In the early morning, on the shore of the campus lake, the breeze was light and the water was not rippling, Xiao Xunlong sat alone on the bench by the lake, staring at the sparkling lake, and fell into contemplation. He is a well-known "master of knowing people" in this university, and with his unique "knowledge of people", he can accurately perceive people's hearts and see through the essence of people. However, in the early morning of that day, he felt an unprecedented chill.
Since he was a child, he has been full of curiosity about human nature, and he is good at observing people's words and deeds, and deducing people's personalities and motives from them. This ability made him popular in college, and his classmates were willing to talk to him and hear his insights on human nature. However, Xiao Xunlong is well aware that this ability of his own is not completely reliable, and sometimes he will misjudge due to preconceived ideas.
Early that morning, Xiao Xunlong came to the lakeside in order to verify the "18 skills of recognizing people" that he had recently summarized. He believes that these 18 skills can help him to distinguish people and things more accurately. However, when he began to examine these "techniques" one by one, he found that each one made him shudder.
First, Xiao Xunlong believes that a truly kind person can always remain calm and rational at critical moments. However, he recalled that he had misjudged someone's nature on the spur of the moment, and he couldn't help but feel a trace of guilt in his heart.
Second, Xiao Xunlong believes that a truly responsible person always has the courage to take responsibility in the face of difficulties. However, he realized that sometimes people also choose to avoid it for fear of taking responsibility, which made him question his own judgment standards.
As Xiao Xunlong continued to examine these 18 skills of recognizing people, he found that he had made more and more mistakes due to overconfidence. He began to reflect on whether his ability to recognize people was really so accurate, and whether he could really read people's hearts.
At this moment, a familiar figure walked into Xiao Xunlong's line of sight. It was his friend Xiao Chen, a person who usually seemed ordinary but had a kind heart. Xiao Chen walked up to Xiao Xunlong and sat down, and asked with concern, "Xunlong, what's wrong with you?" Looks preoccupied. ”
Xiao Xunlong sighed and told Xiao Chen his doubts. Xiao Chen was silent for a while after hearing this, and then said slowly: "Turbidity Dragon, do you know? Knowing people is not something that can be achieved overnight, it requires the accumulation of time and experience. We cannot easily judge a person's nature based on their own opinions. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we should learn to be tolerant and understanding. ”
Xiao Chen's words made Xiao Xunlong suddenly enlightened. He realized that although his "art of recognizing people" had some truth, it could not be fully applied to everyone. Everyone has their own uniqueness, and we should experience and understand them with our hearts.
From that day on, Xiao Xunlong began to interact with people more modestly, and no longer made judgments easily. He learned to listen and observe, to experience the inner world of each person with his heart. With the passage of time, his ability to recognize people has become stronger and stronger, but he has also understood a truth: knowing people is not something that can be achieved overnight, it requires the accumulation of time and experience. We should keep a humble heart and keep learning and improving.
In the early morning, the campus lake is still quiet and beautiful, and Xiao Xunlong sits on a bench, looking at the sparkling lake, and his heart is full of hope. He understands that as long as he keeps a humble heart and keeps learning and improving, he can become a real "master of knowing people".