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In May 2023, when we mention Wang Xiaofei and Chen Xiao, two public figures, the words that come to mind are "divorce" and "happiness".
Wang Xiaofei, the "national husband" who once showed a very high degree of favorability in front of the public, has now become a topic of conversation after dinner because of the divorce turmoil. His love life is like a roller coaster, and the frequent love scandals have made his image plummet.
Even his ex-girlfriend Zhang Yingying publicly accused him of "seamless docking" behavior, which put him in a deeper predicament.
However, in stark contrast to Wang Xiaofei, Chen Xiao and his wife Chen Yanxi's married life is stable and happy. Although they have also been plagued by rumors of a "relationship crisis", they have never responded to it.
Chen Yanxi just responded with a calm smile: "How can Chen Xiao have no light in his eyes? Isn't he the hero Ultraman in our hearts? Such a wise sentence not only successfully defused the pressure of public opinion, but also showed the deep affection between her and her husband and the mature attitude of dealing with problems.
Today, Chen Xiao's family of three lives a low-key and happy life. Whenever the media interviewed Chen Yanxi, she always unabashedly expressed her praise for her husband Chen Xiao, saying that he was a gentle, considerate, diligent and kind man, and a treasure in her life.
Looking back on the past, Wang Xiaofei and Chen Xiao's marriage paths can be described as completely different. Wang Xiaofei inherited the family industry in the capital and became the son of a wealthy man one of the "Four Youths in Beijing" in one fell swoop.
And Chen Xiao got acquainted with Chen Yanxi in 2013 through cooperating in the costume drama "The Condor Heroes", and gradually developed a relationship.
During the year-long shoot, they had a great deal of chemistry on set, but both saw each other as friends and colleagues. Chen Yanxi once said frankly that after learning that Chen Xiao was four years younger than herself, she treated him as a younger brother and did not have too many other ideas.
It wasn't until 2014 that the two met again at work, and Chen Xiao at this time had a secret affection for Chen Yanxi.
In front of such a warm and direct confession, many women will feel shocked or embarrassed. However, Chen Yanxi showed endless joy for this sincere expression of emotion, and she later recalled: "At that time, hearing such sincere words, my heart was filled with unprecedented happiness, and that moment was undoubtedly the best time of my life."
So, after deeply confirming what they wanted from each other, the two quickly decided to enter the sacred marriage hall. From announcing their relationship, to receiving their marriage certificate, to holding a grand wedding in bustling Taipei, their love journey is as smooth as their peers.
It is worth mentioning that compared with Wang Xiaofei's only 27 days of acquaintance and love, Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi have spent more than a year together during the filming of the movie. This valuable experience laid a solid foundation of understanding and trust for their future married life.
Chen Xiao once said with emotion that during the days he worked with Chen Yanxi, he deeply felt that she not only had a charming appearance, but also a rich connotation, including wisdom, mind and tenacious determination.
After getting married, Da S gradually felt out of place with life in Beijing. As a daughter-in-law who married away from home, she finally made up her mind to leave this unfamiliar city and return to the familiar living environment of Taipei.
The decision ran counter to the expectations of her husband, Wang Xiaofei's mother, Zhang Lan, and led to growing tensions between her and her mother-in-law. Once, Da S affectionately expressed his gratitude to his mother-in-law Zhang Lan on social media, calling it a gift in life that is worth cherishing and loving.
And Zhang Lan also publicly supported her daughter-in-law in front of the media, and frankly praised Da S as the best daughter-in-law.
However, the good times are always short-lived, and as Da S's determination to leave Beijing grows, her relationship with Zhang Lan inevitably cracks. Big S later said frankly on the show that he did not deliberately divorce, but simply hoped to return to his parents and return to the living environment that he had long been accustomed to.
In contrast, Chen Yanxi made a very different choice. After marriage, she did not hesitate to give up everything in Taiwan, and firmly decided to follow her husband Chen Xiao to settle in Beijing, devote herself to family life, and dutifully play the role of a good wife and mother.
Although she is in Taiwan, far away from her hometown and homeland, and temporarily away from her relatives and friends, Chen Yanxi has never expressed any complaints about the current situation, on the contrary, she and her husband Chen Xiao support each other and work together, perfectly interpreting the profound connotation of "knowing wife Mo Ruofu" with practical actions.
In the face of various challenges in family life, Chen Yanxi has always taken care of her husband's daily life, whether Chen Xiao is working hard outside the world or traveling around the world, as long as the two live in the same hotel, she will unreservedly devote herself to the responsibility of serving her husband.
