1. The perfect life of female actors: pay equal attention to childbirth and career!
Back in May 2018, 43-year-old Zhang Lingxin ushered in the pinnacle of his life for the first time in his life - he successfully gave birth to his beloved son. This is undoubtedly a miraculous and beautiful chapter for her.
19-year-old Zhang Lingxin, although she has a yearning attitude towards marriage and family life, but it is mixed with a little tired emotional factor. She once opened up in an in-depth talk show: "I belong to the kind of people who resolutely do not get married and do not have children.
Young and vigorous, she is full of longing for a free life, believing that marriage means "losing freedom".
However, fate finally pushed her to the path of becoming a wife and mother. However, the road has not been easy, and the process of childbearing is full of twists and turns. As early as 2015, Zhang Lingxin and her husband Kang Weiyuan tried IVF technology, but unfortunately failed to do so.
The blow left her confused for a moment, questioning whether she really couldn't have a child of her own.
Fortunately, with the strong support and encouragement of her family and Kang Dao, she regained her spirit and strengthened her belief in continuing to work hard. So, they worked hand in hand, overcoming countless difficulties and obstacles along the way.
Finally, in May 2018, 43-year-old Zhang Lingxin ushered in the best moment of her life - successfully gave birth to a lovely baby boy.
The birth of this little baby made Zhang Lingxin devote himself to family life. Although she is no longer young, she still does it herself and does not depend on others. She takes care of the tedious tasks such as breastfeeding at night and changing diapers.
She loves her children very much, and devotes all her energy to the growth of children, showing the endless tenderness and care of a loving mother.
2. Her rebellious personality has created her unique acting path
Zhang Lingxin was born in a scholarly family, with a superior family background, and can be called the daughter of a wealthy family. She has been carefully cared for and pampered by her parents since she was a child, but it is this pampering that has also cultivated the rebellious factor in her heart.
Since childhood, Zhang Lingxin has shown a strong tendency to rebel and likes to go against his parents. Her rebellion manifests itself in all aspects of her life, such as not liking to dress up, hating dresses, etc., which is in stark contrast to other girls of the same age.
As I get older, this rebellious personality becomes more and more prominent.
In 1998, Zhang Lingxin was successfully admitted to the Film Academy and embarked on his own acting career. This choice was actually due to her rebellious personality, when she resolutely chose this path despite the opposition of her family.
After entering the campus, her rebellious behavior continued, and she was praised by her teachers as "the most rebellious among the students".
In her college career, Zhang Lingxin's fierce portrayal and rebellious thoughts were by no means ordinary, and she even had the idea of retreating. However, under the warm and concerned persuasion of her family, she finally completed her studies firmly.
After graduating, her dream finally came true, stepping into the colorful world of acting, and starting her full and brilliant career. It is precisely because of the strong rebellious spirit in Zhang Lingxin's heart that she embarked on a unique acting path.
Rather than pursuing a comfortable life in the traditional sense, she chose a career path full of challenges and unknowns.
3. A director changed her outlook on life
In 2002, Zhang Lingxin, who was only 24 years old, made her first appearance on the big screen, which officially started her career. In the same year, a crucial figure quietly entered her life, and that was the talented director Kang Weiyuan.
The encounter between the two became an important turning point in Zhang Lingxin's life. Kang Weiyuan was born in a scholarly family and has a similar family background to Zhang Lingxin. They met late, and Zhang Lingxin was deeply impressed by the director, who was 10 years older, and regarded him as a "life mentor".
Kang Dao always patiently enlightened Zhang Lingxin, and used a step-by-step way to make her realize that she was too willful and rebellious, and needed to be corrected. For example, once, Director Kang pointed out some of Zhang Lingxin's misdeeds on the set, and solemnly warned her: "You are too willful, you need to restrain your temper."
In addition to the change in behavior, some of Zhang Lingxin's outlook on life has also changed under the guidance of Director Kang. For example, she originally adhered to the belief of "no marriage and no child", but in an in-depth conversation with Kang Dao, Kang Dao's words were like a hammer strike, shaking her inner defense.
Since then, Zhang Lingxin's views on marriage and family have gradually wavered, and she began to have a good desire to form her own family. All this is thanks to the far-reaching influence that Kang Dao has exerted on her.
All in all, Kang Weiyuan is undoubtedly an important mentor in Zhang Lingxin's life, and he has deeply influenced Zhang Lingxin with his words and deeds, enabling her to re-examine herself and embark on the broad road of marriage and family.
Fourth, the sudden concept of marriage and childbearing was shaken
In 2005, Zhang Lingxin, who had entered the age of 36, still adhered to the life creed of "no marriage and no child". At that time, she once expressed this opinion to director Kang Weiyuan: "Marriage means losing freedom, and I will never choose to get married."
At one time, Zhang Lingxin did not have a special desire for marriage and family life, and she had a strong resistance to this mode of life. Because in her eyes, life after marriage seems to have become a constraint, and it is difficult to have a free space.
