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In 2004, Yang Zhenning, an outstanding physicist on the mainland, caused a sensation, not because of his academic achievements, but because he married Weng Fan, a woman who was only 28 years old at the time, at the age of 82.
At that time, because of the 54-year-old relationship between the husband and wife, people talked about this "grandson love" relationship, and Weng Fan, as a young wife, was also opposed by his family, but Weng Fan always accompanied Yang Lao.
Obviously, the age difference between the two is so big, but Weng Fan has always been very affectionate to Yang Lao, and takes care of Yang Lao very carefully, and even the slightest fault with Yang Lao can be clearly seen by Weng Fan.
Weng Fan's careful care touched Yang Lao very much, and Yang Lao's family was also impressed by Weng Fan, thinking that she was a very kind girl, so how did Weng Fan be able to enter Yang Lao's heart?
1. Born from a wealthy background, his father loves literature.
Weng Fan was born in 1967, his family conditions are very good, Weng Fan's father Weng Zhongyan is a very good writer, a professor of ancient literature, but also a writer of contemporary literature, his works are also very thoughtful.
Weng Zhongyan has devoted his life to the artistic world of literature, and he believes that literature is a spiritual force that can shape people's hearts and minds, and can also stimulate people's imagination.
In artistic creation, people will integrate their life experience, thoughts and feelings into their works of art, which can be seen that Weng Zhongyan is a very thoughtful writer.
In addition, he also reflects on social phenomena in history with his own views and experiences in his creation, and his works have certain practical significance.
From Weng Zhongyan's works, it is not difficult to see that he is a scholar who attaches great importance to traditional culture and history, and Weng Zhongyan's works often contain some classic ancient poems and ancient texts, and the deep meaning contained in these ancient texts makes people stop.
Weng Zhongyan was not only an excellent scholar, but also an excellent writer, and his works were also very popular at the time, and Weng Fan's mother, Deng Qiaoyun, was a contemporary professor of ancient literature, so Weng Fan received a good family education since he was a child.
Both parents are professors of ancient literature, and Weng Fan is naturally interested in literature, so she also chose to major in literature during her studies at Shantou University, and her parents are also very relieved about Weng Fan's study.
Because Weng Zhongyan and Deng Qiaoyun love Weng Fan meticulously, Weng Fan also has her own personality under the education of her parents, such as her view that men and women should have their own careers.
It is precisely because Weng Fan has such an independent personality that she did not rush to get married after graduating from college, but chose to go out of campus and devote herself to society.
2. Meet Mr. Yang.
In 1989, Weng Fan was working as a teacher at the Guangdong Provincial Institute of Translation and Interpreting, when Weng Fan had just left school and did not know much about society, but she was a woman with her own firm goals, and she believed that it was wrong for women to only take care of their children at home, and they could not rely entirely on their husbands.
Therefore, in her spare time, she will also learn other knowledge, in order to improve her level, but also to obtain a better development in the society, so after work, she signed up for graduate studies at Shantou University, and she chose to major in translation.
During her graduate studies, Weng Fan studied very hard, so after she graduated from graduate school, she was recommended by the school and offered her a job as a translator, and Weng Fan was very satisfied with the situation at that time.
During the work period, Weng Fan has developed very well, and at the same time, she has also made many friends at work, and her circle of friends has gradually expanded, and she also met Yang Zhenning in the circle of friends, at that time she did not know that Yang Zhenning was an outstanding physicist in the mainland.
However, Yang Zhenning admired Weng Fan's writing very much, and the two gradually developed a good impression in the exchange.
At that time, although Yang Zhenning was already in his prime, he was quite accomplished in academics, and he was also very kind, so he also had many friends in his circle of friends.
And Weng Fan was also one of his friends, and the two gradually developed a good impression in the exchange, but Weng Fan was still very young at that time, so Yang Zhenning at that time just taught him as his own student.
In 1997, Weng Fan's student relationship with Yang Zhenning gradually drifted apart, because Weng Fan chose to study architecture in the United States, and Yang Zhenning also chose to retire in this year, and the connection between the two was broken.
3. Reunite and fall in love.
After Weng Fan arrived in the United States, she really showed her talent again, and during her studies in the United States, she not only completed a master's degree in translation, but also obtained a doctorate in architecture.
Weng Fan, who studied in the United States, is also very interested in American architectural design, and she also believes that the American architectural design style is more suitable for China's national conditions.
Therefore, during her study in the United States, she also worked very hard to learn the knowledge of architecture, and at the same time, she also hoped to bring the American architectural design style back to China.
But in 2001, she reluctantly divorced, and the reason for the divorce was also because she was too good during her studies in the United States at that time, so there were conflicts in her life with her husband, which eventually led to the divorce.
After the divorce, Weng Fan thought that marriage was not as happy as she imagined, and at the same time she began to seriously think about her life path, she believed that women should not only have their own careers, but also have their own knowledge.
So she returned to Beijing in 2002, when she was also a researcher at Peking University, and Yang Zhenning also went to the United States that year, and he wanted to find a new way of life, so he went to live in the United States.
But life in the United States was not as he wanted, because in the United States he had nothing to do, so his spiritual world became very empty, and at the same time he missed his relatives in his homeland very much, so he decided to return to China.
After returning to China, Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning reunited, and the relationship between the two gradually warmed up after the reunion, but Weng Fan's parents were very opposed to their daughter's relationship with Yang Zhenning.
Because Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning are 54 years apart, her parents chose to oppose it, but Weng Fan thinks that Yang Zhenning is a very good person, in terms of academics, he is very serious about his research, and he is also very hard working for his own academics.
At the same time, his person is also very kind, so Weng Fan also wants to understand him, she believes that in academic exchanges, age is not a distance, as long as you are serious and focused on your field, she will think you are an attractive person.
At the same time, Yang Zhenning is also very passionate about education, he has also come all the way on the road of education, he is also conscientious in treating students, and his attitude towards academics is also very serious, so Weng Fan was deeply attracted by Yang Zhenning.
And Yang Zhenning is also very fond of Weng Fan, he thinks that Weng Fan is also very good, so they fell in love and got married, Weng Fan's parents did not agree to this marriage at that time, but when they really understood Yang Zhenning, they also had a new view on their daughter's choice.
Fourth, Weng Fan took care of Yang Lao.
When Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning got married, their marriage was very happy, Weng Fan also knew how to take care of people, Yang was already very old, so his body became very weak, and Weng Fan knew his physical condition well.
He could even tell at a glance whether there was food on his mouth after eating, so Yang Lao's family also looked at Weng Fan with admiration, thinking that she was a very kind girl and a careful caretaker.
V. Conclusion
True love does not know age, the important thing is to see the feelings and understanding of both parties.
The love between Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan makes people feel warm, and it also makes people see the understanding and tolerance between different age groups, and I wish them a happy marriage.