The old man often said: "If you move around the three places, your children and grandchildren will be rich." ”
This simple proverb is a summary of the wisdom of our predecessors.
What are the 3 places? That's what I just knew!
1
Where the parents are, do your filial piety
"Mingxian Collection" said: "Filial piety to parents at home, why burn incense far away." ”
Filial piety comes first, and only those who treat their parents well can be blessed and deserved.
CCTV celebrity Bai Yansong took his mother to Beijing for support.
Even if he is busy at work, he will accompany his mother to take a walk in Chaoyang Park on weekends.
He supported his elderly mother in one hand and carried the little Mazar in the other.
On his shoulder, he carried a backpack full of bread, mineral water, and bananas that the old man wanted to bring.
At this time, Bai Yansong is not a cold host, but an ordinary son.
With filial piety, patience and caring, he gave his mother a stable home.
His wife Zhu Hongjun is also a rare good daughter-in-law, who treats her mother-in-law as her own mother.
Mother-in-law's favorite pastries and fruits, she will buy them home without being reminded.
Inspired by his parents, his son Bai Qingyang also knows how to be filial to his grandmother.
He said to his parents, "Mom and Dad, when you are old, I will be as filial to you as you are to your grandmother." ”
Parents are the first blessing of children, and filial piety by the parents' side is to accumulate blessings for future generations.
2
Where you meet noble people, keep your connections
As the saying goes: "It is better to take a hundred steps by yourself than to be supported by a nobleman." ”
The greatest wealth of a family is not that their children and grandchildren have high-ranking officials.
It is to make good connections, and at critical moments, there are always noble people to help.
In 1920, Qi Baishi first arrived in Beijing and participated in an exhibition with his works.
Because he was plainly dressed and had no reputation, he was left out in the cold.
Many celebrities came and went, but none of them noticed his paintings.
It wasn't until near the end of the exhibition that a person stopped in front of his paintings.
I only listened to the man: "Look at these paintings, shrimp can swim, birds can fly, it is really a work of God." ”
As soon as the words fell, the crowd echoed, and it turned out that this person was Mei Lanfang, a master of Peking Opera.
Because of Mei Lanfang's appreciation, Qi Baishi's paintings gradually became known, and the two became close friends.
People know kindness, and they know how to be grateful.
Thank you to the noble people who have nothing to say.
Let us avoid many detours in the journey of life.
3
The cold door around him, the cold temple burns incense
Chen Daoming once said: "People on the mountain, don't look down on the people under the mountain."
Because at any time, they will climb up. ”
People are mixed in society, don't underestimate anyone.
Smart people have "foresight" and know how to burn incense in cold temples.
Be able to accurately find people in the crowd who are worthy of deep friendship.
Before Wang Baoqiang became famous, he met Andy Lau in the bathroom.
Having just come to the city from the countryside, Wang Baoqiang can't even use an automatic faucet.
Seeing this, Andy Lau instantly understood his embarrassment.
didn't say anything to remind him, but stepped forward to wash his hands and demonstrated the use of the faucet for Wang Baoqiang.
Wang Baoqiang has always kept this little thing in mind.
After waiting for himself to become famous, he will give back to Andy Lau.
As the saying goes: don't bully young people into poverty.
At the moment, others are not as good as you, but they may not always be inferior to you.
Burning incense in a cold temple is to make a good relationship for yourself and leave room for yourself.