Do you think that in ancient times, men could do whatever they wanted, messing around outside, while the women at home could only swallow their anger? That's a big mistake! In that era of polygamy, women had their own unique "cheats" to deal with flowery husbands.
Let's talk about the noble harem ladies first. Don't look at them as usually dignified and virtuous, supple and supple, but once their husbands dare to "take a second wife" outside, they will change their faces. Take Emperor Wen of Sui's Queen Dugu as an example, she is a typical "strong woman".
In order to prevent her husband from pampering other women outside, she asked for the right to rectify the harem from the imperial husband. Since then, the concubines in the harem have to take a detour when they see the emperor, for fear of provoking this "female devil".
and Lu Shi, the wife of Fang Xuanling, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, is even more ruthless. Tang Taizong gave beauties to Fang Xuanling many times, and the Lu family said: "The concubine would rather die of jealousy!" When the emperor saw this posture, he had no choice but to return in a huff. Do you think these women are a bit "crazy"? But in that era, they had to use these extreme means to protect their status and rights.
But not all women have such ability and guts. Ordinary women, in the face of their flowery husbands, can only use some "soft" tricks. For example, writing poems and appealing to the heart of the husband to touch the husband's heart.
But truth be told, these tricks have limited effect. After all, in a feudal society where men are superior to women, women's status is already low, so how easy is it to stop her husband from "taking a second wife"? But no matter what, we have to admire the courage and wisdom of these ancient women.
They used their own way, in that oppressive era, to fight for their rights and interests and maintain their dignity. Although they were in a difficult situation, they did not give in and did not give up. This indomitable spirit is worth learning from each of us.
Of course, the times are progressing, and society is developing. Today's women are no longer the "little women" who were weak and couldn't help the wind in ancient times. They have knowledge, insight, and an independent personality and dignity. In modern society, women can rely on their own abilities to realize their own values and pursue their own happiness.
Let's pay tribute to those ancient women! Let us follow their example and move forward bravely and never give up on our own life path! Let us use our wisdom and strength to create a better world, a world where men and women are equal and respect each other!
The ancients said: "Women are weak, but mothers are strong." How apt! Although women are physically weak, they have a strong heart. For the sake of their children and their families, they can endure all hardships and overcome all difficulties.
This great maternal love and this selfless dedication are also worth learning and carrying forward by each of us. Finally, I would like to conclude with an old saying: "Although the world is safe, forgetting the war will be dangerous." "
Yes, even if we live in a peaceful era, we must not forget the struggles of those ancient women. Because only by remembering history and learning lessons can we better build the future.
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