Workplace wisdom: the art of "scheming" with colleagues
In the workplace, the way to get along with colleagues is not only simple cooperation and competition, but also an art of "scheming" that requires wisdom and strategy. As an expert in the field of workplace, I know that how to skillfully handle interpersonal relationships in the workplace is crucial to one's career development. Below, I will combine the rules and routines of the workplace to analyze the "scheming" of getting along with colleagues in detail.
1. Be sincere and respectful
Sincerity and respect are the foundation of a good relationship when dealing with colleagues. Regardless of position, every colleague should be treated equally and their views and contributions should be respected. When encountering disagreements, learn to listen to the other party's point of view, express your views in a rational way, and avoid emotional conflicts.
2. Building trust and mutual assistance
In the workplace, trust is the cornerstone of teamwork. Through your actions, words and deeds, you must win the trust of your colleagues. When a colleague is struggling, be proactive in reaching out and offering help and support. At the same time, you should also learn to trust your colleagues, give them important tasks to complete, and work together for the team's goals.
3. Skillfully handle competition and cooperation
There is both competition and partnership in the workplace. We must learn to maintain our demeanor in the midst of competition, and not to slander or attack competitors. At the same time, we should also be good at showing our own advantages in cooperation and working together with colleagues. In team projects, take the initiative to take responsibility, actively communicate and collaborate, and work together to complete tasks.
4. Grasp the "sense of distance" and "intimacy"
In the workplace, it is important to maintain an appropriate sense of distance from your colleagues. Overly intimate relationships can lead to bias and unnecessary hassles at work. But excessive distancing can also affect teamwork and atmosphere. Therefore, it is important to grasp the sense of distance with your colleagues, which is neither too intimate nor too distant. At the same time, show your "intimacy" at the right time to enhance your relationship with your colleagues.
5. Learn to observe and listen
In the workplace, reading words and emotions is a very important skill. By observing the words and actions of your colleagues, you can get an idea of their personalities, needs, and expectations. In communication, learn to listen to the other party's opinions and suggestions and respect their views. When a colleague expresses dissatisfaction or complaints, listen patiently and try to resolve the issue to avoid escalating the conflict.
6. Skillfully deal with "villains" in the workplace
In the workplace, it is inevitable to encounter some "villains" who like to tell right and wrong and spread rumors. For such people, we need to learn to remain calm and rational, and not be influenced by their words. At the same time, it is also necessary to learn to skillfully respond to their attacks and provocations and avoid direct conflict. When necessary, you can report the situation to the leadership or HR department and ask for help and support.
7. Continuous learning and improvement
In the workplace, only by constantly learning and improving your abilities can you get along better with your colleagues and cope with various challenges. We should pay attention to the development of industry trends and new technologies, and constantly improve our professional skills and comprehensive quality. At the same time, you should also learn from your colleagues about their strengths and strengths, and constantly improve yourself.
Next, let's show a more concrete application of these "scheming" in practice through a conversation:
The conversation between Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang
Xiao Li (Project Manager): "Xiao Zhang, how is the part you are responsible for in this project report completed?" ”
Xiao Zhang (project member): "Brother Li, I have completed most of the content, but there are still some details that need to be improved. ”
Xiao Li: "Very good, you have been very careful in this regard. If you encounter any problems or difficulties, remember to talk to me at any time. ”
Xiao Zhang: "Thank you, Brother Li." Actually, I encountered some problems when organizing the data and didn't know how to deal with it. ”
Xiao Li: "No problem, I'll help you take a look." In this way, let's discuss this problem together first, and then see how to solve it. ”
(The two begin to discuss the problem and find a solution)
Xiao Zhang: "Brother Li, you are so amazing!" Helped me find a solution so quickly. ”
Xiao Li: "Actually, it's nothing, we are all part of the team, and we should help each other." And you also have a lot to learn from me in the project. ”
(The two look at each other and smile, and the atmosphere is harmonious)
Through this conversation, we can see that Xiao Li shows sincerity, respect, trust, mutual assistance, and the ability to listen and solve problems when getting along with his colleague Xiao Zhang. These "scheming" not only helped Xiao Li win Xiao Zhang's trust and respect, but also promoted the harmony and cooperation of the team.
In short, getting along with colleagues in the workplace requires a certain art of "scheming". By maintaining sincerity and respect, building trust and mutual assistance, skillfully handling competition and cooperation, grasping the "sense of distance" and "intimacy", learning to read and listen, and constantly learning and improving, we can better get along with our colleagues and cope with various challenges. At the same time, we should also pay attention to staying calm and rational in the workplace to avoid being influenced by "villains". Only in this way can we go further and more steadily in the workplace.