Some people are introverted and don't like to express themselves, giving people a sense of coldness. But this kind of person is just insecure and will be sincere to you as long as you can make them trust.
Your friendship will not change easily, and if you encounter difficulties and need help, the other party will also give you strong backing.
In life, the most feared thing is friends who love to disguise, they seem to have high emotional intelligence and are very good at making friends, but in fact they are very cold and selfish.
A person has these 3 characteristics, and most of his character is hypocritical, so he doesn't have to have deep friendships.
01: I like to be clever when doing things
Some people's personality is that they like to take shortcuts, do not work hard to improve their personal strength, and love to be smart.
Most of these people are hypocritical, as long as they are related to their own interests, they are very polite.
But if your presence does not bring them benefits, his attitude towards you will become perfunctory and contemptuous.
There are many hidden dangers when you are friends with this kind of person, and sometimes you are a little careless, and you don't know when you are being used.
People are complicated, if they are colleagues with each other, get along with people who like to play smart, as long as you keep your distance, you don't have to turn your face.
But if it is a more important friend in life, remember to stay away, there is no point in deep friendship.
People who only value interests and shortcuts, friends who don't care about their hearts, are not worthy of deep friendship.
02: Insincere, often double-faced
Ji Xianlin said: "I have made lifelong friends and like such people: simple and easy; Hard bones, soft heart. ”
Only friends with a kind and sincere heart can go through a lifetime, trust each other, and get more support and help when encountering hardships.
And those who often go both ways, must be careful not to get too close. The most terrible thing about people is not that they have a bad temper, but that they have two faces.
On the surface, he looks very docile and has a very friendly attitude towards you, but as soon as he turns around, he becomes very evil, and he wants to make you lose everything.
How passionate you are on the outside, how ruthless you are on the inside.
A person who is two-faced and stabbed is the one who is truly vicious, and he must be as far away as he is.
Most of them know how to hide very well, and they will set up a good person for themselves, and they are not broad-minded at all.
Generally, it is not easy to find out at first, and you will interact sincerely, even from the heart to the heart. However, after getting along for a while, you will find out the other person's falsehood.
At this time, don't be emotional, and stay away from whatever you've been through.
03: Untrustworthy, always treacherous
There is a kind of person in life who loves to brag and has no ability himself, but he is used to boasting. What you promised to your friends can be forgotten immediately, and you are always treacherous.
The character of such a person is absolutely unreliable and very selfish.
Usually, when your life is going well, you will make a lot of promises to you, and you will seem to be very righteous.
But when something really happens to you and you need the support and financial help of your friends, the other party will definitely hide away from you.
When your affairs have subsided, he will appear next to you again and say something high-sounding.
It is the most unlucky to be friends with this kind of person, and the sooner you stay away, the more worry-free.
Chen Yong (not his real name) knew a brother who was a high school classmate. In the years when I started my own business, the business at the beginning was really good, and I was lucky.
The best brother needed help, and he agreed without saying a word, and he was very trustworthy.
Friends often say that if you encounter difficulties in the future, boldly open up to him, and you will definitely stand up to the end. On several occasions, however, Chen's company and family have been in trouble.
When he made a request, his friend disappeared without replying to messages or answering phone calls.
After Chen Yong's everything was dealt with, his friend appeared again, pretending to care about him.