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Editor|Situ Ye
What is the situation in the world?
It makes life and death promise!
The fat cat jumped for love, and the past love was all in vain.
Some people regret it, and some people don't understand.
At the age of 21, in the mood for love, he ended his life for love.
There is no point in discussing whether it is worth it or not.
This makes us think:
Does the so-called love really make people lose their minds?
In 2019, 23-year-old Lin Jingen was also in the mood for love.
Without hesitation and almost stubbornly, he married 63-year-old Li Kuncheng.
Now that the man is dead, what will happen to the woman?
Lin Jingen, who is crazy about love, does he regret his decision back then?
01
Forty years of age difference.
Whether it's in fictional TV series.
Or in reality, it is extremely rare.
Forty years old is almost a gap between grandparents and grandchildren.
The age difference between the two generations really happened to these two people.
The man, Li Kuncheng, is a musician.
The house has a collection of more than 20,000 vinyl records.
Many of them are classics and are worth a lot of money.
For this reason, he is also known as the "Godfather of Vinyl".
He is friends with Father Lin, and was invited to teach Father Lin's youngest daughter-
That is, the heroine of this story, Lin Jingen, plays the piano.
That year, the girl was 13 years old.
One might be curious:
How can a 13-year-old girl have feelings for an "old man" in his fifties?
Tu He is old, Tu He doesn't take a bath?
This is inseparable from the environment in which she has lived since childhood.
It is said that her original family is not bad.
Both parents are highly educated and well-known in the field of art.
In such a family, the children raised are at least knowledgeable and reasonable.
But Lin Jingen has grown completely the opposite.
When I was 3 years old, my parents' marriage came to an end.
The perfect family no longer exists.
She also has an older sister, whom she was sentenced to her mother.
The elder sister was awarded to the father.
The mother later started a new family and gave birth to a daughter.
So he left Lin Jingen at his grandmother's house.
After a long time, my father couldn't stand it.
took his little daughter to his side.
But Lin Jingen was neglected for a long time and grew up in a loveless environment.
The character has long become extremely rebellious.
Compared to her sister, she is like a dwarf around Snow White.
Ordinary, unremarkable.
In the presence of good people, the ordinary and ordinary are the original sin.
My sister is a good reader, a talented person, and a treasure that her father holds in the palm of her hand.
And she has always been the one who has been scolded.
In the long run, she simply broke the jar and broke it.
Fighting, skipping school, what the little sister will do, she will do everything.
The more she did this, the more her father hated her.
The father and daughter went from being silent to beating and scolding at every turn.
Actually, adolescent children are rebellious.
In a way, it is a kind of "call for help".
They try to get their parents' attention by going bad.
What they need is guidance from their parents.
Instead of ignoring and scolding.
It's a pity that Father Lin doesn't understand this.
So he also missed the opportunity to save his daughter.
This also laid a hidden danger for her daughter to fall into the abyss in the future.
02
In the midst of rebellion, the relationship between father and daughter became more and more strained.
At this time, Li Kuncheng appeared.
Seeing that Lin Jingen's path was getting more and more deviated, Father Lin proposed to let Li Kuncheng teach his daughter to play the piano.
It can be regarded as giving her a talent.
Thus, the story of luring the wolf into the house officially began.
The relationship between father and daughter has not been alleviated by learning piano.
Occasionally, Lin Jingen was absent-minded when she was learning the piano.
Li Kuncheng will patiently ask and listen.
And give comfort.
From Lin Jingen's point of view, whenever he is sad and sad.
Finally have someone by your side, always giving warmth.
Like a beam of light, illuminating a dark room.
Because her room has been closed for too long.
No sunlight all year round.
So even if it's just a faint glow.
It's enough to brighten up and warm the room.
In her opinion, even the forty-year difference is not enough to hinder the budding of love.
Once upon a time, she was lonely, lost, rebellious, trying to gain the attention of her parents.
Now, she throbbed, excited, warm, thinking she had found a place to live.
So, desperate to be with each other.
And from Li Kuncheng's perspective, everything is different.
The 53-year-old man saw a young and agile girl.
Crooked thoughts gradually began to stir in my heart.
Even though the girl is not treated well by her father, she still grows up under the protection of the family.
Simple-minded, he has not experienced the cruel test of society.
I just need to ask for a few words and write a few love poems.
The girl was moved to tears.
In order to satisfy evil thoughts.
The so-called love that the girl thinks is just a little trick of "hunting" for him.
And he himself is also a very experienced "hunter".
In 2013, after the relationship was exposed, public opinion instantly "exploded".
All the people accused him of eating the young grass.
He also said grandly on the show:
"I am a very simple, natural, honest and transparent person. It is the minds of those who see us who are crooked. ”
Then the truth is exactly what he said.
Is he really a pure-hearted old man?
03
Li Kuncheng once had a marriage.
His ex-wife bore him two sons.
