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Just a few days ago, the President and First Lady of France hosted a state dinner.
What shocked netizens was that Gong Li and her 75-year-old French husband were also on the list of invitees.
Gong Li, who made a stunning appearance in black, showed the unique charm of oriental women.
also made many netizens sigh: "Fortunately, Zhang Yimou didn't marry Gong Li back then." ”
"Retract and release freely, and relax to a certain extent."
These eight words are Gong Li in Zhang Yimou's eyes.
Even after becoming popular with many "Mou girls".
In Zhang Yimou's heart, the best actress is still Gong Li.
Look back at the movies the two worked on.
From "Red Sorghum" to "Qiu Ju's Lawsuit", each one was a great success.
However, the soul mate in the career is a mess in the relationship.
You must know that Zhang Yimou was still a married man when he was emotionally attached to Gong Li.
But in order to be with Gong Li, he did not hesitate to abandon his wife and daughter.
Even in the face of the struggle to keep his wife, he was not soft-hearted.
And Gong Li not only bore eight years of infamy for Zhang Yimou.
Even after becoming famous, he was bent on quitting the entertainment industry one day as Mrs. Zhang.
But Zhang Yimou has completely lost the bravery he had eight years ago.
Every time I face the hint that Gong Li wants to get married.
Zhang Yimou either changed the subject or was vague.
Until Gong Li spread out the problem directly in front of Zhang Yimou.
他才吐露真言:
"Isn't marriage just a piece of paper? Why do you value it so much? ”
Zhang Yimou's words ended Gong Li's eight-year wait.
Maybe it's because of anger.
Not long after leaving Zhang Yimou, she married a wealthy businessman.
But this marriage with gambling emotions did not last long after all.
And Zhang Yimou, who refused to marry her for a long time, also married Chen Ting, who was 31 years younger than him, four years later.
Although in the matter of feelings, the two are no longer possible.
They can be used as soul mates in each other's careers.
The two reworked a few years later.
That "The City is Full of Golden Armor" made Gong Li's dream of being the empress.
At the meeting, Zhang Yimou called the film a gift that was ten years late.
Gong Li on the side couldn't control her emotions and hid her face and cried.
Later in 2013.
Zhang Yimou has been controversial because of "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling".
The incident between him and Chen Ting was also picked up by netizens.
Caught in the whirlpool of public opinion, he has no way out.
It was Gong Li who did not forget the grace of his acquaintance back then, and starred in his "Return".
This film successfully saved Zhang Yimou from dire straits.
It was also the first time in 19 years that the two appeared in Cannes hand in hand.
If Chen Ting has not been made public.
They will definitely be the most anticipated couple in the entertainment industry.
Until five years ago, Gong Li married French musician Michel.
Although Michelle is an old man who has had three marriages.
But the appearance of not seeing the age at all is also very eye-catching when standing next to Gong Li.
finally waited for Gong Li and Zhang Yimou to have a stable relationship.
This also brings to mind one word: alpha men and women.
The so-called alpha men and women are born leaders.
And the choice of alpha men and women in their relationship is also very different.
Alpha men usually choose women who are willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their families.
And alpha women, because of their own strength, often don't care whether their partners are reliable or not.
On the contrary, they will pay special attention to the charm of men themselves.
To put it bluntly.
The vast majority of men in today's society are more successful and feudal.
As far as Gao Yalin, who had an accident recently, is concerned.
Men with successful careers always yearn for the "three wives and four concubines" of the old society.
On the other hand, successful women look at the equality of both sides of the relationship.
That's why it's hard for the most successful people to have stable family relationships.
Looking back at Zhang Yimou's emotional choice, it is actually a bit funny.
He finally divorced his good wife and mother.
But after going around in a circle, he married another young good wife and mother.
It's the same as the criteria for most men looking for a partner.
All they need is a young "mom".
Obviously, Gong Li is not the "perfect wife" in the traditional eyes of men.
After half a life, he chose a French prodigal son.
Obviously, Gong Li is no longer the traditional woman who washed her hands and made soup for men.
Her mind has been transformed by so many years of wind and rain.
Fortunately, Zhang Yimou did not "take the risk" to marry her back then.
This makes Gong Li just "Gong Li", not anyone's wife.
Today's Gong Li is in her fifties.
led her 75-year-old French boyfriend to the banquet of the first lady of France.
even reunited with Sophie Marceau, known as the "Rose of France", at the banquet.
This is a scene that she will never appear after marrying Zhang Yimou.
But for Zhang Yimou, not marrying Gong Li is definitely not a loss.
Because the life he wants to live can only be given to him by Chen Ting.
Epilogue:
Back then, Zhang Yimou chose to divorce in order to be free.
Gong Li wanted to wash her hands and make soup for her beloved.
Nowadays feng shui takes turns
Gong Li became the soul who was forever free.
But Zhang Yimou was "trapped" in marriage again.