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I hope you don't be like me, a scumbag like me, damn it!
This is a netizen's contribution, all the female friends who have swiped this video, you can stop for a while, your cool feeling is coming. Those who scolded me, complained about me, and rolled their eyes at me, this video can relieve your anger.
Hello bloggers! Submit a manuscript to you, which can be regarded as a summary of my youth! This story is a different story.
Ever since I was a child, I didn't like giving, I was a cowardly and scheming person.
I am a post-90s generation whose family lives in Guangdong, and I am the one whose parents went out to work when I was a child and stayed in the countryside as a child. I remember that in 2007, my parents spent 9,000 yuan on the transfer fee to send me to the county experimental middle school. In 2010, I was admitted to the county public high school.
But because of my own cowardice and shallow understanding of human nature, I was bullied on campus and left the campus. I went to the production area of a cake chain and became an apprentice.
At that time, there was no WeChat, everyone was using QQ in the era, I often used QQ to search, add local friends, and set the age of 14-17 years old.
I added her, the first woman in my life, when I was about to turn 17 and she was about to turn 16.
Through the messages in the space and the communication with the dialogue, I judged that she and I should be from the same county. I talked to her, and I don't know why, but I had a feeling that I could clearly believe that this girl likes good and dedicated boys.
So, I tried my best to disguise myself as a boy like that.
At that time, I was just an apprentice on the night shift, and there were two people on the night shift, each of whom did part of the work.
So, I lied to her and said that I was the supervisor of the evening shift, and I was the supervisor of the evening shift.
I also fictionalized an ex-girlfriend, who made myself an infatuated man and was abandoned by his ex-girlfriend, but he still didn't forget his ex-girlfriend.
Everything is to create a character that I am very infatuated with and is very dedicated and good enough.
I usually show a high level of concern for her, but when appropriate, I am slow to reply to her messages, and I will also show an angry attitude.
Later, when I saw that the time was almost up, I confessed to her. At first, she didn't accept it, but I felt that she was tempting.
Therefore, I deliberately showed that after the failure of the confession, I was sad and indifferent and stopped looking for her. I knew that I couldn't go to her first, I had to bet, bet that she thought I was really angry because I liked her and was rejected, and that she thought I was angry and really liked her.
As a result, I made the bet, and a few days later, she took the initiative to send a message: be my boyfriend.
I also hypocritically said: I'll think about it!
I wanted to create that I was good enough to make her more proactive.
But then, another few silent days, I couldn't wait for her to take the initiative further, so I could only send her a message: I agree!
Since then, my first relationship has been formalized.
I was nearly 100 kilometers away from her, which was a relatively long distance in those days when transportation was inconvenient, and when it was time to take a vacation, I drove to find her.
When I saw her, I saw that she was a beauty, although she was not like a fairy, but in the class, she was the kind that could become the class flower, and I was very happy.
But there are not many surprises, because a series of film and television works such as Wei Xiaobao , Zhang Wuji and so on have formed an inherent concept in my mind, and I feel that when I grow up, I should be like the protagonist, and there will be beautiful women in my life one after another. Therefore, just thinking that this is the beginning of happiness and not feeling that I am not too lucky.
That night, we stayed in a hotel together, and although we were a couple, we didn't really do that.
After I went back that time, I put pressure on her many times through emotions, deliberately showing unhappiness and discomfort. Because she had a boyfriend before this. I said I was uncomfortable, I loved you so much, but I couldn't see the most real you, and the person who didn't love you did everything with you.
I deliberately put moral pressure on her while making her feel like it was because of the jealousy of loving her. She felt deeply guilty and said that the next time we meet, she will satisfy you.
A little over a month later, we met again and we did everything. Then I took her back to her hometown, and then to live in the city, and she followed me completely.
At that time, I was very poor and had nothing, I was just an ordinary boy, and I was fortunate to get a woman who was willing to follow me and endure hardships together.
We spent two years together. That year, I was 19 years old, she was 18 years old, she was pregnant, and I was sure that the baby was mine. Because she and I have always been inseparable, each other's QQ passwords are shared.
