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The recent "fat cat incident" is really terrifying, there is a young man in Hunan's hometown, who spent 510,000 yuan for a girlfriend he met on the Internet;
I met twice, and I went to Chongqing to find a short view of the Yangtze River;
A young life is gone.
You say, "What is more precious in this world than life?" If you don't have a life, you can't do anything, and only when you live can you have hope;
There is a chance to turn the page.
When I heard this, my heart felt like a river;
静不下来。
21 years old, for this age, 510,000 may be the first pot of gold, put aside ordinary families in Hunan;
Save this number, and you have to save it for years.
The wage standard in Hunan is not high, and most people in Changsha are only about 4,000, deducting food and drink;
Save 50,000 yuan for 10 years.
This young man, not to mention that he has deceived all online dating in two years;
It's really distressing to put your life into it.
What's even more explosive is that this woman's methods are extremely bad.
forced the young man to give thousands of money, and the red envelope transfer should not stop;
If you slow down, you will be scolded, swearing is continuous, and the scolding is so ugly that even the young man's mother will not let go;
How tasteless this must be.
The young man was stunned and couldn't see clearly, and fell in;
It's hard to figure out.
Day by day, I spent 330,000 yuan in 3 years, and I met 5 times, do you think this is outrageous? I couldn't believe it.
Online dating traps
May 8;
There was a young man in Wuhan, Ah Ming, who was really aggrieved and panicked, and asked Zheng Xuezhi, a lawyer from Beijing Yingke (Wuhan) Law Firm, to help him and vent his bitterness to reporters;
told a love story that almost made him breathless.
This matter has to be seen from the chat records of the two, at the beginning;
The woman made careful thinking and asked Ah Ming to buy her things, and then asked for this and that every day;
Red envelope transfer is like receiving a salary, and if you don't give it, you will be scolded;
You can say anything unpleasant, what "waste", "are you dead";
听着都心寒。
Ah Ming wanted to argue two sentences, but people directly took the set of "if you can't do it, you will be divided", "you are poor and reasonable", "society is like this, blame yourself for not working hard", and his head was dizzy.
What's more;
The number of red envelopes is 13920, 3344, 1314, and 520, and you have to note sweet words;
It is said to be a testimony of love.
Lawyer Zheng Xuezhi said that this woman obviously set up a bureau;
I want to show that the money was given voluntarily by Amin.
Fortunately, the judge Ming Spiegel judged the money to be unjust enrichment, and asked her to pay back Ah Ming more than 270,000 yuan.
Now that Ah Fang is dragging his feet, Ah Ming plans to apply to the court for compulsory enforcement and get his hard-earned money back.
330,000 in 3 years
Ah Ming, a big boy in Wuhan Xinzhou;
The two sisters in the family are married.
He works on the construction site, has a soft personality, and has no chance to contact the girl, and has been single.
By the end of June 2020;
26-year-old Ah Ming was introduced to 24-year-old Ah Fang, and the two also met in front of their parents and added WeChat;
Let's start talking.
Ah Fang is very good at things, and always says that she loves fruits;
Envy others for receiving gifts, Amin listened;
If your heart is soft, buy and buy;
All meet her.
Sometimes Ah Fang sends a shopping link and says "don't keep shopping", but his hand is very honest.
Ah Ming asked if he could buy it, Ah Fang said, "I don't have to pay for it", and compared the rejection of his sister's blind date to send a mobile phone, the meaning is obvious;
I have to look at you to accept it.
Slowly, Ah Fang began to specify things to buy, and the amount of red envelope transfer was also set.
Ah Ming sometimes reacts slowly, or is shy in his pocket, Ah Fang directly said, "I bought it, you reimbursement" and "remember to transfer the salary".
Things range from dozens of facial masks to tens of thousands of famous brands;
Dare to ask for anything.
One day, Ah Fang sent 22 links from morning to night, such as power banks, toothpaste, umbrellas, everything.
The reason for asking for red envelope transfer, from Valentine's Day to Chung Yeung Festival, from what her girlfriends have, she also wants it;
When it came to buying things for my father, I used all kinds of excuses.
Ah Ming said that he has been in love for more than a year, and he has met 3 times;
The first time was a blind date, and the second time I sent a mobile phone;
In just a few minutes, the third time I had a meal.
Ah Ming wanted to see each other more, but Ah Fang was good, so he asked if the salary had been paid;
What's the birthday.
Ah Ming turned 520 and asked when they would meet;
Ah Fang said that there was something wrong and asked for Disney's money.
Ah Ming complied, bought a bag of more than 20,000 yuan, and said that he would send the bag to go shopping the next day.
As a result, Ah Fang released the pigeons;
scolded and begged, and finally asked Amin to throw the bag downstairs next to the trash can at night and get it for her.
