Over the years, we have often heard a saying: China's male singles have exceeded 30 million, China is more monks and less meat, basically as long as a man can't find a daughter-in-law, there is no woman who can't get married.
But it's like most people only know that "there is poetry and writing in the belly", but they don't know that the other half of it is - coarse cloth wrapped in life, only know "amorous and empty hatred since ancient times", but they don't know that the other half of the sentence is: good dreams are the easiest to wake up.
It is true that there are more than 30 million male singles in China, but it is followed by a statistic, China's leftover women: at present, it has exceeded 100 million.
In recent years, the discussion on the imbalance in the ratio of marriage and love between men and women in China has been one of the hot topics of social concern. Indeed, according to some statistics, the number of single men in China has exceeded 30 million, and there are also a considerable number of single women, more than 100 million.
This phenomenon is the result of a combination of many causes. First of all, with the rapid development of society and the acceleration of urbanization, people's pace of life is accelerating, and the pressure of work is increasing, and many young people find it difficult to find time and energy to find a suitable partner in their busy lives. Secondly, the traditional concept of marriage and love is also gradually changing, and modern people are paying more and more attention to personal growth and free love, and are no longer bound by traditional concepts. In addition, the imbalance in the gender ratio is also one of the important reasons for this phenomenon, due to historical reasons and cultural background and other factors, China's sex ratio has been high, which makes some men in the marriage market at a relative disadvantage.
However, we also can't simply see single women as the antithesis of the "leftover men" problem. Every single woman has her own life pursuits and values, and they may choose to be single or marry later for various reasons, which does not mean that they are "leftover" or "superfluous". We should respect everyone's choices and decisions, and not use a single standard to measure a person's worth.
At the same time, the government and all sectors of society should also take active measures to alleviate the pressure on the marriage market. For example, young people can be helped to better cope with marriage and love problems by promoting marriage and love education, optimizing marriage and love services, and improving the social security system. In addition, we should also strengthen the popularization and education of the concept of gender equality, eliminate gender bias and discrimination, and create a fair and equal environment for both men and women to marry and love.
In short, the imbalance in the ratio of marriage and love between men and women in China is a complex social problem, which needs to be analyzed and discussed from multiple perspectives. We should look at this phenomenon with an objective and rational attitude and actively take effective measures to solve the relevant problems. At the same time, we should also respect everyone's choices and decisions, and should not use a single standard to measure a person's worth.