In the matchmaking market, I am an ordinary participant. As I got older, my family's urging for marriage was getting louder and louder, so I had to step into this field known as the "blind date market".
I am a white-collar worker with a monthly salary of 200,000 yuan, although my income is not low, but in this bustling city blind date market, it doesn't seem to have much advantage. Because I am an existence known as an "older leftover woman", this term is simply a label in the blind date market, and it seems to carry an insurmountable shackle.
Every blind date is a disappointment again and again. Men often show hesitation and worry when they learn my age, as if I am a hot potato and no one wants to approach. Faced with such a situation, I also felt extremely frustrated and helpless.
Until one day, I met a small clerk with a monthly salary of only 3,000. His name is Zhang Wei, and he is an employee of a small company, and he can't be more ordinary. However, he gave me an unusual feeling.
Our blind date was on a sunny afternoon. As soon as I met him, I was attracted by his simplicity and sincerity. Although he does not have any outstanding appearance and tall figure, the firmness and warmth revealed in his eyes made me feel an inexplicable peace of mind and trust.
We talked a lot, talking about each other's work, life, and ideals. Although his income is not high, I am touched by his love for life and his expectations for the future. He told me that although his current work is not remarkable, he has a heart of struggle, and he believes that as long as he works hard, he will one day be able to realize his dream.
As I listened to his words, I felt an inexplicable feeling in my heart. Perhaps, love does not care about the wealth and status of the other party, but about the sincerity and understanding between each other. At that moment, I suddenly understood that I didn't need a man with a salary of 200,000 a month, what I needed was someone who was willing to share my life with me, someone who was willing to give my heart for me.
So, I accepted Zhang Wei's pursuit without hesitation, and we started a sweet relationship. Although the outside world does not think of us optimistically, I firmly believe that as long as we love each other, we can overcome all difficulties and come together.
Now, Zhang Wei and I are married, although life is still not so easy, but with each other's company and support, I feel that I am the happiest woman in the world. Because in my eyes, he is not a small clerk with a salary of 3,000 a month, but my true love, and the most precious gift in my life.