Xinhuanet reporter Liang Jianqiang
During the past "May Day" holiday, many newlyweds tied the knot. This is a wonderful moment in life to celebrate. In some places, however, the high price of the bride price has cast a heavy burden on it, casting a shadow over this joy.
Why is it so difficult to deepen the reform of marriage customs and "reduce the burden" of the bride price? The reasons are manifold. For example, some people regard the bride price as a symbol of the man's economic strength, and ask for and show off the high-priced bride price out of face and comparison; Some people equate the amount of the bride price with the importance attached to the marriage. In addition, some economically underdeveloped rural areas have fewer marriageable women, and some older single men and their families hope to show "competitiveness" through high-priced bride prices; Some families regard the bride price as an important channel for family income, pension compensation, etc.
In the traditional marriage customs of the mainland, a certain dowry is an important ceremony for the conclusion of marriage, but today's high-priced bride price is different from the dowry, which often overwhelms people, making many young people daunted, and strongly calling for the reform of marriage customs.
In recent years, in order to curb high-priced bride prices and deepen the reform of marriage customs, some localities have made useful explorations in light of actual conditions, such as formulating bride price quota standards, incorporating restrictions on high-priced bride prices into village rules and regulations, and vigorously promoting incentives such as civilization points...... Carrying out publicity and guidance in accordance with local conditions, rationally and evidence-based, and creating a good atmosphere to let the new style of civilization take root and blossom and bear fruit, which is welcomed by many young people.
"Reducing the burden" for the bride price is also a "plus" for love. Cultivating a new style of marriage customs requires the joint efforts of the whole society, so that marriage begins with love and makes families happier.
Source: Xinhuanet
