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Editor: Ziwen Tea Party
In this hot wheel-like society, the Internet has become the food for our souls and the antidote to our spirits. And the topic of marriage and love has always been the thousand-year-old boss of the Internet. If love is the poetry of life, then marriage is the commentary of that poem. Sometimes, however, the commentary may be confronted with a sad reality...... Cheating, a plot that should only appear in TV dramas, has taken root in this real life. A fitness internet celebrity named Yan Xiaojian has fallen into the public eye, and he is not praised for his talent, but because of his marriage scandal, which has attracted widespread attention from the society. The clue of the story starts from the original match, a woman wearing the online name "Internet celebrity Yan Xiaojian's wife", complains bitterly that her husband has fallen on the emotional road after learning to be bodybuilder and fitness.
Let's first re-examine Yan Xiaojian's face. He, an Internet celebrity in the fitness circle, has the support of 500,000 fans behind him, inspiring him to go further and further on the road of fitness. His body is full of strength and determination, his muscles are like armor forged for life, and there is no doubt that this is a fitness enthusiast who deserves respect and pursuit. A small spark can set the prairie on fire, and Yan Xiaojian was obviously a little dizzy after meeting a female Internet celebrity who also likes to show her figure and charm on the Internet. Even though his hand already had traces of the ring, even though he already had his original watch at night, he chose to approach a lost path.
His betrayal broke all the settings of the original partner in the script of life. They met and fell in love from the beginning of their youthful love, to the two holding hands in 2016 to share the joy of the marriage, and then to the third new life in the love hut built by the two. All this seems to be a beautiful beginning, but it is lost in the rupture of derailment. The sadness of the original partner turned into accusatory words and lingering pain. She had forgiven her husband she had loved, hoping that at this moment he would understand the seriousness of his wrongdoing, after all, the temptation of the devil's horn would always end. However, the naïve she reaped a bigger blow, Xiao San's arrogance was even better than before, and Yan Xiaojian gradually disappeared in her world.
This female Internet celebrity, when the title of junior was pasted on her head, she did not feel ashamed at all, but was arrogant, not only made unreasonable personal attacks on the original partner, but also showed her affection on the Internet in a high-profile manner, as if she was Yan Xiaojian's legal partner. Her behavior is undoubtedly a great insult to the original partner. In this voice of social justice, Yan Xiaojian and the female Internet celebrity's social platform comment area was blocked, and many netizens expressed their fierce support for the original match, hoping that such a scumbag could be punished accordingly. In life, there will always be the guidance of bridges and the healing of time. For the original match, maybe true love will find each other again in the lost years, and maybe find the power of resurrection in the devastation of pain. For Yan Xiaojian and the actress, the lessons of life may not be over, and they must learn to accept and correct them.
Behind Yan Xiaojian's betrayal, there is a deeper social phenomenon. That is, in this era, people pay more and more attention to material wealth, but more and more ignore the richness of the spiritual world. The example of Yan Xiaojian and female influencers is just a microcosm that allows us to see a part of the reality of society. Regarding Yan Xiaojian, there are some details that are worth exploring in depth. In pursuit of bodybuilding, he invested a lot of time and energy and became an Internet celebrity in the fitness circle. This shows that he is a person with goals and perseverance. However, his confusion and wrong decisions in marriage also reflect his emotional and moral immaturity and selfishness.
The original partner is undoubtedly the most innocent and deeply injured person in this incident. She once believed and expected a happy family, but it was all shattered overnight, and the accumulated feelings and hopes for a better future were all in vain. This tragedy is not accidental. In this materialistic society, people often ignore the importance of humanity and family harmony in the pursuit of goals. Yan Xiaojian undoubtedly fell into this trap, and in the process of pursuing bodybuilding and success, he lost his family and marriage that should be cherished.
We can't fully understand what happened between Yan Xiaojian and his partner. However, what we can be sure of is that the occurrence of this event reminds us once again to cherish the happiness in our hands, and that feelings and family should be cherished and maintained by us. It is immoral and should be condemned by society for female influencers to meddle in other people's families as a third party. However, we should also note that her behavior is not unique. In all corners of society, this kind of destruction of other people's families is hidden, and it is not only a matter of personal morality, but also of social morality.
In this seemingly high-tech, civilized and progressive era, while pursuing material life, people should also understand more that no matter what era, the importance of morality and emotion is eternal. A healthy society should not only have money and material transactions, but also emotional communication and moral persistence.
It is clear from this incident that the excessive pursuit of worldly definitions of "success"—fame, wealth, prestige—can sometimes lead us away from the true meaning of life. Yan Xiaojian's concept of fame and fortune leads him to ignore the feelings of his original partner and apply negative righteousness in pursuit of other goals that attract him. He may even be lost in this value of society, unable to discern right from wrong in his actions, believing that everything he does is for self-fulfillment and fulfillment. To this end, we see that the original partner experiences one of the most painful betrayals in the world - betrayed by love. She and Yan Xiaojian have survived hardships together, but they have not been able to share their new fame and wealth. She admitted that she misunderstood Yan Xiaojian's wishes and motives, held her broken heart, and felt the indifference and pain of society.
The behavior of female Internet celebrities also exposes the contradictory side of this society: the lack of morality. She dared to openly show off her status as a junior, not only endorsing her actions, but also almost turning a blind eye to the negation and condemnation she received. What is even more heart-wrenching is that this is not an isolated example, but only the tip of the iceberg of the big problem of society. Through Yan Xiaojian and female influencers, we see that more families may be silently experiencing similar pain and suffering similar trauma.
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