As a result, she has been quite indifferent to this.
However, after an in-depth conversation with the well-known director Kang Dao, Zhang Lingxin has a new understanding of marriage. One day, Director Kang suddenly said to her seriously and solemnly: "You will finally understand that marriage can bring endless happiness and joy to people!"
These words stirred waves in Zhang Lingxin's heart like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, and the unprecedented shocking power prompted her to begin to reflect on herself. Prior to this, she habitually equated marriage with "loss of freedom".
However, this conversation with Director Kang opened up a whole new horizon for her. Since then, Zhang Lingxin has begun to look forward to and imagine her life after marriage. She imagined that perhaps with the company of her family, life would become more colorful; Or if you have children, every day will be more fulfilling and interesting.
Under the patient guidance of Director Kang, Zhang Lingxin's concept of marriage and family has gradually undergone earth-shaking changes. The door of her soul gradually opened, and she had an incomparable yearning and longing for marriage and childbearing.
This change in mindset laid the foundation for her future life trajectory. As expected, a few years later, she finally entered the palace of marriage and ushered in a happy life of her own.
And all of this stems from that conversation that shocked her deeply.
Fifth, the road of marriage with Kang Dao
In 2014, Zhang Lingxin and Kang Weiyuan finally walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand and wrote a beautiful love story together. However, this marriage journey was not all smooth sailing, but was full of twists and turns.
Zhang Lingxin, who has just stepped into the marriage hall, is looking forward to welcoming her baby as soon as possible. However, fate seems to have played a joke on her, and the next year they tried IVF, which unfortunately ended in failure.
For Zhang Lingxin, who was 39 years old at the time, this was undoubtedly a heavy blow. At one point, she fell into a deep despair, and even began to wonder if she really couldn't be a mother.
In the face of setbacks, Zhang Lingxin once had the idea of giving up. She laughed at herself, "Maybe I wasn't born to have children." Having lost hope, she was immersed in negativity all day long, and she could never see the smile on her face again.
Fortunately, her family and Kang Dao have always been by her side to give her selfless support and encouragement. Kang Dao comforted her affectionately: "Don't give up easily, as long as we persevere, one day our dreams will come true."
Under the warm encouragement and careful guidance of relatives and friends, Zhang Lingxin bravely ushered in a turning point in his life and rekindled the fighting spirit and hope that had been silent for a long time in his heart.
Since then, she and Kang Dao have worked together to devote themselves to a new journey of life, tirelessly seeking medical assistance, and actively trying various fertility possibilities, although the road is full of ups and downs, they have never flinched.
In this long and difficult process, they have encountered countless setbacks and losses, however, they have always held on to their beliefs and moved forward. Finally, one day in May 2018, a miracle struck! Zhang Lingxin successfully gave birth to a baby boy at the age of 43, and the road of childbirth finally came to a successful conclusion after more than five years.
The birth of a newborn has made Zhang Lingxin's life trajectory change dramatically, and she devotes herself wholeheartedly to family life and carefully cares for the growth of her children.
Whether it's feeding late at night or changing diapers, she takes care of it herself, and the image of the self-willed and rebellious girl has disappeared and has been replaced by a dutiful mother.
Friends and family were amazed at how much she had changed when they saw her so fully committed to her family. From a girl who resolutely refuses to marry and have children, to a loving mother who is now fully dedicated, Zhang Lingxin has walked a challenging road.
Sixth, the rebellious woman of the past is now a loving mother
Today's Zhang Lingxin has transformed from a rebellious girl to a virtuous wife and kind mother. Looking back, she was full of emotion. When she was young, she was unruly, indifferent to marriage and family, and only pursued personal freedom and independence.
She once expressed her "firm position of not marrying and having children" in an interview, believing that marriage would deprive her of her freedom.
However, with the precipitation of years and the accumulation of life experience, she gradually began to reflect on her own concept of life. Especially after meeting his life mentor Kang Weiyuan, he made Zhang Lingxin deeply realize the importance of marriage and family with his patient and meticulous teaching, and then re-examine life and correct himself.
Under the guidance of Director Kang, Zhang Lingxin's perception of marriage and family has undergone a fundamental change, and she no longer regards it as a constraint, but begins to yearn for and look forward to this kind of life.
So, she finally chose to enter the marriage hall, conceive children, and embarked on a path that she once resisted. Of course, her life journey was not all smooth sailing, and the process of giving birth after marriage was full of hardships and challenges.
She once failed in the process of trying IVF and fell into the bottom of despair, however, it was these trials that made her more humble and learned to value what she had in front of her.
Today, Ms. Zhang Lingxin is fully committed to her family and career, trying to find the perfect balance between busy work and family. She took care of the children's growth like a treasure, gave her husband meticulous care, and lived an enviable and happy life.
From the once free-spirited to today's virtuous lady, her life trajectory has undergone earth-shaking changes, which can be called an inspirational legend!