is completely different from the image of a young girl who completely relied on her parents or future husband a few years ago! She is down-to-earth, steadily improving herself, winning her own dignity and freedom with her own hands, and is living the life she has longed for for a long time.
Recalling the "50 million blind date girl" incident that caused widespread heated discussions a few years ago, it seems that Zhou Lanjun also feels quite ironic, she frankly said that she was indeed too young and frivolous, carried away by short-term vanity and fame, and blindly obsessed with the wrong pursuit of "money and status".
"At that time, I was just a little girl who was overly doted on by my parents, and my understanding of the real world was too superficial." Zhou Lanjun said so self-deprecatingly, "If I can start all over again, I will definitely not say those arrogant words again." "
From her eyes, we can clearly feel her deep reflection on the past and deep guilt. More importantly, however, we can also see her grow and awaken. The girl who was intoxicated with the fantasy of "rich second generation life" in the past has been gone, and Zhou Lanjun finally realized that money is important, but relying on one's own hands and talents to win dignity and freedom is the true value of life.
"My greatest wish at the moment is to earn money to support myself and live a dignified and free life." Zhou Lanjun said bluntly, "As for marriage, it is something that will naturally happen over time, but I will never see it as the only meaning of life again." "
From the girl who was once accused of being a "gold worshipper" to today's independent woman who fights for her life, Zhou Lanjun's growth path can be described as full of ups and downs. And this "sensational" event may be an opportunity for her to awaken and grow.