Dear single friends, today we are going to talk about the topic that is stressful every holiday season - forced marriage.
Hey, it's all tears when you say it, and every time a big family gets together, we "singles" can always feel the oppression of an invisible "love". From childhood to adulthood, the parents' marriage urging skills have only increased, and they can almost make their debut to participate in the "Marriage Urging Talent Show"!
Every time they get together, whether it's serving food to the table or cutting a piece of fruit, they can always cleverly lead the topic to "Look at Xiao Zhang, aren't you also married?" The child can make soy sauce. Speaking of us, single dogs, we are panicked
And the parents' marriage urging words are changeable, rich in content, and unique in angles, so that our juniors are sometimes unguardable.
Let's take a look at how netizens are urged to marry and how to deal with it
Don't let it when you talk, it's yellow and let the knot, where can I find it for you, does it fall from the sky [covering your face]
Mom: I've never seen a child who wants to find a partner to become your virtue, be reserved
Your seamless answer won't be able to fix it for your parents
Hahaha, you can also say: our family doesn't have that condition
The main thing is a serious nonsense, strangling the aunt's ideas in the cradle
What's wrong with Lord Yama, I like the elderly, and the God of Wealth is not bad [sneer]
You two are really sisters and brothers, and you really know how to find a way for your mother [covering your face]
She's 46 and she's not married, can she not know if it's good to get married [dog head]
There are still parents who only think about their own impatience, but do not take into account their children's own thoughts. After all, in the future, it is the two of them who will live, and the young people's own ideas are the most important
The elderly have gone through decades, and they may be afraid that their children will have no support in the future, so they want to find someone to take care of them instead
I still hope that the older generation can think about it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and children know how to live their own lives, and don't interfere too much
In the loving urging of our parents to marry again and again, we also have to thank them for their unswerving kindness.
Although we often feel stressed, if we think about it from another angle, these are all manifestations of our parents' desire for us to find happiness as soon as possible. So, the next time your parents turn on the marriage urging mode again, take a deep breath, give them a warm hug, and patiently tell them, "Thank you for your concern, I will try to find my own happiness." ”