My friend, a 92-year-old Cantonese man, is of medium stature, quite capable, has secured the position of manager, earns a lot of money a month, has a good personality, and has some dreams in his heart.
Time passed in a flash, and he began to want to stabilize and find a warm home. Coincidentally, in November last year, he met a beautiful woman in the workplace, 30 years old, almost 1.69 meters tall, beautiful, fashionably dressed, and had nothing to say about her figure.
The two watched a movie together, she held his hand, and the buddy felt quite right. In order not to disappoint the beauty, he is also very generous, sends cosmetics, and often takes her to high-end restaurants. In two months, he spent more than 90,000 yuan. But the relationship between these two people is like a roller coaster, sometimes high, sometimes low, although they live in the same city, they have to drive for an hour and a half to meet.
This buddy, I don't know if it's voluntary or what, transferred more than 90,000 yuan to the girl. In the past two months, the girl has taken so much money from him, almost all the cash he has on hand.
Strangely, he didn't take her to meet any of his friends in the city where he worked during this period, but only sent her home on New Year's Day, and she also introduced him to his family that he was a colleague, not a boyfriend.
When she waited for the Spring Festival, she stayed in her hometown on the grounds that her father was sick and had to take care of her, and she still hasn't come out to work. This story is a little confusing, but who can tell the emotional thing?
Their relationship, well, is basically a meeting, a meal, an occasional hand, a kiss on the cheek, and the man gently wraps his arms around the woman's waist. But to be honest, there was no in-depth development between the two. My friend had feelings for her, but she poured cold water on him, saying that she had been hurt before, and there was still a shadow in her heart. She also said that although many bosses chased her, she was not tempted by any of them, and she was a little afraid of men.
Their WeChat chat is always intermittent, which makes my friend uneasy. He was upset, because the woman hadn't recognized him as her boyfriend. He spent a lot of money again, and he felt unwilling to quit like this.
On May Day, he drove to the woman's hometown, thinking that he would either settle the relationship, or forget it and ask for the money back. As a result, it was not what he imagined:
- On the first night, she stayed alone in the hotel and didn't come.
- Although she met the next day, there was still no result between the two.
When he returned, he began to inquire about housing prices in Huizhou. After chatting and chatting, I realized:
- The woman has a small house in Huizhou and has to repay more than 3,000 yuan in mortgage every month.
- She also talked about the credit card debt left by her ex, and she had to pay off more than 2,000 a month.
- In the end, she has to pay off more than 6,000 yuan a month.
So, his 90,000 yuan has long been used to help her pay off her debts and see her father.
That brother's girlfriend is now in her hometown, unemployed, and has to live on the money he gave. Their family plans to sell their house in Huizhou, although they may lose money, but at least they can make it easier and don't have to carry such a heavy mortgage every month.
But her father didn't approve of selling the house, and felt that the 58,000 debt on the credit card should be repaid first, so that the monthly repayment could be reduced to more than 3,000 points. The problem was that she was tight on money, and her dad didn't agree to sell the house, so she was counting on my friend to help her settle the debt.
On May Day, she may talk to her friends about her bad things: being cheated on by her ex-boyfriend, having to endure the pain of surgery, the pressure at home, and having a hard time. Originally, a friend wanted her to return the borrowed money, but seeing that she was so pitiful, she actually became a savior and was willing to help her bear these debts.
Speaking of which, this girl is not easy, there are several brothers and sisters in the family, my mother is in good health, and my father is sick. She is carrying a lot of debts, with a mortgage of 510,000 yuan and a credit card of 58,000 yuan, she has no job, she can only take care of her father at home, and she has to be scolded by her parents often.
I told my friend to persuade the girl to go out and find a job to share the financial pressure on the family. However, she also proposed that she had to buy a house in their hometown to get married. My friend was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot, scraping together money to pay off her card debt, but he just wouldn't listen to my advice. To be honest, I haven't met that girl, so I can't say for sure if she's lying or not, maybe she's really having some problems. However, love is such a thing, sometimes people are blindfolded and can't see clearly.
Let's talk about my friend first, I only met and received 90,000 red envelopes in two months, but what is the relationship between the two? Before I could figure it out, I ran into a patient at home again. Besides, he himself is in debt, but he doesn't seem to be in a hurry to repay the money. I'm not a suspicious person, but the news is like this every day, and I have to think about it a lot.
Farther away, have you read the news of the fat cat jumping into the river? Opinions are flying all over the sky. Some people think that the cat named Tan Zhu must love its owner so much that they will take a risk. However, some people feel that this is purely accidental, and we don't over-interpret it. Every cat has its own temper, can't you label someone with a single behavior, right? So, everyone has different opinions on this Tan Zhu's matter. But at the end of the day, everyone is hoping that this bold fat cat will be safe.
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