Lawyer Zheng Xuezhi said that in the past 3 years, Ah Ming has smashed 330,000 yuan;
I have seen Ah Fang no more than 5 times, Ah Fang's trick;
Chat history is available everywhere.
I was urged to give out red envelopes all day long
Ah Ming's life is not good, he is often urged to give out red envelopes all day long, from morning to night, and sometimes he has to stay up late to borrow money from colleagues;
Open an online loan to make money.
Reply a little slower, or the money is not available;
The message was like a barrage of swear words and unpleasant words such as "waste" and "dead people".
A few times Amin worked overtime at the construction site in the middle of the night, or held meetings to talk to the leaders;
Tell her "Wait", but the woman is not happy;
said that he "has time to type, but no money to give";
also scolded him for grinding like a.
This debt collection can go on for hours, or even days.
In December 2021, Ah Ming was urged to pay more than ten days' wages, and it was a double 12 red envelope;
It's the money to go to Sanya again, and a lot of New Year's Day and Spring Festival.
As soon as the salary arrived, he turned it around in two rounds: 3444, 520, and 1314, 520.
The woman is still not satisfied, and said that it will be at least 3,000 each time, and the rest will be given next year?
The woman still keeps saying, "Sending 5200 is true love;
Want to marry me", "13920 represents a lifetime;
I have all my girlfriends", forcing Armin to turn.
between scolding and scolding;
"Honey" and "baby" cried out, saying that they wanted to go out to play when they had money.
If you want money with good meaning, the woman has to let the remarks speak sweetly, and she also advances 200 to make up the number;
or let Armin dismantle and resend it, and Armin is annoyed;
was scolded that "dogs can't change their".
Every time the money arrives, the woman will say "Thank you, dear for the red envelope gift", no matter how fierce you scolded a second ago, you can still scold after speaking.
Lawyer Zheng Xuezhi said that the woman did this because she wanted to keep a hand;
In case Amin asks for money in the future, he says that it is given voluntarily;
Defaults.
The dream of a bubble marriage contract
Amin asked several times if he could meet his parents as a couple.
The woman often replies with "the brain is not clear", "I didn't say it's not a couple", "look at the means you chase", "if you don't want to, change people".
Amin wants to go shopping and shopping with the woman, instead of being an online ATM.
The woman replied, "I don't want to take you to see my friend."
They're all beautiful, they're very snobbish, and you're poor.
Girls often say;
Don't play with people who don't have money, it's a waste of time.
Amin offered to give the bank card to the woman, and if she got married, she could add the woman's name to the house book.
The woman replied, "I can't look down on the card that doesn't pay attention to 10,000 yuan", "My aunt's house is only in her name;
There is no name on my uncle.
The mother-in-law gave her daughter-in-law a house, and adding a name is nothing."
The woman often taught Ah Ming: No money is not worthy of falling in love, I have always rejected others, and the world I have seen is something you can only see in the news; I used to travel with my boss on a business trip;
is to live in the Canton Tower Hotel, eat 5,000 for a meal; Talent before success is worthless;
A celebrity has no money and has been abandoned by his girlfriend; You are 26 years old, and your salary is not more than 10,000 yuan, you have to work hard;
"Dogs are more obedient than you."
Ah Ming once retorted, saying that the money given to the woman could already pay a down payment, complaining that the woman was verbally abusing him, "I am a person;
Not a brute".
The woman replied: You are machismo, you have a problem with your personality, and if you don't correct it, "I will never marry you".
After a few conceptual arguments, Amin became submissive, often apologizing consciously "I was wrong" and "understood;
I am waste", trying to exchange self-humiliation for forgiveness.
But often in exchange for "you are cheap", "I haven't dumped you yet, you steal the fun", "What do you have, you are so poor that you are justifiably poor".
In February 2023, Amin was lukewarm to asking for money because he was unemployed.
Female indication;
After receiving 200,000, he was willing to marry the man.
Amin began to go out to ask for unpaid wages.
On the 25th of the same month, the woman said, "This is the last chance, don't blame me for not reminding you", "Reissue Valentine's Day red envelopes, with a bride price of 220,000 or 280,000;
Prove what you're made of".
The debt collection continued until the evening of the same day, and Amin was blocked by the woman.
Since then, the woman has temporarily restored Ah Ming's WeChat friends many times, asking for money to buy a mobile phone and asking for shopping on her behalf;
After that, he will block Armin again.
The woman once restored Ah Ming as a friend and asked, "Your sister called me to ask for money;
What does it mean".
Amin said that what he bought should be returned to him.
The woman no longer replied to the message, and completely blocked Amin on April 14, 2023.
In December 2023, the Xinzhou District People's Court ruled to refund 270,000 yuan on the grounds that the money obtained by Ah Fang constituted unjust enrichment.
At present, because Afang has not executed the judgment for a long time;
Amin decided to apply for enforcement.
"There were about 60,000 yuan in transfers and payments, and it was impossible to judge the nature, so Amin gave up.
