When I was told in the morning that I was going to a conference tomorrow, my first reaction was, "Is this going to be a must?" ”
Thinking like this, his mouth asked truthfully, and he picked up his mobile phone and asked the messenger in the work group: "Are you sure I need to go to this?" It's enough for the governor to go alone. ”
2 seconds later, a tick message sounded, and the person in charge directly sent a screenshot of the notification, I opened it to see, when it was necessary to go, I immediately replied to the word "received".
Put down the mobile phone, there will be such a rejection, unhappy, I don't like the meeting the most, and I don't want to go to the head office, I always feel that it is not my own territory.
This is the reason why my generation is destined to be just a small soldier, because the basic duty of being a cadre is either to hold a meeting or on the way to a meeting.
Others are deliberately creating opportunities to contact their bosses, trying their best to wag their tails next to their bosses, expecting their boss's attention and praise, and striving to get into the eyes of their bosses.
What about me? I saw my boss coming from afar, and I dodged to the side as soon as I flashed, or I turned around and left, anyway, I either pretended not to see or pretended not to see.
Of course, this is not that I am interested in my boss, I am simply timid, I am naturally afraid, and I can't wait for the slow elevator to suddenly "swish" like a rocket to the floor, so as to run out of the boss's sight.
Everyone else is trying to appear in the sight of the boss, the purpose is to be familiar even if they can't make a profit for the time being, so that if there is an opportunity, the boss will think of themselves.
This was originally a routine operation in the workplace, but I may not like sycophants by nature, such a character, to put it mildly, it is integrity, and the ugly point is that the emotional intelligence is too low, and the latter is the truth.
As for me, I am also quite self-aware, I have always known that my emotional intelligence is quite low, and I have also wanted to try to learn and change, such as trying to learn from some colleagues with high emotional intelligence, paying attention to other people's speaking skills and ways of doing things, etc., but it has not been effective, because I can't do it.
I don't want to see my boss like a pug, nodding with a flattering smile on his face, and I don't want to be like my boss's personal maid and helping my boss serve tea and water, because I don't think it's really necessary to be so obvious.
Of course, I will try to follow my boss and make him a cup of tea at the right time, but I can't judge the two of them as soon as I see my boss coming, put down my work, and patronize the horses.
I'm not born to be an official, but I'm not a maid, I can't do either, although I admire those who regard whiskering and slapping horses as their life's work, and they do it well, but I can't learn it, and I can't learn it if I work hard.
I once heard a colleague who was very good at shining his shoes say that if the boss of the head office asked him to jump from the tenth floor, he would do too.
At that time, we were dumbfounded, do we need to be so stupid? If it was the parents' request, they would have resisted, right?
Of course, at that time, this colleague was a celebrity in front of his boss, and he may have gained a lot of benefits, but the specific ones are not something that I, a little shrimp, can know.
However, he didn't expect that once a gentleman and a courtier, there was no eternal boss, and then the boss he was holding was gone, and as a celebrity in the former dynasty, of course the successor didn't dare to use him, so he sent him to a distant mountainous outlet.
So sometimes it's not a good thing to be too obvious.
Of course, it's better than me, sometimes people who don't even want to speak, no matter who the person on the other side is, I don't want to say it, I don't want to say it, my mouth is like being on the line, and I can't open it with force.
Fortunately, I didn't meet any boss who had bad intentions and controlled my professional life and death, and finally worked smoothly to the age of retirement, and now I don't care anymore, and I don't want to wronged myself at the age when I can see the end at a glance.
So let's do it, it's the right thing to try to pull a few businesses to earn some pocket money, and don't think about anything else.