Life is like a play, gathering and dispersing are all fate-look down on those who are drifting away
On the stage of life, we are all actors, playing different roles, meeting and parting with countless passers-by. Some people, like bright shooting stars, briefly streak across your night sky, leaving a deep imprint; And some people, like a breeze, quietly enter your life, and then quietly leave.
In these fast-changing times, relationships between people are becoming more and more nuanced. Sometimes, you will find that the person who once talked about everything, suddenly becomes cold and detached, as if it disappeared from your world overnight. This change makes people feel confused and helpless, but when you think about it, it is actually an inevitability.
Life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills. In this scene, we are all trying our best to play our roles well and intersect with different people. But with the passage of time and the vicissitudes of life, some people are destined to drift away and become passers-by in our lives. This doesn't mean that they were never important, but we all need to learn to accept the change and look down on those who drift away.
Netizen Xiao A said: "I used to have a very good friend, we talked about everything, and we were together almost every day. But as time went on, her work got busier and busier, and we kept in touch less and less. Sometimes I take the initiative to talk to her, and she only responds with a few words. I felt the change in her, but I also knew that it was the norm of life. We all have our own ways to go, and we can't force others to be there for us all the time. ”
Little A's words made me think deeply. It is true that everyone has their own life and trajectory, and we cannot force others to be there for us all the time. When a relationship starts to become distant, we should learn to accept and let go. Because forcing will only make us fall into pain and struggle, while letting go will give us more freedom and possibility.
In my opinion, looking down on those who are drifting away is not a negative attitude, but a sign of maturity and open-mindedness. We need to understand that everyone has their own path to follow, and sometimes we need to face life's challenges and difficulties alone. And when we learn to look down on those who are drifting away, we also cherish those around us who have been with us all the time.
So, let's play our role on the stage of life! Whether it is meeting or parting, it is a part of life. Let us face every encounter and parting in life with a grateful and open-minded heart, cherish those who have always been by our side, and look down on those who are drifting apart. Because in this complex and ever-changing world, it is already a rare fate to be able to meet.
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