In 2016, at the celebration banquet of the movie "Break Up and Say I Love You".
Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen appeared as "true couples" and showed their affection.
That day also happened to be the 10th anniversary of their relationship.
During this period, Fang Lishen specially prepared a small surprise for Deng Lixin, and the two also imagined going to Switzerland for the 10th anniversary.
Who knows, but in just a few months, they officially announced the news of their breakup.
This fairy tale love in the entertainment industry in the eyes of everyone came to an abrupt end.
Perhaps, it really answered that sentence:
The longer you are in a relationship, the easier it is to break up.
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In 2003, fellow singers Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen sang a song "Good Intentions".
Perhaps the two stood together too right, and their scandal soon spread from the outside world.
A few years later, the scandalous man and woman were invited to participate in the classic love trilogy directed by Ye Nianchen:
"Exclusive Love", "Very Love", "My Favorite".
With the release of the three films, the scandal between Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen has also intensified.
During that time, they were recognized as the best on-screen couple.
Even, there are many people who feel that they are simply in love.
At that time, the names of Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen were almost completely linked together.
As if one person is mentioned, another must be mentioned.
But no one admitted this scandal.
Later, Deng Lixin even publicly denied it, saying that the cooperation between the two was just an arrangement by the company.
However, this is not the case, in fact, they are indeed a pair of lovers.
In 2006, the two took over the filming of "Exclusive Trial Love".
In the day-to-day plays, the feelings generated under the ambiguous lights extend from the play to the outside of the play.
The two young hearts couldn't help beating like crazy for each other, and they went from a gossip couple to a real couple in this way.
But at that time, the company did not allow artists to fall in love, and they could only tacitly talk about underground love.
In order not to be discovered, the two did not even date alone in the first five years of their relationship.
Every time you meet in public, you have to pretend to be cool, as if you don't know each other well.
Later, when their careers stabilized, they began to date privately, but they were still cautious and always aware of the wind and grass around them.
When watching a movie, you can't enter or leave the theater at the same time.
You can't travel on the same flight.
When staying in a hotel, because they always move on their front and back feet, the hotel staff often think that they are cheating.
Is this kind of relationship hard? Of course it's hard.
But the hands that clasped in the dimly lit theater, the brief time together during the trip, all those small, loving moments gave them the courage to keep going.
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It has been said that there are three things in the world that cannot be hidden:
Cough, poverty and love.
Therefore, no matter how well you hide your love, there will be a day when you will be discovered.
In 2012, when Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen were traveling in the Maldives, they were photographed.
For this, they had to admit their romance.
Fortunately, at this time, both the company and the public have a supportive attitude towards their love.
Perhaps to make up for the time they missed together when they were in an underground relationship, after making their relationship public, they began to show their affection in a high-profile manner.
will not only sing sweetly at the concert as a couple, but also participate in variety shows together and share stories in love.
When the relationship between the two was about to reach its 10th anniversary, director Ye Nianchen approached them again, hoping that they would work together to shoot the movie "Break Up and Say I Love You".
In the film, they have been married for 10 years, with frequent conflicts and broken marriages.
But after separation, the two grew up separately and had a deeper understanding of marriage, and finally reunited.
This story, in a way, is quite similar to their real life.
So everyone thought that at the end of the story of Deng Lixin and Fang Lishen, it must also be a marriage and love for the rest of their lives.
However, no one expected that three months after the release of the movie, the couple who had been running for 10 years chose to break up.
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Ten years of feelings have been burned, and too many people are upset for them.
During that time, there was a lot of speculation about the reason why the two broke up.
Most of those speculations revolve around the point of "marriage".
Some people say that Deng Lixin wants to get married, but Fang Lishen is unwilling.
Some people also said that Fang Lishen wanted to get married, but Deng Lixin was unwilling.
And the two parties also expressed their stance on this, saying that the breakup has nothing to do with whether they are married or not.
But whether this is really the case is difficult to say.
Once, Deng Lixin participated in an event alone and was urged to marry by friends in the circle.
Smile Display:
"It's time. ”
But when Fang Lishen was urged to marry, his attitude was always not very straightforward.
"It's a bit impulsive, a surprise. ”
Generally speaking, the longer two people are together, the less passion will be left in the relationship.
If marriage requires a little impulse, then if you don't get married after 10 years of love, the likelihood of getting married in the future will only get smaller and smaller.
Obviously, Fang Lishen's answer had already laid the groundwork for the later separation of the two.
After the breakup, they each experienced a new romance.
Whenever there is a gap between the two sides, fans will always hope that they can get back together again.
However, if the mirror is broken, it will be broken, and it will not be the same when it is put back together, and those terrible cracks will always exist.
The same is true for relationships, most of the separation of adults is carefully considered, and if they choose to separate, there is a reason why they can no longer continue.
In the past 10 years, they will not cheat, but in the next 10 years, they may no longer have a good place around each other.
Although love to the end, the song is gone.
But don't be sorry, don't look back.
Because, in the future, new people will come into our lives.