The middle-aged man who had lost his right hand said angrily to the female mediator: "Don't tell me about my mother now, I can't take care of all the things of my mother anymore!"
The mediator calmly asked, "Why?" ”
The man replied, "Why did you ask her?" She hurt my hand, and I don't want to see her again! ”
With that, the man turned around and was about to enter the house, not wanting to pay attention to the mediator outside the house, and his mother and sister sitting in the courtyard.
The man's name is Wang Xiaohua, and he lost his right hand when he was a child. Now that he is saying such unfilial cruel words in front of the mediator, his mother and his sister, what is the secret behind this? Why did Wang Xiaohua say that his disability was caused by his mother Aunt Zhang?
Aunt Zhang Beichai is 70 years old, and she and her wife have two sons and two daughters. The two daughters and the eldest son have all started a family, but the disabled youngest son Wang Xiaohua is alone.
For 20 years, Aunt Zhang and her wife have been taken care of by their youngest son, and the three of them live in a two-bedroom apartment in the city center.
The house is small but well-equipped. The property rights of this house are registered in the names of Aunt Zhang's wife and Wang Xiaohua.
The life of the two old men and their youngest son has always been plain but happy.
But not long ago, Wang Xiaohua suddenly seemed to have changed people, not only insulting his mother Aunt Zhang for no reason, but also secretly selling the house and returning to his hometown in the countryside with his father.
In the face of such a change, Aunt Zhang didn't know what to do for a while: her youngest son, who had lived together for 20 years, abandoned her ruthlessly.
When the eldest daughter Wang Xiaozhen, who was far away in Japan, heard what happened to her mother, she immediately flew back.
In Wang Xiaozhen's view, the younger brother's behavior of selling the house and abandoning his mother was premeditated. Because not long ago, her brother suddenly sent her and the other two siblings a lot of threatening words.
In these words, Wang Xiaohua was very emotional, not only to his own brothers and sisters, but also to say many threatening words.
Wang Xiaohua said that he had taken care of his parents alone for 20 years, and now he would no longer care about the life or death of the second elder.
Wang Xiaozhen thought that his younger brother had quarreled with his parents, and he said these words in a moment of anger, how did he know that his younger brother was so wolf-hearted!
Wang Xiaohua embezzled all the 850,000 yuan from the sale of the house and brought it back to his hometown, leaving Aunt Zhang to fend for herself: "You move out for me quickly, I don't care if you live or die in the future!" ”
Today's Aunt Zhang can only stay at the house of her youngest daughter Wang Xiaoxin.
In order to condemn her brother's unfilial behavior and let her mother have something to rely on, the two sisters invited a mediator to help.
Wang Xiaozhen complained to the mediator about her brother's behavior: At the beginning, her mother humbly told her brother that since he sold the house, he would leave 20,000 or 30,000 yuan for her as food, but the younger brother directly said, if you dare to take it, I will cut off your hand!
Regarding Wang Xiaohua's behavior, the other three children were all indignant, among which Wang Xiaozhen was the most angry.
Because the house that was sold by her younger brother was bought with the money she gave to her parents.
She said that during the years she worked in Japan, she sent money home one after another, sending more than 700,000 yuan in total. In other words, the house sold by his younger brother was basically bought with Wang Xiaozhen's money.
Wang Xiaozhen said that since her brother is so ruthless, she hopes that her brother can give her an explanation.
According to today's market value, the younger brother should return the 520,000 yuan from the sale of the house to her, and also provide his mother with a stable retirement home.
After listening to Wang Xiaozhen's story, the mediator couldn't help but have two questions: First, why did Wang Xiaohua suddenly sell the house? The second is why Wang Xiaohua took his old father away but abandoned his old mother.
With questions, the mediator followed Wang Xiaozhen's mother and daughter to their rural hometown and met Wang Xiaohua and Uncle Wang, the old father of the Wang family.
At this moment, Uncle Wang is sitting in the courtyard basking in the sun leisurely, which shows that the youngest son is good to him.
Wang Xiaohua saw his mother and sister marching into the courtyard with a large group of people, without giving everyone a good look at all, and let out cruel words that he would not care about his mother from now on.
When the mediator asked Wang Xiaohua why he sold the house without authorization, Wang Xiaohua said: "My life is not easy, who will bear the hundreds of thousands of dollars I owe?" Will you bear it for me? ”
Wang Xiaohua said that he was a disabled person and had difficulties in life, and when he owed hundreds of thousands of debts, none of his brothers and sisters came forward to help him.
In the end, he asked his father's consent to sell the house in the city to pay off the debt, and he had to renovate his hometown before he could live in it.
