The Eskimos could express love in thirty-two words in one language. We only have one word to express love, but we still don't know how to say it. The boy said "I love you" for the first time, leaving the girls excited about his first awakening of interest from the opposite sex, and these words became the first shining points in their lives. No one will hear, no one will remember, the mother remains silent about the unborn child in the middle of countless pregnancy-tormented nights, "I love you". It is because of the initial love that we have so many beautiful moments. Twenty years ago, they liked to heat their hair into beautiful curls and find the cleanest curls in a handful of clothes. When it is the graceful gesture of the old dressing mirror, remember, not to dump sentient beings, but to make many people laugh. Of course, fathers would never admit who sought too much pain; twenty years later, they were proud of the hair on their hair, and for many years in the West were filled with smiling eyes, and the dresser recorded the youth of another young girl. The Devil and Paganini signed an agreement in exchange for the soul like God helping in the game of Paris, the string "Moses Prayer" on the first night. Mothers, with their own soft skin, such as slippery waterfalls, yin and yang gods exchange light children's youth and beauty. With unchanging love, they created thirty-two ways of movement. In the shadow of the silver screen, these great women don't need to, they share the same song in different tunes. Their lives span decades, from underage teenage girls to a filial housewife who raises a child after a middle-aged woman alone, silently doing the best thing for her terminally ill mother for her child's future life. They are strong enough to face the dangers of life. Motherhood makes them omnipotent. They can move mountains, fly over the oceans, and take off the moon. As long as it is us, they would rather put away the wings of angels, no longer soar in the blue sky, let the wings close to the ground, become a harbor of wind and rain.
Forrest Gump died of congenital intellectual disability, but his simple character and legendary experiences infected countless viewers, and in his bumpy upbringing there were never to give up on his mother, his ordinary school power struggles that encouraged him in life where the sweetness was unknown; some love was embodied in some mothers who never gave up. "Let Go" - "Melrose Place of Love" (Overseas 2004) in his Bobby Darren mother was born at the age of seventeen, because he could not bear to throw away, did not want him to be painfully contradictory gossip, he was his sister, Bobby, in the short, light fluctuations of thirty-seven years, she has been standing in the corner silently waiting; "My Life" (life without me 2003) tells the audience, The young mother longed to be the last gift of her child before she died: when there was only twenty-three security and their days were running out, she chose a day of rest for the children to find a substitute for her to find a good woman, she put the child in the next few years, decades, decades of birthday wishes were recorded, and she prayed apologetically that they went further; made people "love" the tear film (nicknamed 1983), daughter Emma was freed from control from an early age, away from home, mother. Mother Laura's old-school style drove Emma crazy, filling her mother and daughter with arguments, objections, and concessions. But whenever life stood in her way, she found comfort and support in her mother. Laura was short-tempered and grumpy, and she couldn't possibly say anything sentimental, but when Emma got cancer, she roared out of control in the hospital, demanding that the nurse relieve her daughter of her pain. Maybe mothers are good at saying touching words, shocking facts, and don't even say "I love you", but they love their children so much that, if necessary, can dedicate their lives and souls beyond death.
It is true that we praise maternal love, but we have to admit that mothers are not perfect. They will rebel, cower, hesitate, grow in the tempering of life, and cry. When we know the truth, will we ask Mom? When they know they're not perfect? Says who? "We love her because of one person's strengths, because one person's flaws fall in love with her. No one is born a good mother, but they are willing to continue to work hard to become a competent mother.
In 2006, the film "Shirley Sherrybaby" tells the audience a story about who will redeem their mother in society.
