Habits, a seemingly insignificant daily behavior, can have a profound impact on our lives.
Good habits are like a warm spring breeze, adding a touch of color to our lives and providing a lot of convenience.
However, bad habits are like a destructive force, silently eroding our lives, bringing annoyance, and even distorting other people's perception of us.
In this fast-paced era, it is more important than ever to review and adjust our habits to make life better.
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We all know that it takes time and perseverance to develop a good habit. It is said that it takes at least 21 days of sustained effort to develop a new habit.
However, it takes longer and more determination to break a bad habit than it does to develop a good habit.
From 21 days to 90 days, or even longer, the struggles and repetitions during this period are undoubtedly a great test of our willpower.
Bad habits are everywhere, they are like stubborn weeds that can grow in all corners of life if you are not careful. Even the seemingly elegant activity of tea tasting is not immune.
Many tea drinkers, while enjoying the aroma of tea, unconsciously develop some bad tea drinking habits.
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Some people like to pretend to understand and brag indiscriminately at the tea table. They may not be experts in tea or tea ceremony, but they like to appear omniscient in front of everyone.
Whenever the topic is about the varieties of tea, the process of making it, or the techniques of making tea, these people will talk endlessly, even exaggerated.
However, this kind of behavior actually destroys the tranquility and harmony that should be due to the tea tasting, and it is easy to make people doubt its true cultivation and quality.
Do not wash the tea set before drinking tea
Cleaning the tea set is an important step before making tea, but unfortunately, this step is often overlooked by many tea lovers.
They may feel that cleaning the tea set is redundant or omit this part in a hurry.
However, unwashed tea utensils may have tea stains, dirt or other impurities left behind, which can affect the taste and hygiene of the tea soup.
What's more, long-term use of unwashed tea sets may also pose a potential threat to health.
Pointing fingers at others making tea
When the host carefully brews tea for you, as a guest, you should be grateful and respect the fruits of the host's labor. But some people like to point out and comment on the owner's tea-making skills.
They may think they know a lot about tea, so they are rigorously judged on every move of their host.
However, this behavior is actually very impolite, not only does it disrespect the owner, but it also appears to lack basic upbringing and politeness.
In the process of tasting tea, we should learn to appreciate and appreciate the host's dedication, rather than blindly picking and criticizing.
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Recognizing the effects of these bad habits, we should actively seek to change. In order to improve our personal qualities and self-cultivation, we must face up to and strive to correct these bad habits.
This is not an easy task, but it is only through continuous self-reflection and effort that we can gradually abandon these bad habits that are not conducive to personal growth.
What's more, correcting bad habits not only helps us build a good personal image, but also makes us more comfortable in interpersonal interactions.
Especially in social situations such as tea tasting, a person who behaves appropriately and respects others is often more likely to win the favor and respect of others.
Therefore, in order to truly feel the charm of tea culture and build a harmonious relationship with others, we should strive to correct our bad habits from now on.
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The way to taste tea is to cultivate the body and mind. Getting rid of the bad habit of drinking tea is not only a respect for others, but also an improvement for yourself.
Let's work together to abandon bad habits, use tea as a medium, cultivate body and mind, and enjoy the real charm of tea culture.