Marriage after the age of fifty, these three "golden keys" open the door to happiness
Let's talk about marriage after the age of fifty, at this age, many people have gone through most of their lives, experienced ups and downs, and seen ups and downs. Marriage, a topic that once filled us with longing and expectation, at this age, may be more of a tacit understanding, a kind of persistence, and a little bit of emotion about life. So, at this age, what should you think about whether your marriage is happy or not? Don't worry, listen to me tell you slowly, this has to start with the three "golden keys".
The first golden key: the path of children's growth
It is said that children are the bond of marriage, and this is not wrong at all. You think, from the moment the child falls to the ground, the two of you become the most important people in the child's life. You have experienced every stage of your child's growth together, from toddler to school, and then to society, every step of your child's growth is inseparable from your careful care and companionship.
And the path of children's growth is actually a barometer of marriage. If the child is confident, sunny and responsible, it means that the couple is well educated and has a harmonious married life. Because children who grow up in a loving family will have a more sound personality and will be more understanding and respectful of others.
On the contrary, if the child is rebellious and confused, it may be that there is a problem between you and your wife. Because children are the most sensitive, they can feel the changes in the family atmosphere, and if there are frequent quarrels and cold wars between husband and wife, then the children will definitely be affected and become reticent or rebellious.
Therefore, looking at the growth path of children, you can feel the temperature of marriage. If the child is good, the marriage is good; If the child is not good, there may be problems in the marriage. But then again, the growth of children is not achieved overnight, and it requires the joint efforts of the couple to cultivate them with their hearts. Only in this way can children thrive and marriages be happier.
The second golden key: the transmission of filial piety
We Chinese pay the most attention to filial piety, and marriage is no exception. You see those couples who are filial to their parents, and the relationship between them must be very deep. Why? Because they know how to be grateful and cherish. They know that it is not easy for their parents to raise them, so they will cherish their current married life more and will work harder to manage this relationship.
Moreover, filial piety is like a bond that binds husband and wife together. When you do your filial piety for your parents together, that kind of tacit understanding and cooperation is incomparable to other things. Together, you will discuss how to take care of your parents and how to make their lives more comfortable. This tacit understanding and cooperation will make you cherish each other more and will also make your marriage stronger.
On the contrary, those couples who ignore their parents may also lack this kind of warmth in their marriages. They may neglect to care for their parents for various reasons, and as a result, the relationship between the couple will gradually drift apart.
Therefore, filial piety is a golden key in marriage. If you want to make your marriage happier and more stable, then you have to be filial to your parents!
The third golden key: the secret in the wallet
Haha, it's not private money here! Rather, it is about the impact of economic status on marriage. Do you think, there is so much pressure in society now, raising children, caring for the elderly, buying a house, buying a car...... Which one doesn't cost money? If husband and wife can support and understand each other financially, then married life will definitely be more happy and happy.
On the contrary, if the husband and wife are always quarreling and fighting each other over money, then the marriage is in jeopardy. Think about it, if two people can't even solve basic economic problems, then do they still have the heart to manage their relationship?
Therefore, at the age of 50, the economic situation is an important "touchstone". If you and your husband and wife can support each other financially and understand each other, then your marriage will definitely stand the test of time.
Of course, economic problems cannot be solved by simply solving them. Sometimes, we have to learn to let go of some obsessions and desires, cherish the people in front of us, and cherish the things in front of us. Only in this way can our marriage be happier and more satisfying!
Alright, alright! That's all that I said! Actually! Marriage after the age of fifty is not happy! It really depends on these three "golden keys"! If you've found them! Then cherish it! Because of a happy marriage! It never happened by accident! But we need to operate and maintain it with our hearts!
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