The first half of his life, Shirley Swanson, passed quickly. Dancing with bad habits at the nightclub at the age of sixteen, she became the heroin of her life for the next six years. She had a daughter with a jerk and didn't have time to take care of her, and was jailed for stealing money to buy drugs. After three years of parole, he re-entered society in an attempt to wash away the drugs in his blood and the stigma of his flesh and become a qualified mother. Easier said than done. Drugs cause Shirley to walk out of paradise in hell and return to earth. Her body was still burning with the fire of hell. Prison life didn't take away her grumpy temper, and Shirley often found it hard to control herself. In this tough personality, helping her protect herself, it is a place that is more difficult than a fist, and it can return to society, which is an obstacle to nature. Some people don't want drugs, stop you from wanting to find a satisfying job, have to endure a series of tests, a family, a social injustice, temptations once lived. She was even rudely beaten by passers-by and would catch up with a few words, this is Shirley, beautiful and arrogant, living a life that everyone enjoys, and no one dares to spit on her arrogant spit. But she had to see her daughter and Humble bail him out, and in order to get a job, and accepted the "special requirements" of the "sin harbor" design, in order to regain her life, she began to learn to be too conformist to conventional standards. Sometimes it's harder to admit the truth than to lie.
The walls of the house are covered with young and colorful paintings of her daughter, reminding her of what to do and fight for. She wasn't Virgin Mary, nor was she a beast, but she walked carefully to make sure she didn't get bogged down by her bad habits. She is more difficult and less tired than the girls who enter society, because she is trapped by the fires of hell and is accustomed to running away. Although Shirley was banned in prison, he still showed weaknesses in his character. He was always looking for a substitute for the drug. So she's addicted to smoking, she likes to drink and depends on her own pleasure. These became her tools to escape reality. Every time her frustration, anger, and loss filled the air, nicotine was stimulated in the smoke. She seeks pleasure in all the laws that allow her to vent her anger and uneasiness about the stresses of life.
Shirley likes to listen to music on headphones, as if she is going to fly away from the world for a while, extremely tired, and hopes to really like this song, when she insists on walking to see a better world, which can be called the world of heaven. At the end of the tour. She's like William Blake's "Sick Rose," the only drug "Night Dance," a storm called "flies that destroy life." Her daughter was a second chance in her life. When she hadn't seen her daughter hug her in three years, it was as if she had abandoned her world, and Shirley smiled. She cried and apologized to her daughter, repented of my past, and gave all your love to her daughter who was compensating. Buy her a lot of gifts, tell a lot of stories, sing her songs. Regardless of her brother's laughter, singing "Eternal Flame" (Eternal Flame) at the dinner table, her daughter is an eternal flame, through the sunshine of the rain, the soft pure blue sky, never able to realize the dream of flying on the left shoulder of an angel. Her voice was not pleasant enough, and there were some running notes, which were her love, not elegant and perfect, but unreserved giving. As long as you can hear her daughter call her "Mommy" and wrap her small arms around her, she can break. However, she had to admit that she couldn't be a qualified mother and that her addiction was still heart-wrenching. Brother Bobby and her past Rice River Chaos stereotyped Lexie couldn't give her wife. Bobby's wife wouldn't even let him call Shirley mother. In front of Shirley, Lexie began to feel shy. A moth beaten to the head by Shirley, desperate for love and support, she turned to face the fierce-hearted gentle Dean, she turned into father Bob's arms, she took off her defensive mask and began to hate herself that everything was right. When her father's hand was in her dress, she gently crushed the last line of defense. All the shame and anger was the loneliness of no friend, the indifference of the daughter was swept away, she ran barefoot on the road, and the world was only his breath, faster, faster and seemed to suffocate. She wanted to start a new life, but she was stranded on an isolated island. When the world turned a blind eye to tears, she could only keep running.
Shirley started taking drugs again. It was as if an evil man had been holding her up until the fires of hell had made her unconscious.
When Shirley woke up again, as if he had just ended a game of shame, all his promises were just lies: "Dear baby, I have exhausted all my strength and failed. ”。 Dear baby, look, I'm not as strong as you think.
Once again, Shirley is at a crossroads in her life, going to a drug rehab, going back to prison, or running away with her daughter. After half a day together, she found that she was not ready to take care of her daughter, her temper, her blind love, and could not let her daughter grow up healthily. More difficult than facing the world was letting go of her daughter's hand again. She returned her daughter to her brother Bobby and earnestly asked him to take care of him. She finally found her way to live, starting with drugs. The next time she comes back, she'll be a good mom and she'll learn to love again. Shirley Swanson made a major transformation in her life and became a true mother.
You see, every mother has her only way of saying yes.