Therefore, the marital status of Da S and Chen Yanxi also shows obvious contrasts and contrasts. Once, Da S shared on her personal social media: Playing with her husband with her children and living a simple and happy life is exactly the ideal life model she has always longed for and pursued.
However, unexpectedly, not long ago, she suddenly decided to leave Beijing, and her words and deeds changed drastically.
Now, Da S has tied the knot with his new partner bald Gu Junye, but Wang Xiaofei's emotional world has always been in a state of turmoil, and various scandals have emerged one after another, making him fall into a wave of "seamless connection" questions and criticism.
The fundamental reason for the completely different endings of Wang Xiaofei and Chen Xiao's marriage is largely due to their unique growth backgrounds and huge differences in values.
Looking back on Wang Xiaofei's growth process, it is not difficult for us to find that he grew up in a family environment full of contradictions and lack of family affection since he was a child. According to the description in his autobiography "Born in 1981", the quarrels between her parents were endless, which made the young Wang Xiaofei often feel physically and mentally exhausted, "In my childhood, my parents spent every day in quarrels, and my only wish at that time was to hope that they could stop arguing.
Wang Xiaofei, who grew up in such a lack of family affection, although he went abroad to study with the full support of his mother Zhang Lan, he still felt extremely lonely and lonely in his days in a foreign country.
He said frankly that in addition to working hard to learn foreign languages during his study abroad, he always felt a sense of loneliness deep in his heart.
Such a harsh growth environment has undoubtedly had a profound negative impact on Wang Xiaofei's outlook on life. He is desperate to be loved and pampered by others, and he is also keen to seek the recognition of money and power.
Therefore, the moment he met Da S, he did not hesitate to choose to include her in his life, trying to fill the emptiness and desire in his heart through this marriage.
In stark contrast, the family environment in which the young actor Chen Xiao lives can be described as happy. Growing up under the careful nurturing of his parents since childhood, Chen Xiao has an open-minded personality, and various interests and hobbies have been properly guided and developed.
It is worth mentioning that although the parents did not support their son's career in acting at the beginning, it is precisely this educational concept that allows Chen Xiao to maintain the characteristics of calm, introverted and steady in the intricate entertainment industry.
After marriage, Chen Xiao did not neglect his care for his wife and children like most actors, but took time to accompany his wife Chen Yanxi as much as possible. According to people familiar with the matter, as long as the couple work in the same city, Chen Yanxi will do her best to stay in the same hotel with her husband and take care of her husband's daily life.
In comparison, Wang Xiaofei's cherishing of marriage is obviously not comparable to Chen Xiao. He married Big S into the door, largely based on a momentary impulse and personal selfish desires.
From his deep affection for Da S at the beginning, to his gradual estrangement, until now it ends in divorce, the source of all this stems from his one-sided understanding and superficial understanding of family and marriage.
Looking back on the growth process and married life of Wang Xiaofei and Chen Xiao, it is not difficult to see that a happy marriage is not achieved overnight, but the crystallization of mutual understanding, tolerance and commitment between husband and wife.
Wang Xiaofei does not attach enough importance to marriage, and he includes Big S in the family, largely out of impulse and selfishness. From his deep love for Da S at the beginning, to his gradual distancing from her, and now to the end of divorce, the root of all this stems from his one-sided cognition and superficial understanding of family and marriage.
On the other hand, Chen Xiao has a rigorous and cautious attitude towards marriage. He understands the preciousness of marriage and understands that maintaining family happiness requires a concerted effort by both parties. Therefore, even when his career is successful, he will still devote a lot of time to accompany his wife and children, and practice the true meaning of "knowing his wife is like a husband" with practical actions.
Marriage is a two-way process that requires both husband and wife to have equal enthusiasm and firm conviction in order to achieve long-term and stable development.
As Chan said, "Spending time together does not necessarily mean that one of them loves each other more than the other, but that both parties need to work closely together to create a comfortable and comfortable family atmosphere."
As ordinary people, we are not the embodiment of perfection, and it is inevitable that we will encounter various challenges on the road to marriage. However, the key to the success or failure of a marriage lies in whether the couple can resolve conflicts with mutual understanding and tolerance, and cherish each other's emotional bonds with practical actions.
Only by holding each other's hands tightly, can our marriage road move forward hand in hand, more stable and more far-reaching.