But I think I'm still young, I don't know what the flowers are like outside, and, deep down, I'm not happy with her, I don't think she can do what I say, plus in those days, the virginity complex atmosphere is serious, and I don't want a flower that I didn't pick.
So, I used a very vicious ploy, I lied to her and said that we were too young and that now that we have children, it will drag us down. I asked her to get rid of the child first, and promised her that as long as the child was killed, I would marry her.
She believed it, and she went to beat the child. Then I abandoned her, and in order to prevent her from pestering me, I thought of hurting her viciously, and I told everyone that she had beaten my child without my consent. She couldn't argue.
I feel like I've finally managed to get rid of her, and I can continue to experience the thousands of flowers in the world.
After sending her back to her home, she silly expected me to contact her again.
She thought I would arrange a day to marry her, but I deleted her when she came.
Perhaps, at that time, she was all lost! In that era of chastity, it may not be easy for her to become pregnant and then abandoned, and to bear and face the worldly rites alone. A year later, she married a provincial.
Since then, the two of us have parted ways.
It's been many years since I got in touch again, and I've been through many people, but I've never met anyone else who really wants to be with me.
Every time I establish a relationship with a new person, I find that they just want to enjoy the resources I give, and what they can provide me with is only a temporary body that is used repeatedly.
In the end, I found that no one wanted to go down with me; At the same time, I also found that there is no flower as beautiful as her.
After experiencing the vicissitudes of life, I found that she was so beautiful at the beginning.
After going through the vicissitudes of life, I realized that she, who couldn't completely obey me, was already the most obedient and good-tempered person I could meet.
In 2017, when I was 22 years old, another woman appeared. She came to Guangdong from Guizhou to work, and at first she said that it was because of difficulties and that she would stay with me for a while, and I accepted. However, when she stayed, she refused to leave. We didn't do anything else, and then she said she was going to be my girlfriend, and I said I wasn't going to talk to someone who asked for a bride price (we don't have a bride price here, and my dad doesn't have a bride price when he marries my mom). I said if you want a bride price, don't be together, if you don't, you can try. She acquiesced.
A few months after we officially dated, she said she was going to have a baby, I said it was too early, but she didn't listen, she was very short-tempered and harsh. As soon as she heard me say that the time was not ripe, she hysterically said that she was going to get a ligation or something.
I couldn't help it, so I had to agree. But the first 2 times, it all flowed naturally. I can't keep it when I'm pregnant, maybe it's because I've had surgery before!
The third time I got pregnant, I told her not to do anything, housework and work, and just completely raise the baby. So, this third pregnancy was saved, and in the fall of 2019, a baby was born.
It was only then that she told her parents the news. Then her parents offered us to get married, set up drinks, and so on.
I agreed.
At the end of the epidemic in 2022, everything is ready and the marriage certificate has been completed. As a result, her parents said that they needed 8.8 bride price, plus three gold or something, anyway, the cumulative amount needed to prepare more than 13.
At that time, after I bought the house, I only had less than 50,000 yuan left in my hand, how could I make up so much money? So, in the end, because of this incident, we completely broke up, and there was no room for maneuver, so she insisted on divorce and left.
At this time, I am completely sober about life, I already have a son, and I don't have a lot of money, so there is a high probability that I will not find the next one. Therefore, I don't care if the divorce certificate is handled or not, but if she has to do it, she has to find the next one. As a condition, I asked her to pay 500 monthly child support for the child, otherwise people can leave, but I don't handle the divorce certificate. Because, the mortgage, child support, and the huge economic reality are in front of me, and I am extremely sober.
She agreed to 500 yuan in child support, and the divorce agreement officially divorced.
After the divorce, she pointed at my face and scolded: Don't want a bride price, I just said it casually, I didn't expect you to really believe it, you are really stupid!
She also scolded my whole family for being shameless, saying that she gave birth to a child in our family, and she didn't get a penny, and asked her for child support. She scolded very badly and said a lot of vicious things.
