The first marriage is not as good as the second marriage, a phrase that the old people often say!
The goodness here is not only reflected in the relationship between husband and wife, but also in the attitude of your in-laws towards you and family treatment.
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Chen Meng is the daughter-in-law of Brother Dayi, the second daughter-in-law to be precise!
Chen Meng's husband is named Zhu Xiaowei and is Brother Dayi's only son
Don't look at Zhu Xiaowei is only 23 years old, he has a wealth of "marriage experience"!
Five years ago, Zhu Xiaowei started his blind date career at the request of his father!
At that time, the outside world didn't understand, Zhu Xiaowei was only 18 years old, with a junior high school education, his eloquence was very poor, and Brother Dayi was so rich, why was he so anxious to let his son start a family?
Later we learned:
Zhu Xiaowei dropped out of school at the age of 14, went out to work for three years without earning a penny, and developed a bad habit of "obsessing with mobile games"!
Brother Dayi is so busy, he doesn't have time to supervise him at all, the only way is to find a daughter-in-law, and he won't make any mistakes if he has someone to take care of!
A few months after the blind date, under the introduction of the matchmaker, Zhu Xiaowei met Chen Yanan!
The two families are also a good match, Chen Yanan's family is well-off, her parents are very rich, she herself is still working in the hospital, she is good in size and appearance, and she is completely worthy of Zhu Xiaowei!
A year later, on the National Day, the two got married in the presence of relatives and friends!
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As the first daughter-in-law of Brother Dayi, Chen Yanan's treatment in the Zhu family is very high!
Brother Coat offered a sky-high dowry of "500,000 Mercedes-Benz cars, 180,000 cash, two county houses, and some jewelry".
When she got married, she wore gold and silver, and there were 12 bridesmaids and groomsmen alone, all of whom drove in BMW cars
I know that this is Brother Dayi's son marrying a daughter-in-law, and those who don't know think that a wealthy family is new
You think that's the end of it?
During the Chinese New Year, the coat sister-in-law prepared a red envelope of 100,000 yuan for Chen Yanan, which was her salary for two years when she was a nurse
Every time Chen Yanan returned to Zhulou Village, the coat brother and sister-in-law would prepare carefully, for fear of snubbing her
But the dedication of Brother Dayi's family did not move Chen Yanan
The latter quit her job as a nurse on the third day after her marriage and entered the field of bringing goods in a high-profile manner
Relying on the popularity of her in-laws, she has gained three million fans
At this time, everyone realized that for Chen Yanan, marriage was just a springboard, and she didn't take it seriously at all!
A year later, Chen Yanan and Zhu Xiaowei separated, the reason is: he is not enterprising and unmotivated!
Hearing such a reason, netizens laughed, didn't Chen Yanan know that Zhu Xiaowei was an old man at first? Isn't this excuse too perfunctory?
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After divorcing Chen Yanan, in just a few months, Zhu Xiaowei met Chen Meng
After a simple contact, the two decided to get married!
Compared with Chen Yanan, Chen Meng's family background is much worse, and it can be described as "four walls".
When we got married, we didn't see a decent wedding process
The two were also dressed in ordinary clothes, and the "million bride price" disappeared
It may be that the children of poor families know how to cherish it better, after marrying Zhu Xiaowei, Chen Meng devoted himself to helping Xiaowei grow up, never touched the Internet, and every time he returned to Zhulou Village, he gave Xiaowei enough face!
The word "respect" is something that Zhu Xiaowei has never received from Chen Yanan, and this is also the key to ensuring the longevity of the marriage
A year after marriage, Chen Meng gave birth to a child
As the saying goes, mothers are more expensive than children, can Chen Meng rely on children to take the position? Become the "hostess" of the Zhu family?
On May 7th, Brother Dayi went to the confinement center to visit his daughter-in-law and grandson!
Judging from Brother Dayi's financial resources today, it is not difficult to spend hundreds of thousands of yuan to let Chen Meng live in a high-end confinement center and find a few people to serve, right?
The reality is: Chen Meng lives in a very poorly decorated room, there are only two beds in the room, one is a double bed, one is a single bed, and nothing else, no different from a rental room!
Imagine, if it was Chen Yanan who gave birth to the child, not Chen Meng, would Brother Dayi snub her so much?
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In the video, Chen Meng, who "disappeared for a long time", appeared
She wears her trademark shawl hair, wears loose pajamas, and has her phone on the side
I don't know if it's because she hasn't rested well, or if her nutrition is not in place, she is in a very poor state, and her face is yellow
Husband Zhu Xiaowei stood beside him, much thinner than before!
Brother Dayi came from a hard life and was reluctant to spend money, which we can all understand
But does this mean that he wants Chen Meng to live in a simple confinement room?
On weekdays, we always say that we make money to improve the living environment of our families
In Chen Meng, Lao Mo didn't see it
In Lao Mo's opinion, Chen Meng married Zhu Xiaowei, who was married for the second time, and Brother Dayi's family should cherish this girl even more and hold her in the palm of their hands!
If Chen Meng's treatment in the Zhu family is not as good as Chen Yanan, it will be ridiculous, what do you say?