An accident, a crossroads in marriage
Life is like a long journey, sometimes the wind is calm, and sometimes there are sudden storms and waves. For Liu Ting, the experience of that business trip was like a sudden storm in her life journey, which made her originally peaceful life instantly turbulent.
Liu Ting, a 35-year-old woman, and her marriage to her husband Li Hao used to be her proudest achievement. The two have known and fallen in love since college, and after graduation, they chose to enter the palace of marriage without hesitation. At that time, they only had each other in their eyes, and they felt that as long as they were together, they could overcome all difficulties. However, as time passed, the busyness of work and the triviality of life gradually consumed their passion, and the distance between the two became more and more distant.
Liu Ting works for a foreign trade company, while Li Hao is a software engineer. The nature of their work is different, which leads to less and less topics for the two. Apart from daily chores and children's studies, they have little else in common to talk about. Every time I come home from work, I play with my mobile phone, and occasionally look up and say a word, which is also about work or children's trivialities. Liu Ting began to feel that such a married life made her feel suffocated, and she longed for change, but she didn't know how to start.
At this time, the company arranged for Liu Ting to go on a business trip with her male colleague Wang Jie. Wang Jie is the company's new department manager, young and promising, funny and humorous. In an unfamiliar city, the two have frequent contact because of their work, and gradually develop subtle emotions. Together, they taste local food, visit places of interest, and talk about work and life. In the company of Wang Jie, Liu Ting felt the long-lost ease and happiness.
However, after an unexpected drunkenness, the two accidentally break the boundaries of friendship. At that moment, Liu Ting's heart was full of guilt and remorse. She knew she had betrayed her husband's trust and ruined their already fragile marriage. However, when she looked at Wang Jie's sleeping face, an inexplicable emotion surged in her heart. She didn't know what to do.
After the business trip, Liu Ting returned home with a heavy heart. She didn't dare to look her husband in the eyes, let alone mention the matter between herself and Wang Jie. However, paper can't contain fire after all. Li Hao discovered Liu Ting's abnormal behavior by chance, and he began to wonder if his wife was having an affair.
When Li Hao asked Liu Ting for confirmation, she couldn't hide it anymore. She confessed the matter between herself and Wang Jie and asked her husband for forgiveness. However, Li Hao's reaction was unexpected by Liu Ting. Instead of being as angry or agitated as she imagined, he calmly filed for divorce.
This decision made Liu Ting shocked and puzzled. She didn't understand why an accident could lead to such serious consequences? She tries to explain that she just made a mistake in the moment of confusion and promises that she will never do it again. But Li Hao can't seem to forgive her for her betrayal, and he insists on a divorce.
After thinking calmly, Liu Ting began to examine her married life. She found that the problem between her and Li Hao could not be solved overnight. There is less and less communication between them, and there is less and less common topics; She realized that she might not have really understood her husband's inner needs in her marriage and had not given him enough care and support. She began to reflect on whether she was also responsible for the breakdown of the marriage.
And what about Li Hao? Is he really unable to forgive Liu Ting for her mistakes? Or has he long lost faith in this marriage? What are the stories and ideas behind his decisions? Liu Ting tries to communicate with her husband and understand his true thoughts and feelings; But Li Hao seemed reluctant to bring up this topic again, nor did he want to communicate with Liu Ting again.
After a series of struggles and pains, Liu Ting finally realized that her problem was that she ignored her husband's feelings in her marriage, as well as the communication and understanding between husband and wife. She decided to change herself and try to save the marriage. She began to take the initiative to communicate with her husband and understand his thoughts and feelings; She began to try to think from her husband's point of view and understand his stress and troubles. She also began to care more about and support her husband's work and life.
After a period of hard work, the relationship between Liu Ting and Li Hao gradually improved. They began to re-establish trust and respect, and they began to rediscover the love and passion they once had. Although their marriage had experienced crises and setbacks, they eventually chose to forgive and start over.
This story teaches us that in marriage, we need to maintain trust and respect for each other; When accidents happen, we need to be brave enough to face them and solve them; Only in this way can we go through every stage of life together and create happiness and beauty that belong to us together.
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