Hearing him say this, the mediator objected: this house is the joint property of your parents, although your father agrees, but your mother does not, you cannot sell the house without permission.
Wang Xiaohua was very impatient, and raised his left hand as if to intercept the mediator's words: "Don't tell me this, it's meaningless." If you can't, you can let her (Mother Aunt Zhang) sue, okay. ”
As for his sister Wang Xiaozhen's statement that the house payment should be divided equally, he felt that it was nonsense.
Wang Xiaohua said that her father did not use her sister's money when he bought the house, and her only role was to provide advice to her father who wanted to buy a house.
In Wang Xiaohua's view, my sister has neither supported her parents nor paid for a house, and now she wants to share the money with a few words she said at the beginning, where is such a good thing?
Seeing his younger brother say this, Wang Xiaozhen, who was sitting next to Aunt Zhang, immediately retorted: I did transfer more than 700,000 yuan to my father at the beginning!
The siblings have their own opinions, and the mediator has no way to judge.
In order to distinguish the authenticity, the mediator found the old father of the Wang family for questioning. Uncle Wang said: "You ask her (Wang Xiaozhen) if I have returned the money to her!" ”
Uncle Wang said that his daughter did transfer money to him at the beginning, but the money was only kept by him temporarily, and he had already returned all the money to his daughter.
Wang Xiaozhen was very dissatisfied with his father's words, and for a while, a fierce quarrel began between father and daughter.
Due to the inability to inquire about the bank statements, the mediator was helpless for a while, so he could only solve the accommodation problem of Aunt Zhang first.
The mediator hoped that Wang Xiaohua could communicate with his sister about his mother's pension, but Wang Xiaohua waved his left hand and was very resolute: Don't let him take care of his mother.
After the mediator's persistent questioning, Wang Xiaohua revealed the secret reason why he was disabled, which is also the hidden pain he has always had.
When he was young, his father worked in other places all the year round, and his mother, Aunt Zhang, watched her four children alone. Due to Aunt Zhang's negligence, the youngest son Wang Xiaohua's right hand was severely burned, and finally had to be amputated, becoming what it is now.
Speaking of his youngest son's accidental disability, Uncle Wang was also heartbroken, tears rippled, and he looked very pitiful.
The mediator advised Wang Xiaohua to let go of his resentment towards his mother: "An unintentional mistake cannot be regarded as a sin, you know?" ”
The mediator hopes that Wang Xiaohua can let go of his hatred, after all, it is an established fact that he is disabled. Now it is useless to blame Aunt Zhang for unintentionally causing her son's disability.
But no matter how hard she persuaded her, Wang Xiaohua could not let go of the knot.
He once again showed his attitude, he supported his father alone, and the three brothers and sisters were responsible for supporting his mother: "If none of the three of you can take care of her alone, then go to the court and sue me!" ”
Wang Xiaohua said that he has also taken care of his mother for 20 years and has fulfilled his obligations as a son. In the future, older brothers and sisters should take up their responsibilities.
Over the years, his father and mother have quarreled almost every day, and he has been caught in the middle, and his life is really miserable.
Uncle Wang and Aunt Zhang are arranged marriages, and the two have little emotional foundation, although the two have given birth to four children, but the two have quarreled over the years, and their brothers and sisters know each other very well, but they never care.
Now that he has sold his house and taken his father, he has taken this opportunity to separate his parents, and both he and his father can end up clean.
In this regard, Uncle Wang also agreed with his youngest son's statement. He said that his wife was arrogant and unreasonable: "No one can live with her!" If I don't let her, then we have to fight almost every day! ”
Uncle Wang suffers from diabetes, and over the years, Wang Xiaohua has spent money and energy to take care of his father, and his brothers and sisters have never contributed money and effort.
Wang Xiaohua said that it is time for his brothers and sisters to come forward and take on the obligation to support their parents.
The mediator agreed, and Wang Xiaozhen saw that the mediator she invited was on her brother's side, and immediately raised objections.
She said that she would discuss her brother's statement with her brother and sister to see how to deal with it in the future.
In the end, Wang Xiaozhen could only helplessly help Aunt Zhang to leave here.
The contradictions between the four children of the Wang family were not caused overnight, just like Uncle Wang and Aunt Zhang.
Although the two old men have been together for decades, they eventually became a grudge. In the 20 years he has lived with his parents, Wang Xiaohua is obviously very dissatisfied and resentful of his mother, which is really difficult for him to dissolve.
How the four children should deal with the issue of parental support is also a difficult problem to solve.