Zheng Xuezhi introduced, according to what he knew;
There is no property in Ah Fang's name that can be used for enforcement.
On May 9, the cover news reporter called Ah Fang's phone in the chat log, and the number was down.
Ah Ming has always had a wish in his heart, that is, he can generously take his girlfriend home to meet his parents, but every time he mentions it, the woman always replies to him without saltiness: "Are you stupid", "I didn't say that we are not a couple", "You have to be a little sincere in chasing people";
Or "if you can't do it, don't delay me".
Amindo wants the two to go to the mall hand in hand and experience the real taste of love, but in the eyes of his girlfriend, he is more like a mobile Alipay.
The girlfriend said bluntly: "My friends are all beautiful, and they are still powerful, and you are not rich;
They don't want to waste time with people who don't have money.
Ah Ming thought that if he handed her the bank card, he would be able to add her name to the real estate certificate when he got married in the future.
But she said disgustedly: "The card of thousands of dollars is not eye-catching", "My aunt's house didn't have her husband's name written on it, and my mother-in-law sent more houses, so what is it to add a name".
girlfriends often count down Amin;
said that he didn't want to fall in love if he had no money, but he used to pick people tightly;
I've seen a lot of big scenes because they're in the news; If you live in a high-end hotel on a business trip, you can eat 5,000 yuan for one meal; No beforehand;
Talent is not worth anything at all, and even celebrities will be dumped by their girlfriends.
Finally, he added: "You are 26 years old, and your monthly salary is less than 10,000, so you have to work harder;
Even dogs are more obedient than you. ”
Ah Ming couldn't help but retort, saying that the money given to her could pay a down payment on a house;
Why do you keep scolding others, you are also dignified.
As a result, his girlfriend beat him up, saying that he was machismo and had a faulty personality;
Don't want to marry her if you don't change your life.
After several quarrels, Amin gave in, always criticizing himself: "It's my fault", "I'm just useless", thinking that a low profile can be exchanged for peace.
But this trick didn't work, but in exchange for more mean words: "You are cheap", "I haven't kicked you yet, be content", "Poor and hard".
By February 2023;
Amin lost his job and became indifferent to the woman's request for money.
The woman directly asked for 200,000 yuan before she was willing to marry.
Amin ran around asking for wages, but on the 25th, the woman gave an ultimatum;
asked for Valentine's Day red envelopes and bride prices of 220,000 to 280,000, saying that it was to test his strength.
Urged to the evening, Amin was blocked.
After that, the woman occasionally unblocked his WeChat, asked for money to buy things, and blocked him again.
Just when I was about to completely die of this relationship;
The woman actually added him back to WeChat friends.
The message that popped up on the screen was that the woman asked coldly: "Why did your sister call me suddenly, and what did you mention about the money?" Ah Ming stared at the line of words, and his heart was mixed;
Finally, he typed out the phrase: "What I bought you before; I think you should give it back to me. ”
After that, the woman completely disappeared, and blocked him on April 14.
At the end of the year, the court sentenced; said that the woman had to pay back 270,000.
The current situation is that Ah Fang didn't take the court's judgment seriously at all, and dragged on and didn't pay back.
When Armin saw this, he was out of line;
I can only apply for compulsory enforcement and take legal channels to get my hard-earned money back.
Among them, there are about 60,000 yuan of transfers and payments, because I can't tell what the nature is, Ah Ming thought about it;
I can only endure the pain.
According to the information he has, lawyer Zheng said that Ah Fang is afraid that he has no property to repay his debts;
It's hard to do.
epilogue
After reading this news, I really feel that "love is risky, and you need to be cautious in transferring".
What kind of love is this;
It's simply a "money war".
A Ming, a young man from Wuhan, was asked for transfers and red envelopes by the woman in various ways in this "love", and spent 330,000 yuan in 3 years, but only met with the other party 5 times;
That's outrageous, isn't it?
The woman's behavior from the initial hint of asking Ah Ming to pay for the purchase, and then directly specifying the purchase of goods, asking for red envelopes and transferring money, is really speechless.
In particular, she asked for those special amounts of red envelopes, and also asked for information on the theme of love, which was obviously deliberately creating traces of "voluntary gifts" and trying to evade legal responsibility.
This kind of behavior is so immoral.
Fortunately, Amin defended his rights through legal channels;
In the end, the court ruled that the woman needed to return more than 270,000 yuan.
However, the woman has not executed the judgment for a long time, which also makes Amin have to prepare to apply for enforcement.
This tells us that we must remain rational in love and not be confused by the other party's sweet words and hints;
Don't transfer money or give away valuables lightly.
At the same time, it also reminds us that;
Keep your eyes open when interacting with people;
See each other for what they really are.
Don't be fooled by the superficial magnificence and sweetness, and feel the true emotions and qualities of the other person with your heart.
Only in this way can a similar "money war" be avoided again.