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My name is Li Ming, and I am 50 years old this year. I am an ordinary housewife living in a small town on the outskirts of Beijing. I have a son named Xiaoliang and a husband named Wang Wei. Our family lives an ordinary and happy life, although we are not rich, but we are also warm and happy.
However, one day, my family's life was completely shattered by a major event. It was a sunny weekend, and my husband Wang Wei and I were drinking tea at home and chatting about family life. Suddenly, Xiao Liang came in with a document and said with a serious expression: "Mom, Dad, I have something I want to discuss with you." ”
Wang Wei and I glanced at each other, and I couldn't help but feel a little worried. Xiao Liang looks so serious, there must be something big to announce. I put down the teacup in my hand, frowned slightly, and asked, "What's wrong, Xiaoliang?" Is there anything you want to discuss with us? ”
Xiao Liang sat on the sofa, pondered for a while, and then said, "I've been thinking about buying a house recently. Wang Wei and I exchanged a meaningful look, and there was a faint uneasiness in my heart. Buying a house is undoubtedly a huge expense for us. Although Xiaoliang has been working for many years, it is still a challenge to own a house of his own in Beijing, a city where housing prices are soaring.
Wang Wei frowned and asked, "Where are you going to buy a house?" And what is the budget? Xiao Liang pondered for a moment, and then said: "I have taken a fancy to a house in the city center, and the price is 1.8 million. Hearing this number, Wang Wei and I couldn't help but gasp. 1.8 million is an astronomical amount for our ordinary family. Although we can raise some of the down payment, buying a house in full is still a big burden for us.
"1.8 million, that's not a small number." I couldn't help but sigh. Wang Wei also frowned, and said in thought: "This budget is indeed a bit high for us, and it will take a lot of effort to come up with so much money." ”
Seeing our expressions, Xiao Liang hurriedly said, "Mom, Dad, I know that this is a lot of money, but I have already thought about it carefully. I want to give you a living environment as good as my mother, and I will work hard to make money. Hearing Xiao Liang say this, Wang Wei and I couldn't help but feel a warm current in our hearts. We understand that Xiaoliang is really for the good of his family, so he has such a plan.
"Son, we're relieved if you think so." I put my arm around Xiao Liang's shoulders and said gently, "However, this decision involves a lot of money, and we still have to think about it." Wang Wei also nodded, agreeing with my words.
Xiao Liang looked at us with a grateful smile on his face. He knows that his parents' support for him is unconditional, but he is also willing to work hard for the future of his family. At this moment, our family's hearts were tightly connected, and we were determined to get through this difficult time together.
This decision is not only related to Xiaoliang's future, but also to the life of our family. Wang Wei and I decided to discuss it carefully and see if we could help Xiaoliang realize his dream. We don't want to put too much pressure on Xiao Liang, but we can't bear to refuse his kindness. This is a tricky question, and we need to think about it.
Just as we were struggling, a thought popped through my mind. I thought of a way to help us solve this dilemma. I decided to give Liang and his fiancée a quiz to see what they really wanted. That way, we'll be in a better position to decide whether or not to help them buy a house.
So, I decided to plan the quiz and see if I could find some clues. I know this decision will be a test for our family, but I am confident that if we work together, we will be able to get through it.
Just when I decided to give Liang and his fiancée a quiz, I started to think about how to design the quiz to truly reflect their intentions. Wang Wei and I sat in the living room, drinking tea and discussing this issue.
"What do you think you should start with?" Wang Wei asked with a frown. I thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I think we can start with their habits and attitudes towards their families, so that we can better understand their sincerity." ”
Wang Wei nodded and agreed with me. "So how should we design this quiz?" He continued. I thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I think we can find some questions from their daily lives and ask them to answer them." For example, ask them what kind of family life they like, or how they handle household chores, etc. ”
Wang Wei listened to my suggestion and nodded. "That's a good idea, but make it feel like it's a game, otherwise it might seem too deliberate." He said. I agreed with him, "Yes, we need to make them feel like it's a fun activity, not a test." ”
So, Wang Wei and I began to plan. We decided to host a family event next weekend and then secretly ask Liang and his fiancée some questions at the event to see how they reacted. We hope to learn more about them through this event, so that we can better decide whether to help them buy a house or not.
The weekend was fast approaching, and Wang Wei and I started preparing for the event early. We've carefully designed some games and questions to help you get to the bottom of what Liang and his fiancée really think. After the event began, Xiaoliang and his fiancée also participated, actively participating in various games and activities.
In between activities, Wang Wei and I secretly observed their performance, trying to find some clues from them. We found that the interaction between Xiao Liang and his fiancée was very harmonious, and they were full of love and care for each other. This made me and Wang Wei feel a little relieved, at least there was no major contradiction between them.
Halfway through the event, I decided to give them the first question. I pulled out a slip of paper that said, "If you had a family of your own, how would you share the housework?" Then I handed the note to Xiao Liang and his fiancée, and watched them think seriously.
