The May Day holiday was supposed to be a day for family reunions, but this year was the hardest time of my life.
I, an ordinary father, look forward to the May Day holiday every year because it was the moment when my son and I were reunited. But this year, instead of coming home, my son chose to go on a trip with his friends.
The moment I heard the news, my heart was filled with loss and helplessness. I don't understand, why my son is not willing to spend this holiday with us, is family no longer important to him?
I tried to call him and ask him why he made this choice, but the call never went unanswered. My heart grew heavier and heavier, and I began to wonder if I had lost my place in my son's heart.
My wife was also upset when she saw me, and she advised me not to think too much about it, maybe it was just that my son wanted to spend some time with his friends. But I know that this is not a simple hypothesis, but a microcosm of our relationship.
A few days have passed, and I still haven't heard from my son. I felt more and more anxious and began to wonder if I was having something wrong with my son, if I had neglected something important while he was growing up.
Just when I was deep in self-reproach, suddenly the phone rang. It was my son calling, and his voice was a little trembling, as if he was hiding his inner uneasiness.
"Dad, I'm sorry, I was wrong." His voice was apologetic and remorseful, "I didn't take into account your feelings, I chose to travel with my friends because I wanted to release some stress, but I didn't expect you to be so worried. ”
Hearing his apology, my mood finally relaxed, and I knew that this was not the time to blame, but to understand and tolerate.
"Kid, you're not wrong." I said, "Mom and Dad just want you to live happily and healthily, and we will respect your choice." But I hope you can care more about your family in the future and don't let us worry. ”
The son was silent on the other end of the phone for a moment, then said, "I understand, Dad." I'll pay more attention in the future. ”
After hanging up the phone, I felt that the stone in my heart had finally landed. Perhaps, this experience has allowed us to get to know each other better and strengthen our relationship.
Although the May Day holiday was not reunited as usual, it was an important practice between us. I believe that through mutual understanding and tolerance, our family will become more harmonious and happy.