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Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying were undoubtedly the high-profile "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" combination in the entertainment industry. The two couples are deeply affectionate and loved by countless audiences, and are known as role models for their harmonious husband and wife living together.
Whenever the two appear in public, they will always attract onlookers and win the envy of many fans.
It is widely believed that this sweet couple will be able to love each other until they grow old and spend the rest of their lives together. However, who would have thought that not long after the birth of their youngest son, Little Sponge, this loving couple who once fascinated countless people would also come to the brink of marriage breakdown.
That year, their grand wedding was a sensation, and many media and fans gathered to witness the perfect combination of this talented and beautiful couple. Looking back now, the hustle and bustle of that time seems to be just an illusory dream.
The news of the divorce is like a hammer, completely breaking people's good expectations for them.
Just when the outside world was lamenting the divorce of this model couple, a sudden family change once again focused the public's attention, which was full of emotion.
The story begins when Huang Xiaoming was in a foreign country and received an emergency call from home. After learning that her young son Little Sponge had unfortunately contracted pneumonia, the mother accidentally fell out of bed while taking care of the child, resulting in a broken rib and requiring hospitalization.
A series of bad news was like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, knocking Huang Xiaoming down completely.
Huang Xiaoming's face was pale, his eyes were dark, and he paced back and forth in the cramped room, constantly pressing his mobile phone in his hand. As a father away from home, he felt helpless and blamed himself.
The mother, who was already busy, had to take on the responsibility of taking care of her son, but she never thought that this accident was injured and hospitalized, and her son suddenly fell ill.
This series of accidents made Huang Xiaoming's heart ache.
Recalling the scene at that time, Huang Xiaoming couldn't help but fall into deep self-blame and pain. It turned out that in order to prevent the young little sponge from being bitten by mosquitoes, the mother had to choose to rest in the upper bed.
However, she was negligent and fell out of bed, resulting in a broken rib. To make matters worse, the little sponge was also diagnosed with pneumonia at this time.
Faced with an anxious situation, Huang Xiaoming had to hold his mobile phone tightly in his hand and endure the care and inquiries from relatives and friends one after another, but he was powerless. As a father who had gone away, he felt helpless and blamed himself, and he had no choice but to let things develop.
When the family encountered a sudden upheaval, Huang Xiaoming's thoughts couldn't help but drift back to the world-renowned wedding many years ago. At that time, they were extremely affectionate, attracting the envy and admiration of countless people.
However, who would have thought that this couple, who was known as a "model couple", would come to the point of divorce!
Huang Xiaoming clearly remembers that when he first met Yang Ying on the set, he was deeply attracted by her bright smile and lively and cheerful personality. Whenever he saw her, he would involuntarily reveal an obsessive gaze.
And Yang Ying often took the initiative to throw herself into his arms, and the affection between the two made the staff present envious.
Everyone thought that they would be able to stay together for the rest of their lives and become an eternal model couple. However, unexpectedly, not long after the birth of the little sponge, the couple, who were regarded as a perfect match by the outside world, unexpectedly broke the news of their divorce.
That day, Huang Xiaoming's face was serious, his eyes were red and swollen, and he had obviously cried bitterly. Yang Ying bowed her head and was silent, her face full of melancholy. The two silently signed their names on the divorce agreement, announcing the end of the marriage.
The surrounding staff were stunned, and they were all shocked by the breakup of this loving couple.
There was an uproar at the scene, and everyone speculated about what caused the breakdown of this model couple who loved each other extremely much? Is there a rift in the relationship, or is there something else hidden? No one knows the truth, and they can only helplessly watch the couple, who were once considered eternal, go their separate ways.
After the divorce, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying had a disagreement on how to raise their son Little Sponge. Huang Xiaoming resolutely decided to take all the responsibilities alone and try not to disturb his ex-wife Yang Ying's new life, but this move has attracted doubts and criticism from the outside world.
Some netizens said that Huang Xiaoming seemed to ignore Yang Ying's role and status as the child's mother. Although they have divorced, in Yang Ying's heart, the little sponge is always her own flesh and blood.
Of course, she has the right to understand the trajectory of her child's growth and the current situation of life. Once we find out that our child is sick, we are confident that she will be able to adjust her work schedule and make time to take care of the child herself.
Moreover, at the time of the divorce, the two of them promised to work together to raise a son, so that he could grow up healthily in a healthy family atmosphere. However, Huang Xiaoming took on all the heavy responsibilities by himself, and this behavior undoubtedly ignored the various troubles and tortures suffered by Yang Ying as a mother.
He seemed to regard Yang Ying as just a hurried passer-by in the journey of life, and the deep affection that he once had was long gone.