After a while, Xiao Liang picked up the pen and began to write, while his fiancée looked at him seriously. Eventually, they handed me the note, and I took it and looked at it. Xiaoliang wrote: "I am willing to take on most of the housework because I feel that a man should be responsible for the family. But I also hope that you can help me share the burden, and we will work together to make progress together. His fiancée wrote: "I am also willing to take on part of the housework, but I hope that we can share it equally and build a warm and harmonious family together." ”
Seeing their answers, Wang Wei and I couldn't help but smile slightly. These two children, although they have different ideas, they both want to be able to work hard for each other and their families. This makes Wang Wei and I full of confidence in their future.
After the event, Wang Wei and I sat down and carefully analyzed the answers of Xiaoliang and his fiancée. We feel that although there are some small differences between them, they are both willing to work hard for the happiness of the family. This strengthened our determination to help them buy a house.
So, Wang Wei and I decided to think about how we could help them achieve this dream in the next few days. We understand that buying a house means more responsibility and stress for Xiaoliang and his fiancée, but we are willing to give everything for their happiness.
Although this quiz didn't bring us too many unexpected discoveries, it did allow Wang Wei and Wang Wei to get to know Xiaoliang and his fiancée better. We are determined to support them in their decision to have a happy family.
After the event, Wang Wei and I continued to think about how to help Xiaoliang and his fiancée realize their dream of buying a house. We decided to have a good talk with Xiao Liang first to understand his specific thoughts and plans.
The next day, I found Xiao Liang and sat in the living room and talked to him about the topic. I said, "Xiaoliang, your father and I are very supportive of your decision to buy a house, but we want to hear what your specific plan is." Xiao Liang nodded and said seriously: "Mom, I have done some research and preparation, I plan to find a stable job first, and then start planning to buy a house." ”
I listened to him and felt a little relieved. Although Xiaoliang is young, he has very mature ideas and plans. I smiled and said, "So what kind of job are you going to look for?" Have you thought about where you're headed? Xiao Liang thought for a while, and then said, "I want to find a job related to my major, such as marketing or sales." I feel like it makes better use of my strengths. ”
I nodded, agreeing with his choice. "And when are you going to start looking for a job?" I continued. Xiao Liang thought for a while, and then said, "I plan to start looking for a job within a few months after graduation, and strive to achieve my goal as soon as possible." ”
I was relieved to hear about his plan. Although Xiaoliang is young, he has very mature thinking and planning. I believe that as long as he is willing to work hard, he will be able to achieve his dream.
In the next few days, Wang Wei and I discussed some matters with Xiaoliang about buying a house, including budget, room type, location, etc. We decided to help Xiaoliang pay a part of the down payment first, and then let him take care of the loan himself. In this way, it can not only reduce our burden, but also allow Xiaoliang to better learn to live independently.
After a few days of discussion and planning, we finally settled on a house and started to go through the relevant procedures. Xiaoliang is also actively looking for a job, hoping to realize his dream as soon as possible. Wang Wei and I are full of confidence in his future and believe that he will be able to carve out a world of his own in the bustling city of Beijing.
The days passed, and finally it was time for Xiaoliang to find a job. Wang Wei and I are waiting at home for his good news, hoping that he can successfully find the job of his choice. While we were anxiously waiting, Xiao Liang happily ran back, still holding a contract in his hand.
"Mom and Dad, I've got a job!" Xiao Liang said happily. Wang Wei and I couldn't help but smile when we listened to his words. We know that this is an important milestone for Xiaoliang and his first step towards living independently.
"Congratulations, kid!" I smiled and hugged Xiao Liang, "You will definitely do a good job!" Wang Wei also walked over and patted Xiaoliang's shoulder, "Come on, we all support you!" ”
Xiao Liang looked at us and said gratefully: "Thank you Mom and Dad, it is your support and encouragement that gives me confidence and courage." Hearing him say this, Wang Wei and I were very pleased. We know that no matter what happens in the future, we will always support him and help him achieve his dreams.
Over time, Xiaoliang gradually adapted to the new working environment and learned to live independently. He worked hard, was diligent and enterprising, and soon showed his talent and ability in his work. Wang Wei and I are very proud of him, because he has grown into an independent and responsible young man.
After Xiaoliang's job stabilized, we also began to prepare for the purchase of a house. After a lot of hard work, we finally managed to buy a house and went through the relevant procedures smoothly. Not only is this house in a great location, but it is also suitable for Xiaoliang and his fiancée to start a new life.
When my family moved into our new house, I felt extremely relieved and happy. This is not only a new beginning, but also the result of a joint effort as a family. I believe that in this warm family, Xiaoliang and him
's fiancée will surely live a happy and happy life.
