In love, it is often difficult to see through the ending at a glance. Maybe you will have the idea of falling in love with the right person, but after getting along, you may reveal the true face of TA. This is a reality we must face and a reminder that we should proceed with caution.
Many women unconsciously add filters to the man they like after meeting him, deliberately ignoring the flaws on his body.
Just relying on the perfect image that you have in your heart will not ensure that your love will last until the end. One day, you may discover the hidden evil in this man's heart, and you may regret it. When choosing a partner, you need to consider multiple perspectives, not just appearances or appearances.
When it comes to feelings, anxiety and impatience don't help. If you want to be with a man for a long time, then you must first get to know him.
When dealing with men and women, it is not difficult to understand a man's true attitude. Just pay attention to the following aspects, and you can easily read his inner world.
One, see if he respects women
Xiao Shu's best friend introduced her to a man, claiming that he had a gentle and humble personality and was a good boyfriend with twenty-four filial piety. Xiao Shu was convinced and decided to seriously consider it.
When Xiao Shu began to contact this man, she immediately felt an atmosphere of discomfort and offense enveloping her.
At dinner, men always take the initiative to order as soon as they sit down, without regard for the other diner. This behavior seems a bit selfish and requires people to value and respect table manners.
didn't pay attention to what Xiao Shu liked to eat at all, and started to play with his mobile phone after ordering, which made Xiao Shu feel very embarrassed.
Later, they met a few more times, but each time it was a similar situation. Xiao Shu no longer plans to contact him.
If a man doesn't have basic respect, no matter how much you love him, you can't live a happy life. This is a basic requirement and the key to the healthy development of the relationship. So, we must respect and value each other.
These men tend to be self-conscious and overly macho. They never thought about what the women around them needed, and they didn't even want to ask each other for their opinions. It is difficult for such people to get along with, and it is a wise choice to stay away from such men.
Living with such a man, a woman will often feel neglected. Not only will he not be able to treat you sincerely, but he will even subconsciously see you as a dispensable appendage. If you want a healthy and loving relationship, then such a man is not the one you should choose. Learning to love yourself and choosing men who really understand your real needs is a better choice.
When you notice this sign in a man at the beginning of a relationship, it's best to say no right away. It's a suggestion to make sure you're not emotionally hurt.
Don't isolate yourself and try to be a "savior" because no matter how hard you try to influence the other person, they will never put you first in their hearts.
To sum up, this type of man is very selfish and he will not share love with you.
In our real life, there are many women who realize that they have married the wrong person after marriage and regret it. As a result of this situation, they are often subjected to cold violence or domestic violence by their husbands, and their lives are extremely painful. We should be more careful in choosing our partners to avoid situations of remorse and pain after marriage.
To avoid this, it is advisable to observe the man's emotions at the beginning of the relationship. This will give them a better understanding of their mood and will allow them to handle the relationship more easily and formally.
Generally speaking, emotionally stable men will not shout or use their hands to express their dissatisfaction even if they have a conflict with you. This behavior is a sign of immaturity and should be avoided.
Some men tend to get too angry with you because of the little things around them, but there are also some men who are the opposite. They are always good at controlling their emotions and will not pass their excessive anger on you.
If he is having difficulties at work, he may be irritable and a little cold. In this case, he may find fault or lose his temper with you. However, we should understand his emotions and help him relieve stress as much as possible.
When you disagree, he may resort to arguments or even violence to force you to submit. This behavior is highly inappropriate and should be sought in a timely manner and appropriate measures should be taken.
If you meet such a man, it is better not to marry him. This type of man often can't control his emotions and will see you as his punching bag. If you are with such a man, it will only make you waste your youth. Finding a man who is responsible and emotionally stable is what you should strive for. In this way, a happy family can be built.
Many men make excuses when faced with failure, saying that they don't have a good job because they are unlucky.
If he doesn't have enough wealth, he may blame his fate. Without reliable friends, he may also feel isolated by the people around him.
To sum up, this type of man never realizes that he has a tendency to be lazy.
Getting along with a negative person on a daily basis will unconsciously be affected by it and gradually become similar. This reminds us to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and to try to maintain our positive emotions when encountering negative people and not to be brought into them by negative emotions.
Remember this saying: women don't have to look for a partner in the trash.
A man who is too lazy is difficult to change, and if you insist on being with him, then the price you have to pay is often unpredictable.
Every woman longs for happiness, but when you are faced with a man who is decadent all day long and only complains about life, you realize that he cannot have a big temperament because he is inherently lazy.
Conclusion:
Love should be the result of mutual effort, and tolerance is a manifestation of that effort. In a love relationship, we need both partners to put in the effort to achieve tolerance and understanding for each other.
If a man can neither respect you nor bring you any positive influence in life, then what is the purpose of your inclusion of him? There is no reason why you should continue to put up with his disrespect and negative influence.
Feelings and reality are closely related, and even if you label the other person as perfect, it cannot change the essence of his heart. Hope you understand this. No matter how much we fantasize, reality is always in front of us. Instead of blindly sealing your feelings, it is better to find out the true situation of the other party, and look at and deal with emotional problems rationally.
If a person is unable to respect women, always vents his emotions to you when he is in trouble, or even complains in front of you often, then you better leave. Otherwise, sooner or later you will be hurt. As a woman, we deserve to be respected and cared for. If men can't understand this, they don't deserve our time and attention.
Remember, when choosing a man, appearance is not the most important factor, but the three views and character are the primary considerations. Don't be easily deceived by men's rhetoric, carefully examine and understand his true heart, in order to find the happiness that truly belongs to you. Choose wisely and don't make a big mistake out of the heat of the moment.