Yang Ying's eyes were gloomy, her brows were furrowed, and she was obviously dissatisfied with Huang Xiaoming's move. Whenever asked about the current situation of the little sponge, she always waved her hand lightly with a sullen face and politely refused to answer.
Sometimes when she sees news reports about Huang Xiaoming's father and son, she will quickly turn her head away and deliberately avoid her gaze.
However, a considerable number of people still expressed their understanding and support for Huang's decision. After all, as a father, he is burdened with heavy responsibilities, and many aspects such as career, family, and reputation need to be borne by him alone.
He hopes that through his own efforts, he will create a perfect and happy family environment for his children, and at the same time, he hopes to devote more time to his beloved son.
In addition, he may also feel that he should not interfere too much in his ex-wife's life. Because before this, Yang Ying had been rumored to have started a new relationship with others. As an ex-husband, Huang Xiaoming believes that he should respect her and avoid causing her unnecessary trouble.
Therefore, when the family upheaval occurred when the child contracted pneumonia and the mother was injured as a result, Huang Xiaoming took the initiative to let the mother and child return to their hometown of Qingdao, where other relatives and friends could take care of them.
He is alone on the outside, suffering the helplessness and guilt of being a father.
When Huang Xiaoming participated in the recording of a reality show, he publicly talked about his ex-wife Yang Ying for the first time, which attracted widespread attention and strong interest from all walks of life.
Amazingly, he did not directly call his ex-wife by her name, but called her "Little Sponge's Mother".
This title seems to be respectful and polite, but in fact it is a little cold and unfamiliar, which makes people can't help but have the illusion that the two have long been strangers. The atmosphere was solemn and silent, and all the guests were full of astonishment, and everyone speculated in their hearts about Huang Xiaoming's true feelings in his heart.
When talking about his son Little Sponge, Huang Xiaoming's face was full of happiness and satisfaction, and his words were also full of deep fatherly love. He admitted frankly that his son's appearance characteristics are more inclined to himself, but his personality and temperament are lively and cute, naughty and mischievous, which is quite Yang Ying's style back then.
From his narration, we can get a glimpse of him still remembering Yang Ying's bright and moving image in the past. Perhaps, the deep affection and attachment that once existed, even if it has been divorced, has not completely disappeared.
However, life is always full of dramatic changes and impermanence, and no one can predict how it will end up.
An elderly female guest at the scene stared at Huang Xiaoming's demeanor and couldn't help but say with emotion: "Divorce is not the complete end of emotion, there are always some inseparable bonds between you. ”。
As parents of your children, you are destined to be closely connected by this blood thicker than water.
When Huang Xiaoming heard this, he was silent for a long time, and his eyes were slightly gloomy. After thinking about it for a while, he finally bowed his head slightly and said: "That's true, no matter what kind of situation you encounter, the little sponge will always be our common child."
Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, as high-profile actors, their lives are full of challenges and hardships due to their busy acting careers. They have to travel all year round to perform, and the time they spend with their families and children is like a morning star.
How to strike a balance between family and career is undoubtedly the "helpless" dilemma faced by many celebrity families.
It is often difficult to have the best of both worlds, and if both husband and wife are fully committed to their acting careers, there is bound to be a time for both spouses to put aside their work and devote all their energy to their families and children.
However, if both parties stick to the path of acting and are unwilling to compromise, it will be difficult for the family and children to be properly cared for, and the relationship may break down.
Worryingly, the end result is that the child is forced into an incomplete family environment. Take the well-known actors Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy (Yang Ying) as an example, although they publicly stated that they would jointly assume the responsibility of raising their son Xiao Sponge, Xiao Sponge can accurately perceive and feel the contradictions and isolation between their parents.
Children growing up in single-parent families are often more likely to suffer from low self-esteem, inhibition and even abandonment than their peers with a well-established family environment. Even if Yang Ying, as a mother, in order to make up for her son's loss of father's love, often tries her best to find time to accompany him to participate in parent-child activities held by the school and take the children out to play, but she can't experience the warm moment of both parents after all.
This reality of a single-parent family can undoubtedly cause indelible damage to the child's psyche. Because family affection cannot be measured by money, what children crave most in their hearts is actually the companionship and love from their parents.
Therefore, when faced with the choice between family and career, parents must make difficult choices.
For ordinary families, this may not pose much of a problem, but for star artists such as Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, it is undoubtedly a huge challenge like climbing Mount Everest.
While they enjoy the glory brought by the halo of stardom, they must also bear the heavy pressure of family and career.
And children often become innocent victims in this game of family and career. When the little sponge suddenly fell ill and his mother was injured and hospitalized for taking care of him, the anxiety and helplessness of his father Huang Xiaoming, who was in a foreign land, was really distressing.