The day we moved into our new house, our family was excited and busy. Xiao Liang and his fiancée were busy decorating their new home, while Wang Wei and I were busy preparing some daily necessities for them. In the process of packing my luggage, I had some small talk with Xiaoliang's fiancée.
"How are you going to decorate this house?" I asked. Xiaoliang's fiancée smiled and said, "We plan to make this home more warm and comfortable, and I want to add some small decorations to each room to make them more lively." Listening to her words, I couldn't help but nod, secretly happy for her intentions.
"What are your plans for the future?" I asked again. Xiao Liang's fiancée thought for a while, and then said: "We hope to live a happy life in the future, I will try my best to support Xiao Liang's work, and I will work hard to contribute to our family." ”
Listening to her words, I couldn't help but smile. Although this fiancée is young, she has very mature ideas and plans, and I am sure that she will become an excellent wife and mother.
On the first night of moving into our new house, we sat around the living room as a family and enjoyed the warmth of family time. Xiao Liang took out a bottle of red wine and said, "Mom and Dad, this is our new home and the beginning of our new life, I hope our family can be happy forever." ”
Wang Wei and I took the red wine and said with a smile: "Thank you, child, and we also hope that you and your fiancée can be happy." Xiaoliang's fiancée also smiled and said, "Thank you for your support and blessings, we will definitely work hard to live every day." ”
Our family clinked the wine glasses and tasted the wine with a smile on our faces, feeling the taste of happiness. In this warm family, we spent a pleasant evening together, looking forward to the future full of hope and beauty.
Over time, Xiao Liang and his fiancée gradually adapted to their new life. They worked hard at work, supported each other in life, and gradually built their own small family. Wang Wei and I silently supported them on the side, hoping that they could be happy and live the life they wanted.
In this warm family, we have experienced many laughs and tears together, but we have always supported each other and overcome every difficulty together. I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to create a better tomorrow.
After Xiaoliang and his fiancée started a new life, our family's life was peaceful and happy. Xiao Liang is getting better at work, and his fiancée is gradually integrating into this big family and becoming one of us. We often go for a walk in the park on the weekends or have a good time at home with a small gathering.
However, just during a family dinner, an unexpected piece of news shattered our peaceful lives. Xiaoliang's fiancée suddenly made a surprising request.
We sat around the table as a family, enjoying a delicious dinner and talking and laughing. Suddenly, Xiaoliang's fiancée put down the tableware in her hand, looked at us seriously, and said, "Mom and Dad, I have something I want to discuss with you. ”
Wang Wei and I exchanged a meaningful look, and I couldn't help but feel a trace of worry in my heart. Xiaoliang's fiancée looks so serious, there must be something big to announce. I put down the chopsticks in my hand, frowned slightly, and asked, "What's the matter?" You say. ”
Xiao Liang's fiancée coughed a little nervously, and then said, "I want to study abroad with Xiao Liang." Hearing this unexpected proposal, Wang Wei and I couldn't help but be stunned and looked at her in disbelief. Studying abroad is undoubtedly a huge decision for a young girl, and there are many considerations involved.
"Study abroad?" I couldn't help but repeat it, and an indescribable emotion welled up in my heart. "Yes." Xiaoliang's fiancée nodded and said firmly: "I have always had a dream, which is to study abroad and improve my knowledge and ability. Now I feel like it's time to make that dream come true. ”
Wang Wei and I exchanged a silent look, full of contradictions and helplessness. We understand that studying abroad is an important opportunity for Xiaoliang's fiancée, but it also means that we will have to face a period of separation and longing. This is undoubtedly a huge test for our family.
"It's a decision that needs to be well thought out." I took a deep breath and tried to calm my emotions, "Studying abroad is not only about your personal development, but also about our family's life. We need to discuss it and see if we can find a solution that works for everyone. ”
Xiaoliang's fiancée nodded, showing understanding and respect for our decision. "I know this decision will not be easy for you, but I hope you will support me." "I will study hard and achieve my dream as soon as possible." ”
Hearing her say this, a warm current surged in the hearts of Wang Wei and me. We understand that studying abroad is an important opportunity for her, and we hope that she can succeed in a foreign country and create a better future for herself and her family.
So, over the next few days, our family began a difficult but hopeful discussion. We explored various possible options and tried to find a solution that would meet the needs of Xiaoliang's fiancée while maintaining stability and harmony in the family.
After some in-depth discussion and thinking, we finally decided to support Xiaoliang's fiancée to study abroad. We believe this is an important opportunity for her and the first step towards success. At the same time, we will do everything we can to support and help her realize her dreams in a foreign country.
After this decision, some changes took place in our family's lives. Although the days of separation can make us feel lonely and missed, we believe that this experience will make us stronger and more united. We will get through this difficult but hopeful time together by supporting and encouraging each other.
I am confident that no matter what happens, our family will always be connected to face the challenges ahead. With the support of love and understanding, we will be able to create a better tomorrow.