I stood there, and there was no echo.
Subsequently, she blocked all my communications, and there was no more news of her, only a monthly bank card arrival reminder of 500 yuan.
At the beginning, there was a girl who was super good-looking and obedient and willing to endure hardships with me, and didn't want a bride price, I didn't want to marry her because I wasn't a virgin, and finally married a woman who had undergone surgery, and after giving birth to a child, because she couldn't get the bride price, she left me and the child behind.
How ironic my fate is! This is retribution! My regret cannot be expressed in words. If I could go back once, I would be willing to exchange 10 years of life, 20 years, I would be willing without worry, but unfortunately, it won't.
Today, I am about to turn 30 years old, with a 5-year-old child, looking at the current material age, I am confused.
I don't have strong assets, I'm no longer young, my income is mediocre, and it should be difficult to have another chance if I can find someone to accompany me for the rest of my life! Maybe this is God's punishment for me, I don't blame anyone, I deserve it.
Once upon a time, she was so beautiful and had so many suitors, but she chose me, and I abandoned her.
Once, I was a person who got high-quality women but didn't cherish them, and eventually I became a low-level man who couldn't even get women.
After the divorce, I was extremely remorseful, contacted her, and I told her all the truths of the year, including all my vicious thoughts at the beginning, including why I separated from her in the end. I don't still have illusions, but I want to show my remorse.
She told me, saying: For so many years, it has been a thorn in my heart, I have rejected so many people who have pursued me, so determined to follow you, but you have to abandon me, I have never been able to figure out what is wrong with me, let you hate me so much, and now, relieved.
I knew that I had lost her completely. At this time, she already had a son and a daughter.
In the blogger's story collection, I saw so many infatuated men's contributions, so I wrote down my story, I don't know if my different submissions can be used by you! Let you take a look at the different fates of these living beings from another angle.
For myself, if I am fortunate enough to be adopted, recording my own story can be regarded as the meaning of the rest of my life!
Finally, I hope you don't be like me, people like me, damn it!
I hope you don't be like me, people like me, damn it!
The story is over, let me say a few words.
This brother who submitted the article had a problem when he was young! When we watch martial arts dramas, what we think about is to be a hero, to be chivalrous, to eradicate evil, to rob the rich and help the poor, and why are you Wei Xiaobao? There is something wrong with this nature, and it may be that, as he said at the beginning, he was born with a dark heart.
I have a lot of post-00s brothers who pay attention, and I believe that this life story will bring them some different inspiration. And this brother who submitted the manuscript now has a clear understanding and finds that he is not the protagonist in film and television dramas, his life is in the past, the fault is his own, and the blame is himself, and he does not complain that the current woman is too money-worshipping and too realistic.
I believe that the female friends who see this must be full of contempt, and they all agree that he has something to complain about, is he worthy? Indeed, he is not worthy. This is indeed a manuscript that relieves women, and this incident affects his entire life and children. When it comes to children, some women may come out and say that the child is innocent, and for the sake of the child, don't scold you. Usually those who scold me and complain about me, I believe this story, you should not do it.
As an outsider, what I want to say to this brother is, don't grieve the past too much, let it pass. You also know your current situation, it is difficult to meet a good woman again, then restrain the illusions that you shouldn't have, work hard, make money, take good care of your children, let yourself be on the way to work, on the way to make money, give that encounter to fate, fate let you meet, then you will interact, fate will not let you meet, then give up illusions and accept reality.
By the way, educate the child well, let the child grow up to be a teenager, not the same as the father, not the same as the mother. The saddest thing is actually the child, let the child choose, may not be willing to choose the two of you at all, to be a parent. I'm sorry, don't blame me for not sounding good.
Yesterday is gone, the future is visible, the only thing that can be done is to give up illusions and be down-to-earth.
Finally, I hope that everyone can be content and happy in life. Strive to move forward, fearless and dangerous, rich and poor are only temporary, rugged is short-lived, and everyone can live towards the sun.
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