But during the marriage, he was exposed to being a G female student.
In 2004, his youngest son died in a car accident.
The wife was already sad, and the other party was out of G.
I couldn't bear it anymore and filed for divorce.
The breakdown of the marriage did not make Li Kuncheng wake up.
It can be said that in his bones, he is a rotten person.
After the divorce, the people he dated were also young.
Before meeting Lin Jingen.
He has a girlfriend who is 20 years younger.
In 2012, he was in a serious car accident in Qinghai.
I almost couldn't make it.
The little girlfriend traveled thousands of miles to take care of it.
Who would have thought that after he recovered, he would break up with the other party.
The following year, he admitted his relationship with Lin Jingen in the media.
So, in terms of feelings, he is not clean.
It's not the first time I like young girls.
When Li Kuncheng first came to that house, he didn't take a fancy to Lin Jingen.
It's her sister.
After a few temptations, his sister didn't leave him a little leeway.
So he turned his gaze to Lin Jingen again.
He also brazenly said in interviews that he prefers young tooth girls.
Because the little girls are very simple and easy to get along with.
After Father Lin knew the relationship between the two, he directly sued Li Kuncheng to the police station.
And sued twice.
sued him for "abducting and seducing J as a minor".
But Lin's father's move did not work.
On the contrary, Lin Jingen strengthened his determination to be with the other party.
After knowing that his father had reported Li Kuncheng to the police station.
She publicly blamed her father on social platforms.
also said that this is forcing the father-daughter relationship to a dead end.
The public admonished her, trying to make her wake up and see the nature of this relationship.
But how could she possibly wake up?
She was unwilling, and at the same time incapable.
After being with Li Kuncheng, family and friends left one by one.
She voluntarily falls into the dream castle that the other party has carefully weaved.
From then on, her world was only Lin Kuncheng.
Restricted thinking, deliberately guided thoughts.
She doesn't want to, and can't get out of the "cage".
On the show, she was asked if she was mentally immature.
Although Li Kuncheng has emphasized many times, she is only young.
In fact, the mind is very mature.
But just imagine, a 17-year-old child.
I didn't experience socialization, and I was framed by an old man when love was budding.
Where has her mental maturity been?
Although everyone wants to save her from fire and water, people don't save themselves, and no matter how much others say, it's in vain.
The wind of public opinion did not wake her up after all.
In 2019, the two received their certificates.
One is 23 years old and the other is 63 years old.
Now that ten years have passed, has Lin Jingen gotten the love she wants?
04
Love doesn't last long.
Death comes first.
In 2022, the man was secretly admitted to the hospital because of colorectal cancer.
In 2023, the condition worsened.
The two have been together for more than ten years and have never had a wedding.
When the old man was seriously ill, he actually held a small wedding in the ICU.
I didn't know for a moment to shed tears for their love.
It's still time to wipe the sweat for Lin Jingen's love brain.
In short, I don't understand.
But in the end, Li Kuncheng did not survive.
He died at the beginning of last month.
Lin Jingen, who is only 28 years old, became a widow at a young age.
Some people say, then with the inheritance, won't she be able to live well in the future?
But inheritance, how can it be so easy to get.
Besides, he had to have an inheritance.
Li Kuncheng did not have much income during his lifetime.
Before announcing the relationship, he made a living by making announcements and speeches.
The income is not fixed, and it is not uncommon to have no job for most of the year.
After announcing the relationship, there was no more work.
The only thing he has is valuable is some music rights and a collection of classic records.
But these can't fall into her hands.
All were inherited by Li Kuncheng's son.
I don't know if Lin Jingen woke up at this time.
If this old man really loves himself.
So a couple of years in a hospital bed.
will do a good job of notarization of the inheritance to ensure that his lover can have a good life after his death.
Instead of being like now, leaving her only a house with a loan.
In desperation, she could only sell the house at a low price.
But the money simply won't last long.
She is a "captive" pet and has no social skills.
Not able to work.
After being freed, it seemed cramped.
The last time I heard about her was a post from a hotel.
Said Lin Jingen lived there, a very cheap and dilapidated hotel.
Judging from this post, Lin Jingen seems to be abnormal.
Smashing things, spitting, and invective.
Lin Jingen, who was kicked out, could only sit on the side of the street.
His eyes are hollow and his expression is numb.
Pathetic and pathetic.
epilogue
One person's world needs multiple pillars to support it to be stable.
Like Lin Jingen, he cut down all the pillars with his own hands.
Only Li Kuncheng was left.
The end result can only be - it is difficult to support itself and collapse.
Both men and women must first learn to love themselves.
In order to have a solid self and not be easily shaken by the outside world.
Some references:
"News Digging Wow"|Falling in love with 17-year-old Lin Jingen? Li Kuncheng was "arrested by his father-in-law and taken to the police station" before his death!
"Potato Entertainment Express"|Interview with Li Kuncheng and Lin Jingen